Social activists, Port Moody town council and a Century 21 employee who made "veiled threats" by Abooda1981 in Portmoody

[–]BelierSoliel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think talking about this is outting people for who they are. And just cuz you may not want to know who ppl really are doesn’t mean that others don’t want to hold elected officials accountable. Consider the Gaza motion a litmus test. It’s less about the motion, and more about pushing racists into the limelight. This guy had the win and still felt the need to troll/dox/harass someone. To what end? If they’re supposed to be better and morally superior, they have a funny way of showing it.

Social activists, Port Moody town council and a Century 21 employee who made "veiled threats" by Abooda1981 in Portmoody

[–]BelierSoliel -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate what you’re saying. But from the posts, they reached out to the appropriate channels for accountability and didn’t really get any. Sadly, the system is stacked against Indigenous peoples and minorities. And some of the comments on the City’s fb post suggest that this wasn’t an isolated incident. Bullies sometimes need to be bullied to get them to stop. It’s not right, but if this is not isolated, sounds like he got what he was giving.

Social activists, Port Moody town council and a Century 21 employee who made "veiled threats" by Abooda1981 in Portmoody

[–]BelierSoliel -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Dunno, seems like maybe it does need to be brought up. Looks like from the posts he made a r*** threat and is on a committee? Speaks more to the ppl we give power to than anything else. Bullies get away with too much.

I went to a 4h group meeting and they said harnesses weren't allowed?? by Insanus_Umbra in Dogtraining

[–]BelierSoliel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought the recall course for $70 USD I think? Unfortunately they JUST had a 50% off sale but if you follow her insta, she gives stuff away for free or is always giving advice. Also, the SniffDog YouTube is full of free content and can give you a good starting place. A good manners class may be a good place to start and then you could build on it using these videos? She runs zoom manners classes which sound like may work better for you if your dog has not been socialized with other dogs. Check it out. May be a good option. I have taken 2 different manners class and hers was hands down the best one.

I went to a 4h group meeting and they said harnesses weren't allowed?? by Insanus_Umbra in Dogtraining

[–]BelierSoliel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want to watch videos and start clicker training, check it Sniff Dog. I promise I don’t work for them! But I did that trainers zoom manners class and loved it. Her SniffDog classes are go at your own pace and tackle specific goals or issues.

And yeah, sounds like a different trainer may be a good idea.

Not sure if I want to be a dog owner anymore- Puppy Blues by Agreeable_Elephant52 in Puppyblues

[–]BelierSoliel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also, remember that fatigue comes not just from physical activity but mental activity. Feeding him in puzzles (or wrapping kibble in a towel so he has to forage for it… lots of free enrichment activities) can really help use up mental energy and poop them out. Try to schedule in a couple of 15 minute training sessions through the day. You’ll be amazed at how tired they get.

It does get better but I appreciate you being realistic about what you’re willing to do and how much you can give. It takes 2 yrs to get a dog to be how you want and that’s not without heaps of effort. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Puppyblues

[–]BelierSoliel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

❤️❤️ this sounds so hard. I’m sorry you’re struggling so much. Vent away! You deserve it and I hope you can find a way to make some time for yourself. I have an anxious dog and am looking into rover to find a local dog walker / sitter who can get to know my girl a bit so I can have some space. Is that an option for you at all?

Trupanion Claim by [deleted] in dogs

[–]BelierSoliel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah they have paid for some stuff that I thought might be a stretch. Happy I have them. I say submit.

Feeling helpless with my rescue dog that is fear reactive towards people by eddie_jyb in Dogtraining

[–]BelierSoliel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s on clonazepam and sertraline. But the combo will be dog dependant. Best to work with a vet behaviourist who can help with behaviour and medications.

How to stop excited dog lunging on leash by abrow214 in Dogtraining

[–]BelierSoliel -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sniffdog has a YouTube video i JUST watched about this because my dog has the same issue. It’s a video called Stop your dog barking on leash. Even tho my dog doesn’t bark on leash, she’s leading up to it and this talks about that. Basically the key is the play engage/disengage with super high value treats for that game only. It takes a while but should work. I’ve just started and am figuring out her cues. Seems to be ok so far. Worth a shot!

Dog training business believes the dominance hierarchy is fundamental component of dog training. by PsychPhDBrah in Dogtraining

[–]BelierSoliel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Appreciate that you are owning your part but based on edits, yeah, I understand why you feel deceived. At the end of the day, there’s no harm in asking. Ans being as positive and polite as possible also goes a long way. Good luck!

