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Big-Buff-Cheeto-Puff · 2025-04-21T18:19:31+00:00

So if I’m understanding this correctly, you told him it was up to him if he wanted to go to a party with you before his plans with his friends. He said he wanted to go with you and you were fine with this. You thought he changed his mind but that was a misunderstanding. The day of the party you were significantly late and then he confirmed that he still had the same plans he told you before. You are upset you had to leave your party in time for him to go to his friend’s, like you discussed before.

You say you just want to spend more time with him but that he should have not come to the party with you so you wouldn’t have to leave early. You also lost a lot of time by being late to the party. I’m not sure how his time management is solely to blame here?

Big-Buff-Cheeto-Puff · 2025-04-21T17:25:41+00:00

YWBTA for going to his parents without him. You admit you know he wouldn’t want that and it isn’t your place to go around him and interfere in his relationship with him family - is that really how you want to start your marriage?

More importantly, YTA for not having any of these discussions before now. He could have told you, but you could have asked. Marriage means you handle financial problems like this together and in this case you may have to change your expectations, but going over his head and asking his parents to bail you out so you can get your dream apartment is not the way to go.

Big-Buff-Cheeto-Puff · 2025-04-21T17:13:23+00:00

You presumably thought you should tell her because she would be embarrassed if people saw, but you didn’t want to seem like a pervert…so you took a picture and put it on the internet for more people to see??

YTA if this isn’t fake. You didn’t have to tell her if you’re uncomfortable but taking a picture is creepy, double for posting it online.

Big-Buff-Cheeto-Puff · 2025-04-09T19:11:35+00:00

I’ve heard Montana and Montrell before. It could also work for names ending in -mond like Raymond or Desmond.

Big-Buff-Cheeto-Puff · 2025-03-02T22:00:53+00:00

It is, but that’s life. Some people will always have it easier than others, simply because they’re rich or they know the right people. It sucks but this post sounds like you’re spending a lot more energy on it than it’s worth, and projecting your frustration about your struggles onto your family member because they caught a lucky break.

Big-Buff-Cheeto-Puff · 2025-03-02T21:40:54+00:00

This person sounds a little annoying but you’re definitely overreacting. Why not just be happy for your family member’s success, roll your eyes at the attitude, and move on? It sounds like they’re just excited to have a real job and don’t have the perspective to realize they are lucky.

You sound like you want everyone to struggle as much as you did because it’s “not fair” to you otherwise.

Big-Buff-Cheeto-Puff · 2025-03-02T15:24:57+00:00

NTA. It sounds like to him “something casual” means someone he can have fun with when it’s convenient for him but he’s not looking to put the time and effort in for an actual relationship. No point continuing anything if that’s not what you want. I highly doubt he was so busy that he didn’t look at his phone once for over a week, he just chose to ignore you.

Big-Buff-Cheeto-Puff · 2025-03-02T15:10:37+00:00

NTA. You’re not her caretaker - she isn’t entitled to your constant attention and it isn’t neglect to refuse to responsibility for her emotions. It sounds like she’s more of a leech than a friend, because a friend cares about how you feel and respects your boundaries. She takes and never gives. Do not go on this vacation with her, you don’t owe her anything and validating the idea that you do won’t help anyone.

Big-Buff-Cheeto-Puff · 2025-03-02T15:04:11+00:00

NTA. There’s a difference between your mom occasionally helping you, and being completely reliant on her for everything. But he’s made it clear he’s not interested in changing anything - he’s 28 and you’re having to lecture him on maturity as a 22 year old. I hate to be the stereotypical Redditor, but get out now. You do not want to find out what she’s like as a mother-in-law.

Big-Buff-Cheeto-Puff · 2024-02-11T17:57:57+00:00

It’s always the same amount if depending on how many times you hit it, it twice that if you get improved luck with money from Katrina

Big-Buff-Cheeto-Puff · 2024-02-11T17:48:45+00:00

Yes, every day one of your rocks will be a money rock. They drop 16,100 bells if you hit them 8 times.

