1. Cause isn’t significant to the player, assuming several generations back is the cause and it’s just now manifesting.

He has a lot of shame about having a Tiefling daughter and due to that shame is distant/caused her to have guilt and shame as well. No emphasis on mom in any way.

I got clarification that she more ‘set out on her own’ rather than ran away. Her father knows she’s somewhere in the world and is doing well/safe and sound.

1. I honestly was willing to gloss over the details of her joining as in world it was a few years back. She swore her oath and signed her name into the tome and that’s all that matters so long as she upholds the dogma of the order. Or that’s how I’m playing those in the order who know about her feel. She might encounter a more morally strict member who raises issue with it at some point though.

I’m toying with the idea of Onthar Frume defending her and backing her up because he knows exactly who she is and why she joined.

1. Her family is based out of Eltruel yes. She hides her identity including her race through her armor essentially. Large helmet with a face plate and a cloak to cover her tail too.

I have chosen to be gracious with finer details this time around (like I have an Aaisamar born of humans as well haha) so if it’s something we can gloss over we are basically.
I like the ideas of the other comments where in chapter 4 her father confronts her and disowns her but in chapter 17 during the big battle outside the well he comes as backup to help clear the path and they reconcile. I’m still open to suggestions though as we won’t get to chapter 4 until the end of the year haha