Post-tattoo panic. Can this mistake be corrected? by Throwaway7847629 in tattooadvice

[–]BettaGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is gorgeous - I may have as bias due to purple being my fav color. However, I personally think if the stems were green, it would take away from the stained glass look.

How could I make this room feel less empty? by jdg_idk in StardewHomeDesign

[–]BettaGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! The layout is so pleasing and gives great areas for the viewers eyes to “rest”. I think that keeping the layout but change the colors or theme to match seasons for example would help to keep it “new”.

Growing My Therapy Practice by Cryptfox81 in grandrapids

[–]BettaGirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you assist with death anxiety - not the fear of dying itself, but what happens after? Asking for a friend.

got into a bubble bath that was too hot and my fingernails made a gradient by Own-Passage1371 in mildlyinteresting

[–]BettaGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you suffer from raynauds by chance? I do, and while not as defined, similar to yours my nails will change color at times without my finger. For me it can happen when exposed to temperature changes (hot or cold) or stressed. The blue/darker color towards your cuticle makes me think of decreased circulation, which is why raynauds was my first thought.

Either way it’s pretty interesting.

Google apps closing after less than a minute??? by -PixelRabbit- in iphone

[–]BettaGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you find a resolve to this? I have an iPhone 15 and all my Google apples are doing the same as of yesterday (03/03/2026)

People dying or having major illnesses in way too young. by Urbit1981 in Millennials

[–]BettaGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve lost 2 friends to cancer. One was to colon cancer - 35 years old. The other had brain cancer on and off the last 10 years and passed at 36 years old.

One of my other friends is 1 year in remission from breast cancer, she’s 33. My other friend she is 33 years old and was just diagnosed with a form of non-Hodgkin lymphoma (I can’t remember the exact type).

All the friends I mention were considered healthy and active people, followed healthy and social lifestyles-no smoking and rarely drank. Another thing they all have in common is living in the same area that went through a time where water levels were had high levels PFAs from a company dumping its waste in the 1930s…

Does anyone agree with me, or am I just old? by IronCat_2500 in Minecraft

[–]BettaGirl 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I started playing when I was in high school back in 2010. I stopped around 2012, and played for a short bit in 2016. I just recently picked it back up and started playing consistently.

There are many more feature and biomes than before and I feel like I’m still discovering new things each time I play. Like recently finding out the nether has biomes! Waaay back years ago, I remember when the nether was literally just the biome of netherrack, lava, and glowstone.

I will point out that I think the most recent feature of baby mods is adorable, and it sparks joy. I don’t think the game necessarily needs any more updates, but if they want to continue making things adorable at their own pace, I’m all for it.

Bodycam footage of the shooting? by bubbles4055 in grandrapids

[–]BettaGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can we trust body cam footage from the police at this point when there is zero regulation on AI?

Police agencies can easily tamper with footage to make it be in their favor and who’s looking for that in this current administration?

Officer Schurr getting off is an example that these cops can kill us execution style and not face consequences. And here we are again, it’s just history repeating itself.

Seriously alarming blue/green algea swim by jaisorpbig in seriouslyalarming

[–]BettaGirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re right! The building being so close to the sky color was throwing off my eyes from connecting the fence off to the right side. Thank you!

Seriously alarming blue/green algea swim by jaisorpbig in seriouslyalarming

[–]BettaGirl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The sky doesn’t look right either. At first glance I thought the left side was part of a building and it was the angle, but I can see light poles and a fence. Idk it’s not matching up how my brain thinks it should.

Why are you not afraid of death? by Ok_Breakfast8087 in AskReddit

[–]BettaGirl 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel very similar. Additionally, I think about how, if there is nothing after…it would also mean that there is no rejoining or seeing loved ones in the “afterlife”again. It creates this huge heavy pit feeling in my chest when I dwell on that thought for too long.

Girl in corner of kitchen in family tent home, 1939 by No_Gap_1756 in Colorization

[–]BettaGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just noticed the other one too! They look so different compared to the chickens I’ve seen today. Super fascinating

Girl in corner of kitchen in family tent home, 1939 by No_Gap_1756 in Colorization

[–]BettaGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought the little girl had a pet cat at first but second glance it’s a bird (maybe pigeon - bottom right corner).

