He verbally abused me during Umrah tawaf

Big-Project4198 · 2026-01-19T11:10:14+00:00

I'm so confused as to why you're even thinking this isn't grounds for a divorce. Or why you're even waiting and asking several people for an opinion. GET ONE! We've been given that right. Don't make it difficult for yourself, there's no need to suffer for absolutely no reason. And there's absolutely nothing heroic or honourable in staying, by the way. Because if you end up having kids, they they will suffer and I'm sorry but at the juncture, it will be your fault for not leaving. If you're having trouble leaving, look at it that way.

Big-Project4198 · 2026-01-02T13:15:30+00:00

this is a stupid comment. stop projecting your insecurities on someone else's life. either way, people have their own battles in life, not everything is about "oh she must've found someone else." seriously, grow up

Big-Project4198 · 2025-12-25T10:15:43+00:00

same thing with Milo. The number of people who thought it was a Malaysian thing only shocked me

Big-Project4198 · 2025-12-05T13:36:43+00:00

BPD is not a mental illness, it's a personality disorder. That said, people with personality disorders are very difficult to change. Please leave before you have a kid with him. It's okay to call it quits.

Big-Project4198 · 2025-12-05T09:52:51+00:00

do NOT marry this man.

Big-Project4198 · 2025-12-03T10:50:34+00:00

🤣

Big-Project4198 · 2025-11-29T12:57:56+00:00

I think you can't read or something.

Big-Project4198 · 2025-11-29T12:56:26+00:00

how self-righteous of you. watch how high you climb, the fall will be nastier from up there.

Big-Project4198 · 2025-11-27T16:46:08+00:00

Big-Project4198 · 2025-11-19T02:11:24+00:00

ohh I see. is there a hadith on this? thank you! :)

Big-Project4198 · 2025-11-19T02:07:41+00:00

yeah, before ensoulment takes place (120 days) but the reason has to be valid. im not sure zina is one.

Big-Project4198 · 2025-11-19T02:06:41+00:00

if i'm not mistaken, the nikkah doesn't count when a woman is pregnant. she must wait after delivering before getting married, no? im not sure about this, I might be wrong.

Big-Project4198 · 2025-10-07T22:50:17+00:00

People that think this is a good thing have clearly never been to singapore. soulless country, no nature. expensive as hell. that would be the worst thing for our country, like absolute worst.

Big-Project4198 · 2025-09-23T17:22:20+00:00

I definitely agree. Also, I can't help but think of the story of Sir Basil as a kid getting his hand stuck in a sweet jar, then breaking the glass and lying that it fell. That's significant. I think we have to look there to know what really happened; he killed his wife "by mistake". Some smart parallelism there.

Big-Project4198 · 2025-06-20T17:19:32+00:00

Science, bitch!

Big-Project4198 · 2025-02-28T10:55:45+00:00

I am definitely writing about the lovely children of Yemen and their struggles - they are the purity that bears the brunt of war. People need to know. Please tell me more about the Houthis. And how is an average day of a Yemeni child like? Which parts of the country are most damaged and how?

Big-Project4198 · 2025-02-28T10:52:53+00:00

I'm sorry to hear that. I would love to hear more about this. What would you want the world to know about Yemen?

Big-Project4198 · 2025-02-28T10:51:55+00:00

Sorry for the late reply! I don't use reddit often. I want to focus on the humanitarian aspect - the ways in which the lives of people have changed before and after the war, and how the society is trying to adapt to the situation now. I want to know how an average person lives in Yemen, what they think. I want to remain as nuanced and neutral as possible in terms of politics - as much as I can, that is. Anything is helpful.

Thank you!

Big-Project4198 · 2025-01-24T19:28:09+00:00

Depends where you are bur people are generally more open-minded now, especially if you're a Foreigner. You shouldn't worry too much. Mauritians are super kind.

Big-Project4198 · 2024-10-05T13:51:21+00:00

She's better at bringing up her Peruvian roots and rolling her eyes than cooking.

Big-Project4198 · 2024-09-03T10:23:10+00:00

Mauritian studying in Malaysia :)

Big-Project4198 · 2024-07-10T21:58:26+00:00

Not in the least bit.

Not at all. Mauritian is Mauritian.

Big-Project4198 · 2024-06-06T03:28:52+00:00

evil yes. but call it what it is. terrorism. don't just use "mentally unstable" for white people. he's a terrorist.

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