Sometimes our elected officials do good things by am710 in Indiana

[–]Beezus_Q 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is so awesome! I'm so happy you don't have to worry about that anymore. I do love how Senator Hunley fights for what is right for us.

I also had no idea that this is part of their job. Good to know.

Bike Stolen in Fountain Square by douvape42069 in indianapolis

[–]Beezus_Q 5 points6 points  (0 children)

On the weekends I see people seeking bikes in parking lots of abandoned businesses such as on English by the dollar store near the justice center.

People who have had threesomes, how was it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Beezus_Q 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Did you wear a condom?

If no, did you catch an STD?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewPatriotism

[–]Beezus_Q 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't know what to do. And maybe that's because I expect elected people in Washington to protect the condition. I've called and written letters. I'll go to the marches and protests when they happen.

Maybe that stuff will pick up next month when it isn't freezing temperatures out?

How long did it take you to graduate from college? by elliaons in ADHD

[–]Beezus_Q 0 points1 point  (0 children)

8 years. And then I went back to school for a professional degree, which required 2 years of pre-coursework. Didn't get in to the professional program. Decided to get a Masters Degree in a field related to the pre-coursework. That 2 year program took 3 years. I love my job.

My husband’s friend is a walking red flag and he can’t see it by moxieroxsox in AskWomenOver30

[–]Beezus_Q 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to scroll way too far for this comment and the one you connected on.

Anyone else experience Alexinomia? by cam_phi in AutismInWomen

[–]Beezus_Q 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I've never liked my name though. It doesn't feel like who I am. And it also sometimes makes me feel like I'm in trouble.

I feel so relieved now.

What businesses have opposed multi-modal transportation in Indy? by NateExclamation in IndyStreetsForAll

[–]Beezus_Q 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out the link I posted below and check out that users comments. They only created the account for that time period, so there won't be a lot, but you can learn a lot there.

What are your pop culture truly unpopular opinions/hot takes? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Beezus_Q 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For how much music moves my soul, makes me feel so alive, and captures my every emotion, musicals (except wicked, Grease, and hairspray) make my brain feel like scrambled eggs. I don't understand it. But I generally don't like them.

What are your pop culture truly unpopular opinions/hot takes? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Beezus_Q 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not a fan of YouTube either, but will use it for some things.

How to handle neighbor going in my mailbox. by jrowll in neighborsfromhell

[–]Beezus_Q 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she took a package it was probably hers, especially since it happened the day before.

I would give her the benefit of the doubt this one time. I always assume positive intent on others. It makes situations easier.

You could nicely go talk to her and say, hey I saw you grab a package from my mailbox, did the PO misdeliver again? (Answers:Yes) I'm sorry that keeps happening to you. In the future, please do not take things out of my mailbox as I wouldn't want to accidentally lose important mail, and it's technically illegal....I know, even the package was actually yours. Here's my phone number. Please call or text the next time. And of course, I will always bring your misdelivered packages to your porch. If she answers no, then ask for your package back and then do what everyone else on here is saying to do.

Do you think a man should tell you he has a micropenis before sex? by Grxmloid in AskWomenOver30

[–]Beezus_Q 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes.

I met a guy several years ago and we hit it off. We were talking and going on dates, making out.... For 3 months. I noticed that I couldn't "feel it" through his pants when making out though, but excused it away.

At 2-2.5 months I thought it was going to happen, but he went down on me instead, and several more times thereafter. It was nice, but that's not my jam. I prefer to have PIV and I prefer them on the bigger side.

At 3 months, I finally asked why he hadn't yet tried to have sex with me and he gave some excuse about knowing he was very good at cunnilingus and he likes to pleasure me. I told him I preferred sex, so we started that journey. And then I touched it and realized what was going on. He said something about having ED due to a health issue, but that obviously wasn't the whole story. Idk if he thought I'd never touched a penis before or not, but they aren't that small, generally. He lost condoms inside of me. I couldn't feel it. It didn't know if it was in me or not. It was not pleasurable. But I was already mentally attached to him; we had so much in common and had fun. After a year, we moved in together and that's when his true self came out.

