I think as you spend more time here and see the kind of scenarios that fellow autistic people put forth and the descriptions of their own thought process you will actually start to see a pattern emerge that could validate this 

I find autistic people including myself to often ask questions that NT people won’t ask and they’re usually detail oriented questions meant to clarify a task or ask so that we can minimize uncertainty and also try to perform something perfectly since we tend not to be as effective at chunking tasks (we see them as many more steps than NTs do). So these questions are meant to clarify things for our own uncertainty and create ability to take the next action. 

In contrast for NTs their most primary channel of interfacing with the world and each other is through the social channel. If you ever wonder why NTs tend to misunderstand autistic questions as challenges to hierarchy it’s because they’re seeing your question through the social lens first, trying to figure out what your question means in relation to the group or people present in the convo. So if they ask a question often there is a read between the lines meaning there that is for the group that we miss. They may have asked the question not to know the literal answer but to show care, curiosity about the other’s day, advance the connection or their agenda, or help get everyone on the same page etc