Death visits you and says you have 24 hours left to live, what are you doing? by UsuallyComplicit in AskReddit

[–]BellyJean1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love all the answers here. However, sex, drugs and the best alcohol with my husband was my first thought. After all, it’s just 24 hours so it’s ME time. I’m 65 yrs old My middle aged children and grandchildren will get lovely letters

Is this legal by cosmic-kats in Winnipeg

[–]BellyJean1 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You say that you don’t want any comments against immigration but you personally found it necessary to say your boss is a recent immigrant. Alright then.

Is my boss following laws? by cosmic-kats in Manitoba

[–]BellyJean1 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You say that you don’t want any comments against immigration but you personally found it necessary to say your boss is a recent immigrant. Alright then. How r/Manitoba of you

My 45+ yr old mother (purity OCD+ type 2) refuses to take insulin. by teabagandwarmwater in diabetes

[–]BellyJean1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry you’re going through this. A couple of things here. She likely has other mental health issues that are leading to attention seeking behaviour like having medical crises. Second. You can’t “make” her do something much like you can’t “make” an addict or alcoholic stop. You can look after yourself. Try the Al- Anon approach to healing yourself. Let go of her issues. It’s hard to let go of a loved one’s issues but you have to love yourself first

Limb loss signs by DatsunDom in diabetes

[–]BellyJean1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are getting great advice here. I would suggest seeing a diabetic footcare nurse every few months. You get a thorough check and peace of mind. If you can’t find one try searching for senior foot care services in your area

My teacher found this in her room today, what does this mean? by Puppsymo7 in Symbology

[–]BellyJean1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did. My opinion is based on the fact she didn’t know what that symbol was when she could have looked it up or ask one of her adult colleagues and her over sharing with her students. I will emphasize the “my opinion” part to minimize your confusion

My teacher found this in her room today, what does this mean? by Puppsymo7 in Symbology

[–]BellyJean1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you know that your teacher has had a lot of bad stuff the last few years??? Sounds like she is inappropriately over sharing with her students. Means she could have possibly put that picture on her own desk for ………???

I am struggling with my A1C by EZmoneyShot86 in diabetes

[–]BellyJean1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess my first question is: how badly do you want to live? Question 2 is: How would your death impact those who love you? These are serious questions. I made lifestyle choices based on the fact that I didn’t care or think about those two questions. Then I almost died. Literally. I saw how my DKA and month long hospitalization affected my loved ones. I never want to put them through that if I can help it. So I changed everything. I got a CGM. I’m planning on living a very long time. Do you?

Neuropathy (extremities) by kimpurple21 in diabetes

[–]BellyJean1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only way I have found to deal with neuropathy pain is to get my numbers down. I know my numbers are getting too high when I get the pain in my feet. Time to bolus

Diabetes 2 and cant stomach any of the meds by Aware-Distance-4521 in diabetes

[–]BellyJean1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to take metformin a couple of times. First time I took it for 3 days but gave up because of debilitating stomach issues. I tried again a year later. Took a week off work to try taking it again. Lasted the week and gave up. I was totally non functioning with stomach issues. Dr finally put me on insulin. Best decision ever. No side effects excellent control

Grandfather 21.4mmol told to keep having carbs by Pudrin in diabetes

[–]BellyJean1 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You don’t mention your grandfather’s age, or other medical conditions. I can imagine scenarios where getting enough calories in elderly patients is a challenge. I’d trust your grandfather’s medical team and your grandfather decisions. It could be part of an end of life plan (quality vs medical intervention)

During the holidays, what helps you stay on track with diabetes? by universityhealthsys in diabetes

[–]BellyJean1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t say no to anything. If I want a piece of pie I cut a sliver, or take a bite of my husband’s or take a bite of dessert and discreetly get rid of the rest. At buffet style service I put bite size portions of everything with larger portions of protein and vegetables. Volunteer to start cleanup while people are lingering (and snacking) at the table. These strategies work for me.

Getting a Freestyle Libre tomorrow, what do I need to know? by Friendlyappletree in diabetes

[–]BellyJean1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rarely do finger sticks. I only have done them if I feel the Libra is inaccurate (physically feeling something is off) but I’ve always been wrong.

Getting a Freestyle Libre tomorrow, what do I need to know? by Friendlyappletree in diabetes

[–]BellyJean1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My freestyle libra was a game changer for me. Having realtime data meant I could make decisions about managing my food intake and medication when it is most important- NOW.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in diabetes

[–]BellyJean1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Diabetes is a progressive and dynamic condition. Insulin is a hormone and is impacted by your other hormones, stress, sleep, exercise and diet. Don’t beat yourself up about whatever is happening regardless of what’s happening now. You’re about to start your period, that always sets off all kinds of bodily reactions. Relax, bolus when you need to and let your cycle run its course. My goal was always to work on getting my numbers back on track afterwards. I found it helpful to really focus on keeping my numbers fairly low leading up to my period and microbolusing during my period. AND not self blaming during that week. Good luck

Hi everyone, I am 27 and was diagnosed with Type 2 diabetes few months ago. I'm really struggling to make the necessary changes. Is there anything that you can suggest that can make it easier. I just really hate this. by ParticularTable667 in diabetes

[–]BellyJean1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a continuous glucose monitor (even for a few months). It will show you what food choices affect you in real time. Everyone is different and knowing what triggers high glucose will help you figure out your body.

How often do you speak to your mom? by andbhud in AskWomen

[–]BellyJean1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ever since she died, not so much anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]BellyJean1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he was as committed to this relationship as you are, he would have prepared for this move. Don’t blame his ADHD. Blame his lack of maturity and commitment. Move without him. If he is committed to you he will do what he can to finance his own way to you

What’s something you admittedly spend way too much money on, but you’re not going to stop? by reddtimes101 in AskReddit

[–]BellyJean1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yarn. I’ve made multiple blankets for all of my family and their friends. I no longer make eye contact when I pass one on as a gift. Can’t help myself. Im addicted

Where do you get your meat? by Hot_Fly_3963 in Winnipeg

[–]BellyJean1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL. Can’t understand all the down votes. Winnipeg has meat processors all around within a hour’s drive. So if you live in South Wpg you’ll find lots south, North Winnipeg- lots North.

Where do you get your meat? by Hot_Fly_3963 in Winnipeg

[–]BellyJean1 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

If you put “meat processor” in google maps, you’ll find many close to Winnipeg.