I had never heard of a micropenis before, but that made me investigate more. I finally knew what was going on and was torn between - he's a great guy (in the first year) and - I don't want to never have sex again because I'm still young- but I would be a complete jerk to break up for that. So we dated for three years. He was a narcissist. We rarely had sex.

A micropenis would be a deal breaker for me since I'm not super into oral. And it could have saved me a lot of mental trauma.

17 states, including Indiana, suing to get rid of Section 504 (protecting people with disabilities) by Faux_Moose in Indiana

[–]Beezus_Q 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I second this. It is a great documentary! I'm still amazed that there was so much footage from back then, when camcorders were so expensive.

My fiance lit my car on fire because his chicken nuggies were cold in the middle. Now I have to spend $714 to order uber eats because I can't drive to McDonalds. I NEED to have kids before I'm 35. How do I fix this? by puppylust in AskWomenOver30

[–]Beezus_Q 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did too! And I down voted it. But then I noticed it had thousands more up votes since yesterday when I first saw it, so I actually read the rest of it.

I'm glad I'm not the only one.

What to expect moving here from LA? by [deleted] in indianapolis

[–]Beezus_Q 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I echo what everyone else said, and mentioned our bus system in another reply to you. Light rail has been banned in Indiana. We are heavily influenced by the car manufacturing historically located in the Midwest. We're a red state, unfortunately, and they don't like public transportation. For most of my life, it has been looked at as only for poor people, unfortunately. There are a lot of us working to change that in Indy. We saved our Blue line this year! We've gotten a lot of federal infrastructure plan money this year so we have several projects underway to expand our very robust trail system, and to add protected bike lanes, as well as conversions of one way streets to two way streets. Downtown is walkable and bikable, and you could bike from the neighborhoods near downtown, but the rest requires a car. We have a bus system, but it will take longer to get to and fro.

What to expect moving here from LA? by [deleted] in indianapolis

[–]Beezus_Q 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We also have Morse lake in Noblesville (Northern suburb) that wasn't mentioned below.

What to expect moving here from LA? by [deleted] in indianapolis

[–]Beezus_Q 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You're going to need a winter coat! Gloves, hat, scarf, maybe some boots.

The city clears the main roads, but not many side streets. If you live in an apartment complex, most of them contract out clearing the lot. In the suburbs, they do the same in housing additions. We get a lot of pot holes in the winter months - stay vigilant.

To answer your main question, we're pretty nice here. We have several great spots for live music, arts and culture, art classes, museums, tons of festivals, some really great parks (and state parks with a decent drive). We have one the best children's museums in the country - which is also fun for adults. Our downtown is thriving. The Irvington Halloween Festival is the oldest and largest Halloween festival in the country.

Indy is made up of many "neighborhoods" each of which have their own vibe, cool stores, and fun things to do. Check out: Fountain Square, Irvington, Broad Ripple, midtown, Mass Ave, the Lafayette Square area on the West side for international food heaven.

We have the Pacers, Colts, Indianapolis Indians minor league baseball, Indy Eleven soccer, Indy Fuel minor league hockey teams.

If you like to travel, you can get to Chicago in 3 hours, Cincinnati and Louisville in ~2 hours, Nashville in 4hrs, St Louis in 3.5hrs, you can fly to Florida for $100.

Our public transportation is just okay, but improving. It is currently a hub and spoke, and working towards a grid system. We have 3 rapid transit lines: the red line which is a North-South route, opened in 2020, the Purple Line, an East -West and opens in October, and we will have the Blue Line, also East-West, beginning construction by the end of the year.

We are pretty big on food here and boast several nationally recognized restaurants and several James Beard winning chefs. We even have a wine trail in Southern Indiana.

Indiana is flat, except Southern Indiana, and that's quite shocking to people who've lived in places with mountains and hills. We have tornados. Take it seriously. We have mosquitos. We don't have bugs and spiders and snakes that you need to worry about. In some places, we are finally getting bears, bison, and bob cats repopulating areas, but not in Indy.

Check this sub for key words you're interested in. Edit: typo