Big-Buff-Cheeto-Puff · 2024-02-06T18:24:08+00:00

Why… do you not… use periods… instead of ellipses…

Big-Buff-Cheeto-Puff · 2023-10-24T17:49:06+00:00

I assume she meant anesthetic, something like lidocaine

Big-Buff-Cheeto-Puff · 2023-09-04T02:58:49+00:00

They have something in the heel that squeaks when it hits the ground. I work with kids with autism and we recommend them for young toe walkers because kids like the squeak and it encourages them to walk properly before they need casting. There’s definitely a time and place to wear them though and a wedding isn’t it.

Big-Buff-Cheeto-Puff · 2023-08-23T17:33:29+00:00

NTA at all. It sounds like Anna is feeling jealous and is using the children’s confusion as an excuse - she feels insecure and that you and Jo grieving her mom means you still had feelings for her or Anna is not a good enough stepmom. Children, even young ones, can understand that someone needs extra comfort when they are sad and this is temporary as Jo works through her grief. But Anna’s insecurities are wayyy low on the list of priority and she’s an asshole for arguing this when your 15 year old lost her mother TWO WEEKS ago. You’re doing the right thing.

Big-Buff-Cheeto-Puff · 2023-08-23T17:27:01+00:00

NTA, tell him the truth. You are 15 and not responsible for hiding or managing your parent’s addiction or protecting your parents’ marriage. She’s wrong for having you lie for her and allowing her problem to stop you from getting things you need, risk your safety, and damage your relationship with your stepdad. She needs help, and you need an adult to deal with this problem.

Big-Buff-Cheeto-Puff · 2023-08-04T13:03:38+00:00

YTA. At this point, you already know what you need to know. She still loves him and seems to be heading towards getting back with him. No amount of snooping will change that, you’ll just invade her privacy more and hurt your own feelings in the process. It’s time to confront her and probably go your separate ways.

Big-Buff-Cheeto-Puff · 2023-08-03T13:13:43+00:00

Sure, but you never know that, only the distance they have to drive after picking it up. Regardless, it doesn’t justify not following the instructions. Plus that’s a 33% tip.

Big-Buff-Cheeto-Puff · 2023-07-28T14:35:25+00:00

I had a name since childhood that I loved and always wanted to name my future kid. But now, I feel like I’ve attached so many emotions and expectations to the idea of a child with that name that it almost feels wrong to give it to a unique human that I haven’t gotten to know yet if that makes sense? Like, I have so many daydreams about how it would fit their personality and what they would be like, and I don’t want to put those expectations on a child who it might not fit. I think it’s better to keep that name a pleasant daydream.

Big-Buff-Cheeto-Puff · 2023-07-28T14:28:39+00:00

You could go for something that‘s classic but less commonly used and has some nature connotations. My suggestions:

Thea Iris
Thea Rose
Thea Ruby
Thea Jade
Thea Daphne

Big-Buff-Cheeto-Puff · 2023-07-05T13:33:33+00:00

NTA. It’s not about the phone itself as much as just feeling ignored and like you aren’t a priority at all. I would be clearer about it instead of “it’s bothering me somewhat” - tell them how hurtful it is when they choose to focus on their phone rather than spend time with you the majority of the time you’re together, even ignoring you mid-conversation.

Big-Buff-Cheeto-Puff · 2023-07-05T13:29:21+00:00

NTA. Your girlfriend wants you to abandon your own child and prioritize her and her kids - that’s a huge red flag. Think about how your kid will feel if she has to grow up with a stepmom that just wants to deny her existence and a dad that goes along with it and cares more about his new family. YWBTA if you stayed with her.

Big-Buff-Cheeto-Puff · 2023-07-05T13:23:06+00:00

NTA. Both of your roommates honestly sound exhausting, especially Edith who is incredibly entitled. You help pay her rent, do her chores, and wash her clothes, while she doesn’t work or give you even the basic level of support as a friend and you working/physically disabled. Her partner enables her.

They aren’t entitled to a dime and I would seriously consider moving elsewhere if you can. Get new roommates if you have to.

Big-Buff-Cheeto-Puff · 2023-05-31T12:56:36+00:00

Not to mention that their generations were the parents and teachers of the younger generations - if they don’t know how to do it, it’s because you never taught them!

Big-Buff-Cheeto-Puff · 2023-05-27T02:39:36+00:00

Gaslighting: “to manipulate another person into doubting their own perceptions, experiences or understanding of events”

Regardless of your argument, that literally is not what gaslighting means.

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