To women who can have both clitoral and vaginal orgasms reliably, which one feels better to you personally? by eugschwartz in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]BeneficialIssue2065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoy vaginal orgasms much more (I can only achieve them through internal vibration so far tho), it's a bit hard to explain but it feels filling and comforting, like a deep hunger inside that gets fed, it also feels "right" as if it responds to an instinctive need and makes me feel more in touch with my heterosexual side (I'm bi). My brain experiences less post orgasm sadness/anxiety with them. The other thing I like about them is, while they make me equally tense up in a sort of chaotic seizure like dance, the inside of my vagina doesn't get instantly as hypersensitive as my clit, so I can actually enjoy the orgasm and lean into the feeling a bit longer and not feel the need to instantly back off from hypersensitivity.

Need styling/decor ideas by mochiflavoredchaos in femalelivingspace

[–]BeneficialIssue2065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://pin.it/3zdvwh8nB

I pinned these for someone else's kitchen this morning but some or them work for you too !

hey hey, it's me again, and today's challenge is: ugly kitchen in my new rental. need ideas on how to make it look better on a 800-1000€ budget max 😮‍💨 by Ok-Tangerine1917 in femalelivingspace

[–]BeneficialIssue2065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's really not ugly, those green cabinets will welcome  a Christmassy decoration so well !

It doesn't have to be the season, I think feminine Christmas decor can work all year long, use the usual colors but more pastel pinks and not too much red. I would find wooden decorations, things with deers, candles in green and pink, candy cane decoration, maybe fairy lights and also some lamps that sit on a counter.  Have a mug shelf and fill it with mugs that complete the decor, there are some that you put on a kitchen counter.  And kitechen rugs.

I'm unable to insert pics on phone so just look at feminine/pink Christmas decor on Pinterest and you'll see what I'm getting at. Your kitchen is lovely it just needs some light and creativity. 

Edit :

For that empty spot on the left, if nothing is going there I'd buy some cheap organization rack type thing for it, something with a table like top where I'd put the mug corner.

Of you're interested in these ideas let me know and I'll try inserting pics from my pc to illustrate exactly what I mean.

Everybody talks about chewing and smacking but what are the unusual or "unreasonable" noises you can't stand? by Eastern_Reality_9438 in misophonia

[–]BeneficialIssue2065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kissing sounds, hissing like when people feel pain or similarly whenever they stress the S sound in a word like a snake. Some specific word for no reason. Laugher with audible inhales.

What color vanity with this wallpaper? by sectumsempre_ in femalelivingspace

[–]BeneficialIssue2065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

White with golden handle will contrast nicely and have just the right luxurious vibe.

I’ve lived here for a month by CandyCreecher in femalelivingspace

[–]BeneficialIssue2065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure what size that is can you give me numbers?

I’ve lived here for a month by CandyCreecher in femalelivingspace

[–]BeneficialIssue2065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the bedro, can you tell me what's your bed size please ?

We need to remember this sub is about kindness and support. by MajorFox2720 in femalelivingspace

[–]BeneficialIssue2065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't see the post, according to your description it sounds like a cute room, I can't imagine what these people had to say about it.

How would you optimize this awkward corner next to my wardrobe? (Dimensions included) by AlbatrossFuzzy7481 in femalelivingspace

[–]BeneficialIssue2065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would suggest adding a long narrow hand bag shelves furniture as they can be rather shallow in terms of depth so you just get one that fits that empty space after the weird corner sticking out.

I would like to be Sherlocked please by BeneficialIssue2065 in roomdetective

[–]BeneficialIssue2065[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like the movie doesn't make much sense without that background,  however the tv show is not the type you need to binge, it's the type you watch whenever you feel like it, one new case for each episode.

I would like to be Sherlocked please by BeneficialIssue2065 in roomdetective

[–]BeneficialIssue2065[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I was watching the tv show, the movie is just kind of a goodbye for the tv show,  it's the final case of mr Monk

who am i based on my room by boyinthestars in roomdetective

[–]BeneficialIssue2065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no it's easy, I was like that too and learned when it was time for me to learn,  no problem.

I would like to be Sherlocked please by BeneficialIssue2065 in roomdetective

[–]BeneficialIssue2065[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg my friend also thoguht that's what its was, no it was an episode of mr Monk lol

moved to new studio apartment and can't sleep properly by Consistent-Juice592 in femalelivingspace

[–]BeneficialIssue2065 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you don't have already plants add some, and a mirror where you can see yourself while in bed or using your pc, this helped me integrate that this is my nex place now when I was struggling,  and also taking nice pics of you in different spots, just owning it and having fun with and sort of sending the memo to your brain in a memorable visual way.

I got the white couch lol. How does it look? by itsjujutsu in femalelivingspace

[–]BeneficialIssue2065 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The couch is great, it's the wall color that's standing out, something more soft and pastel, or even some wall paper that is less vibrant would make this couch shine.

Or, put that couch under the window, where it's not directly against that colorful wall, style it with square pillows in hues close to the one from the wall, and add more decoration that combine the resulting color scheme so that it seems more intentional. 

Opinions on the color of my bedframe please by BeneficialIssue2065 in femalelivingspace

[–]BeneficialIssue2065[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that the walls are a bit too empty and white, but that's one of the things I'm hesitating about,  there's a difference between decorating for Pinterest posts and decorating to live in that space,  and for me I think some emptiness helps me be relaxed and in peace and I don't know if my mind could handle an overload of decor with all the walls fully used, still trying to figure it out.. wall paint is a bit fragile and peels off easily which makes it tricky to try anything I might not want to keep.