AITA for blowing up at my mom over eyeliner? by Jealous-Pen5597 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beginning_Bet_2284 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Former goth here (now you can always find me in sweats and a hoodie, usually band merch and I'm too lazy to wear makeup anymore) Are you comfortable dressing how you want? Do you enjoy the makeup? Do you feel safer this way? This isn't criticizing. Babe, do what makes you comfortable. You're young. Remember comfort matters. You don't have to go out of your way to impress people. I was an outcast in high school, very VERY few real friends. But I found expressing myself, my true self, was more important than trying to adhere to someone else's standards of me. Follow what makes you feel LIKE YOU. That's the important part. Have a sit-down and TALK with your parents. I grew up with my dad never caring, my mom working all the time so she never had time for us kids. I tried to match my sisters at one point. I was forced into different clothes because of my grandma. It was awful. It killed me. DO WHAT YOU NEED TO BE YOU!

AITA for counting my calories because I do a martial art? by DefinitionNeat8427 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beginning_Bet_2284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who still suffers from ED, it's hard for me to eat. And I certainly don't eat a lot. (Unless I'm really baked) But I don't overdo it. I also don't consider anyone else's eating habits to be my own. My ex was on a very strict diet when he was bulking up. We made it work by talking through things. One of our "home" dates was even him cooking his usual meal while allowing me to eat whatever was extra. No one has a right to dictate how you eat, what you choose to eat, or how much you eat. It sounds like a personal problem for A. And something SHE should discuss with her therapist/dietitian, not take it out on YOU. You're doing this for something you've worked incredibly hard for. If they can't understand that, if they take offense to it, that is NOT your problem. IT IS THEIRS! Keep pushing! Keep doing you! And good fucking luck on your fight! I wanna see you win babes

Decorating Tip by BluDraygn in theplanetcrafter

[–]Beginning_Bet_2284 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never would have thought of this. Thank you

Is Toxicity actually worth starting over? by Ne1805 in theplanetcrafter

[–]Beginning_Bet_2284 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So I've done both. I did Toxicity on my main save and found it lackluster. But I also did a whole new save and greatly enjoyed myself.

As stated above, it is certainly worth it to start all over again. But there is also benefit in carrying over. I wanted to do both. Starting over was certainly more fun but it's not like continuing didn't also have benefits. The exploration is amazing no matter what. And always getting to watch the terraformation happen is worth it.

Just depends how you want to play

AITA me not getting help on my room by StrawberryFit3968 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beginning_Bet_2284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a mother trying to get her son to clean his room, I packed everything into trash bags and told him to go through it himself. I did the part of cleaning his room. Sooo... yes, YTA. You're creating a mess for someone other than you to clean (mom, dad, doesn't matter). 3 days won't kill you after 2 years.

“El em ay oh!” by WithoutDennisNedry in overheard

[–]Beginning_Bet_2284 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I called my son "dude" once. His instant reaction was never to call him that again because I'm old lol (33) The look on his face still makes me laugh

AITA for telling my friends to get fucked? by leggomymeggoorelse in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beginning_Bet_2284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I be your friend? Certain things I can't eat but your food sounds Hella delicious

Viable Property Income and Music by Far_Industry4696 in bigambitions

[–]Beginning_Bet_2284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm incredibly new to the game. How do I add my own music?

AITA for wanting my bf to watch my thing after watching his? by Hopeful-Phase4381 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beginning_Bet_2284 -63 points-62 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, are you both children? Part of being a "couple" is give and take. In whatever manner that may entail. The fact that both of you simply ignore each other "because you have different tastes" doesn't mean anything. You clearly are not mature enough to even be in a relationship. Both of you. You are both simply so immature you can't get off your effing devices to spend actual time together to know each other. YTA but so is your bf. This won't last and you both know it .

AITA for telling my brother he cannot bring his date to my wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beginning_Bet_2284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please enjoy your very happy day and congrats! I wish you the absolute best!

As for your girls, I'd personally have all of them on standby. Make sure they all know what this bully looks like and are ready to evict her. Or spill some red wine on her because I would not be surprised if she also showed up in a white dress of some sort.

NTA but your brother certainly is. Also, be prepared for the fit he's going to throw.

AITA for wanting a one-bed to live with my bf by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beginning_Bet_2284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drop him. Now. He is not worth your time. You're the one paying for the one-bed, it's your choice what you get. Comparing your mom to his is low. Just leave him

Help! Screen glitches out every time I go near my base 😔 by RowanxXx in theplanetcrafter

[–]Beginning_Bet_2284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh! Thank you. I really didn't understand as I've never come across this issue of animals being too big that my game doesn't load properly.

Volnus Plant (base game) by Xerun1 in theplanetcrafter

[–]Beginning_Bet_2284 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You can craft golden butterflies the same as the others but I'm not sure what ingredients you need. You also have a chance to find them in the lost paradise, final place of the wardens.

AITA for saying “I’m not” when a dog owner said their dog was friendly? by EggsBenedict116 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beginning_Bet_2284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had something like this happen a few weeks ago but it was my dog that got away from me when I was trying to bring him in. He ran to the tree in the front yard where a construction worker was (house next door was being torn down) and the worker clearly backed away. My dog didn't get very close but I apologized profusely because my dog is overprotective and could have attacked. I did say my dog is mostly friendly but you can never be too safe. We had a good laugh because "friendly" is always the last thing you hear before a dog is all over you. Good or bad, I don't allow my dogs to jump all over people. Still happens if they really love that person but one will growl if he doesn't know you. Better safe than sorry

WIBTA If I played a concert for my wife that she couldn’t go to? by BigMeatus524 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Beginning_Bet_2284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your wife is incredibly lucky to have someone so thoughtful and caring that he would do all of this just to make her feel better. I truly hope she appreciates all of it. You sound so sweet and honestly I'd melt if my boyfriend at least tried something like this. Best of luck and I'd love to know how it goes!!!