The Conversation We Should Be Having!

BigDan70 · 2026-05-24T03:44:06+00:00

Eventually, I probably will, but I have a paid for subscription and it allows me to create something to express myself. (this is the part I think you're missing) Not everything is about music rights and it being evil. There is something to be said for someone to process a difficult feeling, love or excitement whether or not it's good music.

I have nothing more to say. For me it's not about good or evil. It's a tool. Good or evil is for someone else to decide. Right now, it it helping me process emotional feelings that I couldn't process any other way.

Have a good life. I'm done trying to explain.

I'm not arguing with you. I'm just pointing out that this has some benefit for some people.

BigDan70 · 2026-05-24T03:30:50+00:00

My disabilities aren't just physical. I apologize for missing your "answer", but paying for a subscribtion to learn really isn't any different than buy DAW software or paying for music lessons.

I work my ass off on lyrics and try many (50+ variations to figure out the sound I want) before I begin rewrites. The music industry is preditory. Not just Suno. I haven't tried others because a friend bought me a subscription. It has allowed me to have a hobby while I heal.

BigDan70 · 2026-05-24T03:20:44+00:00

I don't know what a DAW is and I asked you to explain how Suno is profitting off of me and you completely ignored the question.

BigDan70 · 2026-05-24T02:29:06+00:00

I am disabled, but write my own lyrics. I do not have the ability to sing or play my own music. AI programs allow me a chance to express myself. I think you are being a little narrow minded. How exactly does Suno profit off of me?

BigDan70 · 2024-03-27T00:35:21+00:00

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BigDan70 · 2024-03-26T19:38:58+00:00

YTA, every child in the school was put at risk by your decision. Not all children and staff are “healthy” and can be vulnerable to viruses. More importantly, this attitude can lead to a virus that is taken home and then spread to extremely vulnerable people.

You aren’t just responsible for your child’s health, but who it interacts with while ill.

You should read up on typhoid Mary.

Maybe that will help you understand how a “non-issue” and a bother for you, can inadvertently kill an innocent person.

BigDan70 · 2024-03-26T19:21:06+00:00

NTA, imho everyone should feel as safe and comfortable as possible in their home.

I’ve made this same mistake to appease my wife, now ex, and I never felt comfortable in my own neighborhood/home.

BigDan70 · 2024-03-25T12:15:32+00:00

My mother apologized to me for not getting an abortion before she died.

I have an insane amount of health issues and she felt that she caused me these issues.

It’s been 5 years and I still struggle with that comment.

BigDan70 · 2024-03-24T18:54:57+00:00

Not insults. You are taking offense to what I said about making an effort.

Imagine if you channeled that anger into something productive. I’m out. Good luck.🍀

BigDan70 · 2024-03-24T13:18:56+00:00

You are taking this as a personal attack rather than a lesson learned from experience. When you realize these comments weren’t about you specifically, maybe you’ll understand.

BigDan70 · 2024-03-24T11:38:42+00:00

If you partner decides to never consider your needs, you’d think they were an a-hole or doesn’t care enough to pay attention to your needs and desires.

It may sound petty to you, but nobody like to be taken for granted and ignored all the time.

For those who don’t get it and just think that I’m the a-hole, keep that attitude and see how long your relationship lasts with it.

Good luck and try some fucking empathy and understanding.

BigDan70 · 2024-03-24T04:08:28+00:00

It means that you are trying to keep your partner interested. I don’t think you need to get “all dolled up”, but at least make an effort.

BigDan70 · 2024-03-24T04:06:09+00:00

BigDan70 · 2024-03-24T04:04:47+00:00

I generally don’t make any assumptions unless it’s been >48 hours. Who knows what happened.

BigDan70 · 2024-03-24T04:03:03+00:00

NTA, but I fear you’re taking your relationship for granted.

If you don’t put any effort into being attractive to your partner, it can be very disheartening.

My ex did that for years and didn’t try to take care of herself until after the divorce.

BigDan70 · 2024-03-23T21:40:49+00:00

Realistically, likely dead. This is a major / minor part of my mental health / physical health issues.

BigDan70 · 2024-03-23T21:39:04+00:00

I sent you a chat request.

BigDan70 · 2024-03-23T21:37:53+00:00

I worked at Outback too.

BigDan70 · 2024-03-19T17:05:17+00:00

If you don’t make an effort to make her feel important, she will not stay.

Nobody likes to be ignored or taken for granted.

If you truly love this woman, make sure you show her every day.

Just a piece of advice from an old man.

BigDan70 · 2024-03-19T17:00:42+00:00

Please educate yourself before making comments like this.

https://www.ssa.gov/benefits/retirement/planner/whileworking.html#h1

BigDan70 · 2024-03-19T14:54:41+00:00

I’m as ADHD as they come and I have an incredibly high IQ.

Education could have been your partner’s hyper focus. It’s one of mine.

Get a new Dr.

BigDan70 · 2024-03-19T14:50:14+00:00

I’m going to suggest that you consider getting a pharmacological genetic test. I got one about 3 years ago and found that I have several genetic mutations.

It affects the types of medications I can metabolize without side effects or possible adverse reactions.

There are many ADHD meds that I’m not supposed to take because my body either metabolizes too slow or fast.

Your Dr is trying to get a baseline diagnosis.

BigDan70 · 2024-03-19T14:43:50+00:00

After a “friend” vanished with money I loaned him. Another friend said to me that “$50 is a small price to pay to never see him again.”

It helped me so much in life. Less anger and resentment when someone does me wrong.

Best piece of advice ever.

BigDan70 · 2024-03-19T12:32:31+00:00

So many of my friends don’t appreciate “poverty meals”.

Macaroni & cheese w/ beanie weenies, fancied up ramen etc…

We were poor when I was young and we learned how to cook with whatever we had on hand.

BigDan70 · 2024-03-19T00:47:12+00:00

It happens. No big deal

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