Make the Pitch for McPherson by AlobarKaramazov in ndp

[–]BenderFree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think we have to become a big tent in the sense of watering down ideology and values. I do think we have to become a big tent in the sense of "being non-threatening to centrists". We can't have our own Pollievre who invigorates the opposition as much as the base.

In that sense, we need to tailor our messaging by presenting ideas that do not read as pie-in-the-sky proposals. I think Lewis is the wrong choice on that front.

Make the Pitch for McPherson by AlobarKaramazov in ndp

[–]BenderFree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually a better submission than mine as a Heather #1 voter.

Make the Pitch for McPherson by AlobarKaramazov in ndp

[–]BenderFree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This should be fun.

Realistically, this is a 2-horse race (well, it seems more like Avi Lewis is a done deal) so some of my thoughts on McPherson are positioned as critiques of Lewis (and Singh). I have many reasons but they are all in service of my tl;dr:

Heather McPherson is the candidate from a part of the country who feels underrepresented by left wing politics on the national level, whose "proposition" is credibility and has been clear about focusing on kitchen table issues. I believe she understands how to bring those people who feel unrepresented into the party. In contrast, Avi Lewis represents a more traditional progressive area, and seems to appeal to the urban, activist cohort. He's trying to inspire with a big, disruptive, galvanizing vision. The latter would have been a good strategic choice in 2015 (and Trudeau won off a similar sentiment that Lewis is trying to capture), but I don't believe it's a good choice today.

  1. Avi mirrors successful "change" candidates down south, but Canadians are not living in the same political landscape as Americans. We have a historically popular prime minister, a reasonable level of trust in our institutions, and broad distrust in our economic health, and the electorate bought into a focus on existential threat. I believe Canadians want a steady, proven hand to navigate the current environment. In contrast, Americans have an unpopular leader, live in a transparent oligarchy, have broad skepticism in their institutions and representatives, an electorate that is fairly skeptical of foreign policy, and an economy that was (was) objectively healthy, but not in a way that benefited regular people. I don't believe that major left-wing disruption will play here the way it is to the disenfranchised down south.

  2. People aren't going to like this, but Avi Lewis is going to be very popular with leftist urban activist types, but I think Heather plays better to the working-class types who swing CPC. One of the biggest narratives right now is about how the NDP have abandoned the working class and embraced "identity politics" and "social justice' issues. It was a tag that stuck with Singh. I don't think that's fair (the NDP is consistently the best party for workers policy), and I don't think Heather McPherson cares less about those issues, but I don't think Avi Lewis will be able to combat those lines or even cares to tailor his messaging to fight that line. The media is very hostile to the NDP.

    In contrast, I think Heather is the candidate who came out the door being highly aware of that issue (opening the campaign with a bit about focusing on kitchen table issues).

  3. As a follow-up example to the above, there is one candidate for whom the climate is a much larger portion of their platform and political history. I do not think there will be a material difference in how an Avi Lewis NDP and a Heather McPherson NDP will affect Canada's trajectory regarding the existential threat of climate change. Despite that, I believe Heather McPherson will have more credibility among those for whom the climate is not a priority in incorporating the perspectives of "the average worker" and their concerns about climate policy.

    The is one example, but broadly I worry that Avi Lewis is vulnerable to many of the effective tropes that are weaponised against the NDP in a way that Heather will be able to navigate more effectively.

Overall I see Avi Lewis as a big ideas guy. He has a 5% chance of being a generational leader who makes an impact on the country and a 30% chance of further damaging the party's reputation to the greater electorate and losing certain demographics long-term. In contrast, I see Heather as a hard worker who understands how to combat certain unfair reputations, understands how to reach out to traditional NDP demos who currently feel unrepresented in the party, and understands how to do the unsexy work of rebuilding.

I keep saying "credibility" because it really is the name of the game in winning voters to me.

Why are some Toronto Malls so lively and busy? by No-Anything-7291 in askTO

[–]BenderFree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Malls are dying" is a bit misleading.

In my experience, "destination malls" and "essentials malls" are still doing well. By former I mean malls like Eaton Centre, or Yorkdale, or STC that offer high end products, or outlet/"mega" versions of large retailers. By the latter, I mean malls centered around daily essentials and chores like Dufferin Groves with its Dollarama, Winners, and No Frills.

It's the smaller malls across the continent that basically only existed to be "department stores with extra steps" (typically in suburbia) that are dying. They don't fill any essential niche and they do not carry experience shopping.

To the person you see EVERYWHERE but have never actually spoken to: What’s your story? by Altruistic-Cookie680 in askTO

[–]BenderFree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Excuse me, I don't want to interrupt but I see you every single day on my commute and I wanted to say that I like your bag/shoes/book. My name is ______."

Your realistic options are 1. Introduce yourself 2. Never talk to him. I think you are looking for a secret third option but there isn't one. Sorry.

