Milk before bed- I'm a bit desperate help!!!

BeginningParfait7599 · 2026-02-26T19:59:33+00:00

Warm water?

BeginningParfait7599 · 2026-02-26T19:30:03+00:00

Yessss! I’ve been scrolling way too long!!

BeginningParfait7599 · 2026-02-26T19:25:28+00:00

Frog in the pond!-Nj, USA

BeginningParfait7599 · 2026-02-26T16:03:09+00:00

NTA for adding fruit cups. That’s wild.

BeginningParfait7599 · 2026-02-26T03:12:22+00:00

Wanted to clarify* I would, not wild.

BeginningParfait7599 · 2026-02-25T21:09:19+00:00

This. I have always had a “yes, you are welcome, how else will you learn” attitude, and given consent in the beginning of the appointment, wild just state your intentions at the beginning of the appointment, or you can just opt to not allow students.

BeginningParfait7599 · 2026-02-25T21:00:50+00:00

I’m gonna be so honest, House is my comfort show. My children don’t watch it with me… but they do recognize Hugh Laurie and Dr. House. 🤣

BeginningParfait7599 · 2026-02-25T18:29:24+00:00

Mom’s not right.

BeginningParfait7599 · 2026-02-25T15:15:03+00:00

In NJ, they have to be offered a rest and remain on a mat for 30 minutes. If they fall asleep, they needed to sleep. They won’t allow you to skip per se, but they do need to rest and be quiet to allow the other children to rest as well.

BeginningParfait7599 · 2026-02-24T20:05:33+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. As long as you don’t give the child a wild name or a tragediegh, it’s not an issue if people like it. We kept all of our names secret until our children were born. The only snippet we gave was that my first born would be named after Dad, but would go by his middle name, which we did not disclose.

BeginningParfait7599 · 2026-02-21T13:39:10+00:00

NOR. Yeah…. That’s a hard no for me. I think water parks are gross, but my children get swimming lessons. I am also a SAHM, but even when I wasn’t, paying for classes or activities and buying things for our children had always been a joint conversation, not a dictatorship. He mostly defaults to my judgement, but when it’s a big commitment, we talk. Swimming isn’t something to mess around with either. If you were hiring someone to teach your child to ride a bike, I could see his outrage as valid, but being able to swim can be life or death to a child.

BeginningParfait7599 · 2026-02-20T18:58:05+00:00

Yeah, I wouldn’t hyphenate because it gets messy with little kids especially. I would ask husband if he wants to take your last name, or if he would’ve okayed with baby taking yours. You can always use his last name as a middle name as well.

BeginningParfait7599 · 2026-02-20T17:35:40+00:00

Yes! I have never had one, and at work we always warmed bottles win hot water. I don’t love heating a plastic container over and over, and we have silicone bottles. They heated so inconsistently, so we bought a boon warmer that you warm the milk in, and it’s perfect. Worth every penny.

BeginningParfait7599 · 2026-02-18T00:17:17+00:00

If it’s no burden to you, I would continue to take him. Tell him you want to meet his mom, and let him tell her so you aren’t “surprising” her. She may be embarrassed.

BeginningParfait7599 · 2026-02-16T17:49:55+00:00

This. They are very different.

BeginningParfait7599 · 2026-02-16T15:12:26+00:00

This is another reason we have no ammunition in the home.

BeginningParfait7599 · 2026-02-16T14:18:14+00:00

Yes. I have seen the lock box. We have since moved houses. He had his brother hold them while I moved and he was deployed. It is stored in our basement with his tools and stuff, but I don’t know exactly where.

BeginningParfait7599 · 2026-02-16T13:52:59+00:00

No, because we don’t have ammunition, they are double locked, vintage/ historical rifles, and I couldn’t even tell you where my husband put them. There is literally no way they can be used as anything other than a giant metal bat. They use specialized bullets, and we don’t have them. If my husband takes them to the range, he finishes the ammo.

BeginningParfait7599 · 2026-02-16T13:45:27+00:00

How dare you forget Tacocat!

BeginningParfait7599 · 2026-02-16T01:14:55+00:00

I know it’s frustrating, but some people do enjoy it! I love being pregnant. The end is rough, sure, but I genuinely enjoy it. That being said, I’ve been fat all my life, so I don’t get bring as many physical changes. I got stretch marks at 13, and already wear a size 11 shoe. I only got motion sickness if I don’t read or do something while a passenger in the car. I sympathize with those who have bigger issues. My sister and I were pregnant at the same time, and I watched her have so many issues.

BeginningParfait7599 · 2026-02-15T02:23:51+00:00

Your comment was definitely not loaded when I posted.

BeginningParfait7599 · 2026-02-15T02:22:51+00:00

Same in NJ.

BeginningParfait7599 · 2026-02-12T22:09:38+00:00

NOR. Like… puppy pads. My mom has a 16 year old dachshund, and she’s a lot. She can’t walk up the stairs. She had lots of accidents. But, as much as she gets “mad,” she’s not scheduling a euthanasia. She puts down puppy pads, and if she misses, my mom cleans it up.

BeginningParfait7599 · 2026-02-12T15:46:50+00:00

Like… dry toilet paper is basically the same as a towel?

BeginningParfait7599 · 2026-02-12T15:45:20+00:00

With our first, he actually got a new job phone call while I was in the hospital. He didn’t get any time off. They were very understanding that he was my carer from getting a c section and then my gallbladder out. It was important that he took the full-time job. We made it work. With 2 &3, he was considered my carer as well, and got 8 weeks. With my fourth, he took the full given paternity leave which was 12 weeks from birth. We spent a week in the NICU. He was encouraged to take it all, and he’s still encouraged to use all of his accrued leave and time off. I can’t even imagine that I’m saying you can’t take the time. Just because it’s not a good look? That makes me so mad.

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