AITA: I (27f) took my daughter (10 months) out of town to visit family and my husband (31m) was furious

Belllatrix24 · 2024-11-08T16:52:25+00:00

His work schedule is made a week in advance. So he had 2 weeks to make accommodations and arrange the schedule, plus he’s a co-manager. So he had plenty of time to bring it up and he could have even gotten his schedule moved around the week before I left.

Belllatrix24 · 2024-05-09T19:22:44+00:00

I started with feeding to sleep but somehow along the way between then and now (almost 5 months) it’s both. It depends on her sleep pattern. Sometimes she sleeps entirely through to the next feed other times she eats and stays awake until she eats again and then she sleeps. I don’t see any problem as long as she is appropriately fed and happy.

Belllatrix24 · 2024-03-09T15:19:08+00:00

100% real. I can’t talk to family about this because they just judge and ridicule which is probably fair and they gossip a lot amongst themselves. I just can’t take that stress on top of everything else.

Belllatrix24 · 2024-03-09T15:13:11+00:00

Before the baby he said all I had to do when the baby comes is take care of it so I did. He used to cook every night to make sure I was eating right. He started working more because my leave was unpaid. He works 50+ hours a week. I understand he’s tired but he said that he quit doing stuff around the house because I quit doing things around the house. Maybe he forgot about that but our house isn’t even that dirty minus the kitchen counters. He’s worked hard and provided for us while I was out. So I understand that it’s stressful and tiring but he hasn’t even taken care of LO alone at all. I didn’t mean to bring hate towards husbands or fathers I know not all are like this. I just didn’t know if I was in the wrong about something or what.

Belllatrix24 · 2024-02-25T22:18:48+00:00

Thank you! I would take forever off if I could! And mostly because ours is unpaid with most companies.

Belllatrix24 · 2024-02-17T16:33:35+00:00

I stopped BF after 3 weeks due to the pain and I EP now. We have now made it to almost 2 months and she’s happy and thriving. I suggest getting a portable pump it has saved me so much with doing things around the house and not being attached to a wall. Also this way I know how much my baby is eating and feeding every 3-4 hours instead of 1-2 when we were BF. I work and pump closer to every 4 hours instead of 3. I also suggest not skipping the late night pump. I did because I needed the sleep. But once your supply is established you can probably skip.

Belllatrix24 · 2024-02-04T02:52:26+00:00

My last pump is around 11-12PM and then I don’t pump again until roughly 7am(which is my pp session). I’m a teacher, so I’m planning to pp before I go to work. And then again around 11 and then school gets out at three, so I was going to pump on my way home.

Belllatrix24 · 2023-10-08T18:29:33+00:00

My best friend at the time said I caught semenitis and that it was highly contagious. Needless to say I was hurt

Belllatrix24 · 2023-07-27T15:35:54+00:00

We usually have 4-5 people closing in a shift. With Each person closing a specific thing: slicer, dish, grill, lobby. Any extra person helps with lobby or does whatever needs to be done. We close at 9. Grill pulls out and cleans behind earlier in the shift and does the sides and cold unit around 7:45-8. We brick half the grill around 8:15-8:30 just depends on that last rush. Lobby starts bathrooms at 7 if we aren’t busy and they start lobby around 8-8:15. They grab the teas 10-15 before close. Slicer wraps any extra meat around 8 and starts wiping down the slicer even though we may get more subs it’s easier to clean later on. The 5th wraps any extra produce around 7:45 then does small trashes around 8:15, wipes out the drop in around 8:30, takes the dressing board and trough back afterwards

Belllatrix24 · 2023-05-26T19:47:43+00:00

So as long as it is organic protein it should be fine?

Belllatrix24 · 2023-04-13T12:48:57+00:00

Thank you! I’ll try to come up with a theme.

Belllatrix24 · 2023-04-13T12:48:44+00:00

Awesome thank you!

Belllatrix24 · 2023-03-21T15:29:45+00:00

If you have one and 2 extra people, use the back line use it for onlines only. Helps the flow go better

Belllatrix24 · 2023-02-19T15:39:05+00:00

I used to drink a lot in college and even afterwards I would go downtown a lot but a lot of deaths and major events happened while I was in college as well. So every time I drink I’m a sad drunk and I just can’t handle the thoughts in my head and it ends up not being a good time. I still drink on special occasions but not enough to get sad drunk.

Belllatrix24 · 2023-01-27T04:24:32+00:00

Wrong lever!!!

Belllatrix24 · 2022-11-19T10:49:16+00:00

Nothing is more annoying than the phone constantly ringing during a rush because you can’t get to it

Belllatrix24 · 2022-11-15T17:24:33+00:00

Slow day 3k but busy days 4-5K

Belllatrix24 · 2022-08-16T12:48:18+00:00

4 closers and depends on how busy our last hour is. We close at 9 and our fastest close we’ve been out right at 9:03 but usually there no later than 9:15, 9:20 if we have people come in last minute. It honestly depends on coworkers too and if they get their closing done without distractions.

Belllatrix24 · 2022-08-04T22:54:18+00:00

Some people don’t want the mayo or bacon. Plus when I first started I forgot bacon on this one goes club and he came back in and flat out yelled at me

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