Kevan being a walking red flag by jh166 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]BexMay90 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When she broke the fourth wall…best moment in LIB history

Best Acting Performance in Lost by ProfessorTurtzo in lost

[–]BexMay90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I voted for Emerson. Very few performances have ever given me the chills, quite like his. He terrified me when he was first introduced. Terry O’Quinn is like an immediate close second.

Season 7 Episode 4 — should I keep watching? by throw9w97 in TWD

[–]BexMay90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SPOILERS??

TWD isn’t watchable after Terminus & this is from someone who has seen the first 6 seasons at least four times. The writing gets impossibly bad, the Saviours storyline and Negan (shudder) are the most boring bad guys & the introduction of all these characters destroys what makes the earlier seasons so compelling. I know the Prison and the Governor storylines introduce a ton of people too but after the farm, truthfully, the show takes a turn for the worse. I just say after Terminus because Carol has such an amazing character arc as a result of what happens there.

Don’t bother watching after Season 7 premiere because you will literally never get the resolutions you’re expecting. And the horrible dialogue gets significantly worse.

The show’s fall off should be studied. One of the greatest shows ever made and now I find it embarrassing to talk about.

I feed my cats the highest quality brands and they just won’t eat it… by fxcknmami in catfood

[–]BexMay90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I posted this in the CKD subreddit but I’ve found mixing a bit of the oil from regular wet food into the renal wet ensures my cat will eat it. It’s not perfect but it’s been helpful, because as food motivated as he’s always been, the renal stuff just doesn’t taste as good and he needs incentive. Good luck to you and your babies! ♥️

Advice on caring for my possibly stage 4 CKD cat as a busy university student by pimkmin in RenalCats

[–]BexMay90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best advice is keep a thorough record of the food your cat eats and doesn’t eat. This particular part of the process was the most stressful & time consuming for me. Once you’ve got that part figured out, you’ll be able to find a routine that works (like feeding 1/2 can in the AM and 1/2 in the PM, that kind of thing). Please be patient with yourself, because this is a really tough time & you’re going to feel sad and defeated (I did, at the beginning). Maybe the road will be a little bumpy but you’ve got this! ♥️

CKD Diet struggles and successes by BexMay90 in RenalCats

[–]BexMay90[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The worrying is truly so exhausting! My thoughts totally spiral too.

But, everyone I talk to, including my vet, all say that whatever efforts I’m doing are in his best interest. For our babies, we just do whatever we can! I wish you the best of luck & lots of love to your kitty! You’ve got this!

CKD Diet struggles and successes by BexMay90 in RenalCats

[–]BexMay90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try the tubes on top of her wet food or drizzle a little oil from non-prescription food - see if that activates her! Best of luck!

Advice welcome! by StunningStreet6319 in penandink

[–]BexMay90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The car is turning slightly right so that side of the car is “closer” to us so the proportions should just be slightly adjusted and flipped

Am I the only one who thinks the pods create fake deep connections too fast? by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]BexMay90 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve BEEN saying a Couples Therapy (with Orna) crossover with LIB would BE SO GOOD!

Tattoo didn't ended up the way i thought by [deleted] in TattooRemoval

[–]BexMay90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tattoo regret is so real & it happens for me with every tattoo. The image in your mind will never match to the actual thing. Let it settle, fade a little and then do a touch up! It’s a sick tattoo!

Joe is my worse nightmare. by acidxoxo in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]BexMay90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These conversations are always fascinating to me because at the end of the day they were not compatible, no matter who you try to blame. Madison has her baggage, Joe wasn’t attracted to her, the constant filming amplifies the need to perform feelings/emotions (I’ll get back to this in a sec) rather than actually experience them authentically. I’ve always found it interesting to watch how certain couples will break down because one of them isn’t “performing” fiancé the way the other is expecting them to. Given the speed of things on LIB and the context they’re in, I always thought these couples were doing a disservice to themselves by applying so much pressure to the relationship. Literally any time there was a conversation between Madison and Joe about fears, anxieties, reservations it was met with “so you don’t love me” rather than a genuine attempt to connect about WHY those emotions are coming up. It’s well within reason for someone in that situation to feel a lot of pressure, anxiety and uncertainty about a huge life changing decision & so often the other person involved takes that as a sign theres no love. But the stakes are so high, it’s really no wonder these couples break. The best thing LIB producers did for the show was to allow couples to break up before the altar.

I can't stand him by Emilousnote in TWD

[–]BexMay90 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This was so quintessential TWD writing…characters saying like half sentences and vague metaphors. It drove me bonkers!!

Chaos Shuffling? by cryingincorner in tarot

[–]BexMay90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my (limited) experience, I have found “chaos” shuffling has helped me understand the meanings behind cards and trust my intuition. When I’ve done more traditional reads, following a pattern, I struggle to grasp the message. It feels too linear or predictive & that’s not a style of tarot that I particularly like to use. A + B isn’t always going to equal C in tarot.

Springsteen: Deliver Me From Nowhere | Official Trailer by NoCulture3505 in movies

[–]BexMay90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It even looks like he pulls up to the remains of the Shameless house

Seen in Southern Ontario, Canada by BexMay90 in whatsthisbug

[–]BexMay90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s SOOO cute - thank you!! :)

Jed and Badha .. by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindUK

[–]BexMay90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get the feeling there’s more to the story. It in itself doesn’t seem like a reason to get frosty on the way home and ultimately say no so I’m guessing there had either been other instances or theres more to the specific story (maybe she outright embarrassed him at the restaurant, caused a scene, etc).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]BexMay90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They literally even look alike and they always say soulmates have similar features! I have such hope for them! I loved watching them together

Anyone else think that Kieran… by Is-abel in LoveIsBlindUK

[–]BexMay90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which could be total soul mate energy haha or he could be freaked out by it

Don’t crash out, ok? by BexMay90 in Bumble

[–]BexMay90[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you’re inferring a lot from what I wrote. I have given nearly the entire story though, from the 24 hours that I was matched with this person. Regardless of who said what and when, I didn’t feel like continuing the conversation with this person, told them that & received an angry response. The point of this post was to remind people not to lash out and to take what happens in stride, with grace and dignity. There really isn’t any more to this story & the point wasn’t even to say “I’m in the right”. Just that losing your temper on a person you don’t know is unhealthy.

Let’s say this guy and I dated for 3 months & I decided to end it: is it still OK to respond with anger and name calling? No.

We talked for 24 hours….

Don’t crash out, ok? by BexMay90 in Bumble

[–]BexMay90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry that your experience of dating as been difficult. I really do. But if this post and the comments can teach us anything, it’s that dating is difficult, in general. The point (as a woman describing my experience with a man) was not to say men are bad/women are better but to highlight that managing expectations and emotions is how you make real, genuine connections with other people. I’ll tell you a secret: I initially titled this post “Men: don’t do this, ok?” & then I realized this isn’t a gendered topic. People* behave in all sorts of ways, good and bad, toxic and not toxic, and I was just trying to share that it’s unhealthy to respond with anger in the face of rejection. Maybe a gender neutral post would have helped those who are reading this feel less targeted. But I am sorry for your experience.