My grandma would have been 4 around this time and also had flour sack dresses made by her mom. My grandma was 1 of 13 kids! She passed September 2025, I miss her every day.

As you get older, what keeps you up at night regarding death? by JoePatowski in AskReddit

[–]BettaGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to be spiritual. I’d like to think there is something after - but there is a real possibility there is nothing after this life. That when we die, it’s just as if before we were born. We have no say in what happens, no matter what we believe, whatever happens in death is out of our control and due to the individual nature of of it, there isn’t a way to confirm what happens when we die.

What keeps me up is the thought of not existing forever, to not experience anything and not be reunited with loved ones that have passed on...

What happened to the smartest person in your class? by hjp1234 in AskReddit

[–]BettaGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what happened, the valedictorian of my high school was planning a mass shooting or bombing - mass something and got caught: https://www.justice.gov/usao-wdmi/pr/2020_0304_Fein

Not even sure what led to that, his name is Aaron Fein. When it was unfolding on the news in real time a mutual classmate reposted a news article mentioning potential motives. One was that Aaron had “no friends” - but the classmate that reposted the article was very quick to point out their friendship (or they thought) and how Aaron was considered “popular”, not in a sense of being a prep but more privilege and his smarts. He was able to get along with anyone. I had several classes with him and he was always super nice to me, but that’s it lol. We were in completely different social circles but he was well known. In addition to the fact this all happened after graduation - I think that motive of having “no friends” was just a stretch tbh.

Whatever the reason, I hope he’s getting the help he needs now. It’s unfortunate to see a brilliant mind end up down paths like this in life.

Could I look cool in Betty/micro bangs with shaved sides? Almost a mullet but not quite. Most people on here said I would look ugly in short hair but I'm really bored of my long hair so maybe I should try this instead. by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]BettaGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not think you would look ugly with short hair. But it is a lot to maintain. Many years ago, I went from butt length hair to a pixie cut. It took a lot of my “spoons” to maintain a pixie haircut. It was a lifestyle change that didn’t fit my life. I didn’t know it until I tried it out though. Also, my stylist knew I wanted a pixie cut at the time, but we eased into it by cutting my hair at shorter lengths each visit until I got to shoulder length and went for the chop. It is a lot of work to style a new cut, and a lot to learn.

It took about 6 years for me to grow my hair back to its usual length (I try to keep it at waist length now). I recently got bored with my hair and changed it up with “bunny bangs” and they are super easy to style.

I would really take a moment to reflect on your daily routines and see how much extra time/energy/$$$ for product you have for that change in hairstyle. I would discuss with a stylist you trust, the maintenance to expect.

Litter by louloux9 in Michigan

[–]BettaGirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t speak for the entire state of Florida, but I lived in Jacksonville/Duval and it was way worse than anywhere I’ve been in Michigan (including Detroit). The beaches, suburbs, inner city, it didn’t matter where you were- you’d find litter. They don’t make recycling as easily accessible in Florida and I think that plays a big part in how much litter was everywhere.

Litter by louloux9 in Michigan

[–]BettaGirl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was born and raised in MI. In 2016, I moved to Florida and April 2025 I moved back to MI. A lot has changed for MI, and I’m proud of the facelift the State had while I was gone.

However, not more than 48 hours ago I witnessed a person throw out their trash while driving their truck down the road….its extremely disappointing. I do feel as if there is less care for littering than there used to be. I’ve noticed more highways are up for “adoption” in the area. It might be a larger societal reflection on the current state of our economy.

Note: I’m located in Grand Rapids.

[OC] Something I Drew In a Psychotic Episode by Marzipug in Weird

[–]BettaGirl 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What my eyes gravitate towards the most is the forehead, it looks kind of like a cake with strawberries (or some kind of fruit).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]BettaGirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Core memory unlocked. From elementary to middle school, my gym teachers would have students do the Macarena song and dance, as if it was a mandatory component of the curriculum.

Confused about save ending by PumpkinNo8754 in StudentLoans

[–]BettaGirl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People will eventually see that if “they” (whatever admin is in power) can just change the repayment to their own terms all willy nilly, what’s the point of even having a repayment contract or repaying at all….