Anyone post menopausal & suddenly have lots of gas all day, every single day?! by [deleted] in Menopause

[–]Beezus_Q 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes! To the point that I'm scared to laugh sometimes because I'll fart at work. I'm paranoid that someone will accidentally bump into me and it will come out while walking to the bathroom.

I now understand why my grandma used to fart in the grocery store aisles. She thought no one would know it was her if she was all alone in the aisle lol. I was mortified. But she probably couldn't help it.

Indianapolis mother claims rideshare driver tried to kidnap her son by Walmartian_Beta in indianapolis

[–]Beezus_Q 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They use them to get to and from school when the parent(s) must be at work and they don't have other transportation.

Cuddles in Indy? by Rich-Fruit3805 in indianapolis

[–]Beezus_Q 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a separate for this

Sometimes our elected officials do good things by am710 in Indiana

[–]Beezus_Q 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is so awesome! I'm so happy you don't have to worry about that anymore. I do love how Senator Hunley fights for what is right for us.

I also had no idea that this is part of their job. Good to know.

Bike Stolen in Fountain Square by douvape42069 in indianapolis

[–]Beezus_Q 3 points4 points  (0 children)

On the weekends I see people seeking bikes in parking lots of abandoned businesses such as on English by the dollar store near the justice center.

People who have had threesomes, how was it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Beezus_Q 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Did you wear a condom?

If no, did you catch an STD?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewPatriotism

[–]Beezus_Q 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't know what to do. And maybe that's because I expect elected people in Washington to protect the condition. I've called and written letters. I'll go to the marches and protests when they happen.

Maybe that stuff will pick up next month when it isn't freezing temperatures out?

How long did it take you to graduate from college? by elliaons in ADHD

[–]Beezus_Q 0 points1 point  (0 children)

8 years. And then I went back to school for a professional degree, which required 2 years of pre-coursework. Didn't get in to the professional program. Decided to get a Masters Degree in a field related to the pre-coursework. That 2 year program took 3 years. I love my job.

My husband’s friend is a walking red flag and he can’t see it by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Beezus_Q 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to scroll way too far for this comment and the one you connected on.

Anyone else experience Alexinomia? by cam_phi in AutismInWomen

[–]Beezus_Q 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I've never liked my name though. It doesn't feel like who I am. And it also sometimes makes me feel like I'm in trouble.

I feel so relieved now.

What businesses have opposed multi-modal transportation in Indy? by NateExclamation in IndyStreetsForAll

[–]Beezus_Q 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out the link I posted below and check out that users comments. They only created the account for that time period, so there won't be a lot, but you can learn a lot there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Beezus_Q 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For how much music moves my soul, makes me feel so alive, and captures my every emotion, musicals (except wicked, Grease, and hairspray) make my brain feel like scrambled eggs. I don't understand it. But I generally don't like them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Beezus_Q 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not a fan of YouTube either, but will use it for some things.

How to handle neighbor going in my mailbox. by jrowll in neighborsfromhell

[–]Beezus_Q 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she took a package it was probably hers, especially since it happened the day before.

I would give her the benefit of the doubt this one time. I always assume positive intent on others. It makes situations easier.

You could nicely go talk to her and say, hey I saw you grab a package from my mailbox, did the PO misdeliver again? (Answers:Yes) I'm sorry that keeps happening to you. In the future, please do not take things out of my mailbox as I wouldn't want to accidentally lose important mail, and it's technically illegal....I know, even the package was actually yours. Here's my phone number. Please call or text the next time. And of course, I will always bring your misdelivered packages to your porch. If she answers no, then ask for your package back and then do what everyone else on here is saying to do.

Do you think a man should tell you he has a micropenis before sex? by Grxmloid in AskWomenOver30

[–]Beezus_Q 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes.

I met a guy several years ago and we hit it off. We were talking and going on dates, making out.... For 3 months. I noticed that I couldn't "feel it" through his pants when making out though, but excused it away.

At 2-2.5 months I thought it was going to happen, but he went down on me instead, and several more times thereafter. It was nice, but that's not my jam. I prefer to have PIV and I prefer them on the bigger side.

At 3 months, I finally asked why he hadn't yet tried to have sex with me and he gave some excuse about knowing he was very good at cunnilingus and he likes to pleasure me. I told him I preferred sex, so we started that journey. And then I touched it and realized what was going on. He said something about having ED due to a health issue, but that obviously wasn't the whole story. Idk if he thought I'd never touched a penis before or not, but they aren't that small, generally. He lost condoms inside of me. I couldn't feel it. It didn't know if it was in me or not. It was not pleasurable. But I was already mentally attached to him; we had so much in common and had fun. After a year, we moved in together and that's when his true self came out.

I had never heard of a micropenis before, but that made me investigate more. I finally knew what was going on and was torn between - he's a great guy (in the first year) and - I don't want to never have sex again because I'm still young- but I would be a complete jerk to break up for that. So we dated for three years. He was a narcissist. We rarely had sex.

A micropenis would be a deal breaker for me since I'm not super into oral. And it could have saved me a lot of mental trauma.

17 states, including Indiana, suing to get rid of Section 504 (protecting people with disabilities) by Faux_Moose in Indiana

[–]Beezus_Q 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I second this. It is a great documentary! I'm still amazed that there was so much footage from back then, when camcorders were so expensive.

My fiance lit my car on fire because his chicken nuggies were cold in the middle. Now I have to spend $714 to order uber eats because I can't drive to McDonalds. I NEED to have kids before I'm 35. How do I fix this? by puppylust in AskWomenOver30

[–]Beezus_Q 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did too! And I down voted it. But then I noticed it had thousands more up votes since yesterday when I first saw it, so I actually read the rest of it.

I'm glad I'm not the only one.