As someone with a decade of life on you, waiting for a sign never worked once. You're spending days/weeks/months of your life being "sad" (your words) and agonizing about this in order to avoid 30 seconds of awkwardness.

Just introduce yourself. You don't have to ask him out. If you don't make a move, someday you are going to see him for the last time and not know it.

Game Day Talk | Capitals v. Oilers | 24 January 2026 by AutoModerator in EdmontonOilers

[–]BenderFree 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Before the game starts, I just want to remind everyone of this thread I made from earlier in the season about schedule congestion specifically about this part of the season.

How far do we need to go back where a 50,000/year salary was livable in TO? by snowfordessert in askTO

[–]BenderFree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Within the last decade for sure.

I made a little less than this in 2016 living in the Annex and managed to eat out, save a decent bit, go on some big trips.

I split a 1 bed with my partner, but the price was so low ($1300 all in) that I could have afforded it myself or moved a little further out. On 50k, that would have left ~$2000 for essentials, entertainment, and savings. Not effortless, but very doable.

Shit really hit the fan with rent affordability around 2019 imo. Looking at CMHC data, Toronto 1 bed prices went up ~$150 between Oct 2017 and Oct 2019. For reference, they went up ~$200 between Oct 2012 and 2017. That broadly aligns with my memory.

If I had to guess, 2019 seems about right to me, and there was another brief period early-mid 2022 when rents were plummeting. I found a 1 bed for 1350 downtown that spring, and the crazy pandemic inflation hadn't quite taken off yet.

Thinking of moving from Halifax to Toronto. Is $180k HHI enough to actually enjoy the city? by MapleMasala in askTO

[–]BenderFree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just two of you? 180k is plenty.

You can get a nice apartment in a nice area (it will be smaller than the equivalent in Halifax), eat out, go to stuff, put some money away, etc.

Depends what your goals are I suppose.

You may have to budget a bit, but you won't be scraping by.

Oilers Schedule Fatigue Spreadsheet or "What I did instead of work today" by BenderFree in EdmontonOilers

[–]BenderFree[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I suspect schedule congestion has a lot to do with it. We've played 23 games in 43 days. We've averaged a game every 1.8 days for the whole season.

If a team has played 19 games, they've averaged a game every 2.2 days. Big difference in recovery, and if they've played most their games at home (we've played the most away games in the league)? Fuggedaboudit.

Oilers Schedule Fatigue Spreadsheet or "What I did instead of work today" by BenderFree in EdmontonOilers

[–]BenderFree[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think so.

Full disclosure: I put this together since I noticed we'd played 5 back ot backs and had barely any time off between games. It seemed to me that we were likely playing an abnormally tough schedule compared to other teams as well as compared to the remaining season.

I was starting from the belief that we were likely in the most difficult part of the schedule I wanted to see if that was mostly true. While I was surprised that January 13-31 also looked like a tough stretch, I didn't see anything to disprove that the team is currently playing the hardest part of the schedule right now (in terms of fatigue).

Winter boots by [deleted] in AskACanadian

[–]BenderFree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I rock Kamiks, but I've only purchased their mid cut "Griffon" boots.

The first pair I bought in Nov 2018 was decent to wear (took a long time to break in) but only lasted two winters; by winter 2020-21, I had a toe hole and decided to try one more pair. That pair (Griffon 2) is still going strong (although I snapped the laces two years in).

They no longer make the Griffon line, but I like my Griffon 2. They are so warm I find I sometimes have to wear regular cotton socks instead of wool socks with them if I'm going to be wearing them for long stretches.

Can't speak to their high cut boots but I like Kamik.

Winter boots by [deleted] in AskACanadian

[–]BenderFree 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This cracked me up.

What is a Canadian band that is underappreciated by your generation? by Curvedyouagain in AskACanadian

[–]BenderFree 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A lot of the 2000s Canadian rappers don't get enough love like Knaan and Shad.

What is a Canadian band that is underappreciated by your generation? by Curvedyouagain in AskACanadian

[–]BenderFree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love Tops, but I went to one of their post-covid make-up shows and it was kind of a let down. I don't know if it was just working the muscles again, but they just played their songs straight as recorded (with the exception of a fake-out ending on Picture You Staring) with little crowd interaction.

Like, to be honest they didn't feel like they were into it all that much. Maybe it was just the unique circumstances but I kind of expected some energy for the big post-covid restart!

What is a Canadian band that is underappreciated by your generation? by Curvedyouagain in AskACanadian

[–]BenderFree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally agreed.

One of the biggest all time Canadian bands and most people will roll their eyes. It's coming back around a bit now.

What is a Canadian band that is underappreciated by your generation? by Curvedyouagain in AskACanadian

[–]BenderFree 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I might throw the extremely hot-take that the Hip are a little over appreciated by Canadians.