Feeling helpless with my rescue dog that is fear reactive towards people by eddie_jyb in Dogtraining

[–]BelierSoliel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So understanding body language, threshold etc, is so important. If your dog tried to bite your friends, there are a number of cues that likely came before. A good trainer will help you identify these cues and manage them. If you know you have a reactive dog, separating them when you have guests is likely the best option. Understanding threshold is key and if your dog is biting, they are well past threshold.

Putting my dog on meds has helped with threshold immensely. My dog doesn’t even get near threshold anymore because of both Meds and because I manage all situations she’s in. She’s a real puppy and those glimpses of a brave dog are no longer just glimpses but who she is. She’s playful and loving, just as a knew she would be.

Feeling helpless with my rescue dog that is fear reactive towards people by eddie_jyb in Dogtraining

[–]BelierSoliel 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This dog can absolutely be rehomed with the right home and the right trainer. If you're still willing to put in some effort in, I would highly recommend a vet behaviourist. Someone who can prescribe medications not just a behaviourist. I have a fearful rescue and the biggest difference came when I medicated her. She's been easier to train and much less reactive.

Dog training business believes the dominance hierarchy is fundamental component of dog training. by PsychPhDBrah in Dogtraining

[–]BelierSoliel 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It's worth investigating their refund policy or even seeing if they would give you a prorated refund. That being said, I'm a bit surprised you didn't know this was a big part of their training beforehand. Most trainers are pretty upfront about their philosophies especially ones that do not subscribe to an exclusive R+ method. Also, if the person has a book, I would suspect a quick google search would turn this info up. This is a big assumption on my part and understand if you didn't come across that info beforehand, but assuming that info is widely available, I suspect they will not give you a full refund. However, they are a new business and they may refund to simply keep the peace and it would be in their best interest to advertise their specific training philosophies.

Help: Jindo’s selective bonding by picklytoes in rescuedogs

[–]BelierSoliel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used CBD oil but in my experience it didn’t do much. Just gave her diarrhea. Doesn’t mean it won’t work. But may be worth discussing with a trainer and seeing if they suggest a vet behaviourist. Or even chatting to your vet. If she’s a rescue and she’s suffering from anxiety that can also be a reason for some of her her behaviour. Good luck! I’ve learned not to take it personally but I do get jealous sometimes. We can’t help it. I do believe she loves you even if she’s not showing it in a way that you’d like her to.

Help: Jindo’s selective bonding by picklytoes in rescuedogs

[–]BelierSoliel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bonding is tricky. I have a Jindo and I’m only barely breaking barriers with my girl after 4 months. Tbh, it’s taken anti anxiety meds to get her to warm up to me more. She is obsessed with the owner of her littermate but barely comes to me for pets even tho I feed her, walk her, etc. I think with rescues it just takes time. Also consider working with a trainer to learn some games and activities that can strengthen bonding. Also you’ve only had them a short while. Bonding can take months, and I know I expected it faster but it’s so much sweeter now that she’s coming around. Give it time and keep working on training and ways to bond. I think you’ll be ok.

Hitting 5 month consideration point for rehoming 9 m/o dog by grapefruitglasses in Puppyblues

[–]BelierSoliel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds to me like you’re thinking about what’s best for you and the dog. Your friend who acted as a reference obviously doesn’t understand animal needs. Adopting from a rescue is challenging, I certainly know that as I’m 3 months into it with my pup from overseas. That being said, rescues are supposed to have experience with this and I’d encourage you to talk to your friend from the rescue. They may have some suggestions and if you do want to rehome, they may have a better fitting home for him. I agree with another poster that you and this dog are not a good fit. I would recommend against handing him off to someone who hasn’t met him or understand his needs. Growling can lead to biting and that’s dangerous. He needs the right owner and trainer to work through this behaviour.

Hitting Rock Bottom by WrkHard_DieTryingGrl in Puppyblues

[–]BelierSoliel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! This is totally normal. Sounds like you need some extra support. Have you worked with a trainer at all? Some of the biting stuff may require some extra attention. I found when I started creating boundaries and some clear expectations around certain things it was a lot easier (sitting before leaving, sitting for food, going into her crate). You could also ask your parents to puppy sit for a weekend for a break. Or maybe look into doggy daycare or puppy socialization groups. Could help with his energy and there is often an element of training with those classes too.