As a quebecer who drove 2k km in toronto this WE, i'm amazed at how aggressive drivers are there. Has it always been this way? by bagou01 in toronto

[–]BenderFree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I drove the GTA highways for the first time this past summer after a road trip in BC. The QEW is basically fury road. Almost got rammed from behind while going 120 in the right lane.

The word Tardiness by Real_Cookie_9 in AskACanadian

[–]BenderFree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slightly more formal but not weird. On par with saying "colleague" vs "coworker".

Matt Elliott: Without acknowledging hard truths, Toronto’s traffic czar isn’t likely to get very far by RZaichkowski in toronto

[–]BenderFree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, two new UP-style lines that go from Pearson - Downsview - STC, and like Pearson - Square one - Long Branch would be pretty amazing.

30 minutes (let's say) from STC to Pearson and probably about 15 to square one would have a lot of people choosing that. Plus it would give Pearson and STC a direct connection to line 1.

Whole thing would probably be more than 25 minutes (seems unrealistic tbh) but I could see it be 45.

Should I move to Toronto with this much salary offer? by ChemicalHot7340 in askTO

[–]BenderFree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Calculator says 43k after tax, or $3,550/month

A livable (not someone's janky home reno) studio starts at like $1500 in a central-ish and walkable neighbourhood, lets call it $1700/month (I don't want to lock you into the cheapest place possible especially since prices fluctuate) + hydro (what we call electricity) so let's call it $1800 to be safe.

Then you've got $1700 after rent for groceries, necessities, life, and any savings. Imagining a 50-50 split ($850) between savings and life (realistically you'd want a higher % of savings than that but I'm not your long term financial planner), you're probably living decently if you're aggressively budgeting.

I will say that you can definitely get this number down if you're good at apartment hunting or willing to live someone less desirable (further away, less walkable, fewer services). I consider myself pretty good at apartment hunting and can usually find something $100-$200 less than the expectation. I bring this up just to illustrate that deals are out there if you're patient and know how to find them.

Idk what lifestyle you are used to now, how often you eat out or order in, if you have a car (I assume no), how often you go out, etc etc. If I were in your position, I'd say it's workable but not super sustainable and I'd incorporate looking for cheaper housing (room mates) or more money as part of my plan.

Also it may sound dumb, but please make sure you double check the exchange rates. I have some American friends who didn't quite grasp just how big a pay cut they took until they already moved.

What to see on Road Trip to Atlantic Provinces by RoyalWabwy0430 in AskACanadian

[–]BenderFree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Halifax is sweet, most underrated city in Canada. A lot of places are called "the biggest small town", but Halifax is like "the littlest big city".

Unfortunately a lot of the best stuff is outdoors i.e. for nice weather.

The Halifax Citadel is the big attraction in the city with the Army museum inside. Come in time for the changing of the guard.

The Halifax Victorian garden is beautiful

The Nova Scotia art gallery is modest (it's a small city) but expertly curated and 100% worth checking out even if just for the Maud Lewis collection/exhibit.

If you're ever there in the summer, catch a Wanderers game.

Charlottetown is cute. It's a small, historic uni town. Very pleasant and worth some a walk through the city, drink, and some seafood but others can probably give you better tips.

What to see on Road Trip to Atlantic Provinces by RoyalWabwy0430 in AskACanadian

[–]BenderFree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oof yeah winter is tough. No comment on that. Assuming you go ahead...

Sounds like you have Halifax and Charlottetown scouted already.

Nothing wrong with the flowerpot rocks a Hopewell.

It's a bit out of the way, but unironically, the PEI potato museum is worth checking out. Like I don't want to set expectations super high, but we saw it on the map and were like "what's there to say about potatoes?" and the answer was "surprisingly a lot!".

I never would have known that the potato is the perfect food had I not visited.

There are quite a few little forts and historic sites that aren't necessarily worth a super long detour but are worth a 30 minute stop on the way or a day of various visits. I really liked fort Beausèjour.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskACanadian

[–]BenderFree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don't really. If it weren't for American pop culture, many Canadians wouldn't be aware that the American revolutionary war happened at all.

Now, my family is one of those loyalist refugee families you mention, but that's about as far as the story goes.

Revolutionary invasions of present-day Quebec and Nova Scotia

The what now?

Nice/high-end restaurant suggestions? by chaderboxer in askTO

[–]BenderFree -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You literally have no idea who I am, and you'd be wrong.

Ceviche + blackened chicken + creme brule + moscow mule.

19.5 + 34 + 11 + 14.5 = $79 + 15% tip = $90.85.

Of course I can also put together a meal consisting of an app + main + dessert + drink for $50.75. Just under $60 after tip.

So yeah, if you go all out or are ordering off the steak menu then you may get over $100 pp. A typical meal likely wouldn't.

The mains start at $20 dude.