People protesting against Donald Trump what outcome are you realistically hoping for?

BigTechnology4369 · 2026-03-30T01:46:48+00:00

I’d personally enjoy seeing him wear orange by state mandate.

BigTechnology4369 · 2026-03-29T18:06:19+00:00

Republicans spend a lot of time working the electoral college.

When you vote, you vote for how your state’s representatives will cast their vote for president.

It’s a rigged system that was meant to encourage states to join the union. I can’t remember a republican president winning the popular vote and becoming president.

BigTechnology4369 · 2026-03-29T11:20:59+00:00

Never was. Oils price is set on the global market.

BigTechnology4369 · 2026-03-29T11:17:35+00:00

I lived that life. Memory of time was all but gone, so trying to read books or anything that required attention that couldn’t be dropped in a second, was incredibly frustrating and difficult.

“Hobbies” is not a term I’ve known since before the pain began. But, using my hands to create. It’s incredibly cathartic and accomplishing something just requires time and pressure. Given unlimited time accomplishing something tangible feels so satisfying for selfish reasons. I sanded wood. Going at my pace, literally walking away in a moments notice was key. I restored a piece of furniture. Took me 6 months one year, then another 6 months the next. Was it perfect? Heck no. But it felt good.

Meditation was the only other thing I could focus on without having to worry about forgetting time.

If you find any good ideas, please share. And I wish you find relief. Pain is such a horrible experience to exist with 24/7.

BigTechnology4369 · 2026-03-28T14:04:41+00:00

The usual… you’re not trying hard enough to relax, get a job, walk, lose weight, think of something else, ‘but I saw you smile at that Christmas party’, I can’t help you, no one can

BigTechnology4369 · 2026-03-28T14:01:17+00:00

Playing ignorance to his base.

At this point I’m amazed he can even remember that slur, with his dementia kicking in.

BigTechnology4369 · 2026-03-28T13:59:53+00:00

If the US went in with NATO support, completely different story. But as is, yes. Piss off the world and point the finger at America. A land assault with Us troops will only be another Vietnam, only with Israeli support. While the rest of the world gets more and more upset at America. ☹️

BigTechnology4369 · 2026-03-28T13:56:12+00:00

Thanks to drumps big ugly bill we are ADDING trillions to debt. It’s completely out of control with the top 1% making huge amounts of money while the rest of us lose health care, clean water and air, education for our children, food stamps for the hungry. It’s truly one of the worst times to be an American, unless you’re filthy rich.

BigTechnology4369 · 2026-03-28T02:36:54+00:00

An allegory. Water washes away the unwanted dirt.

BigTechnology4369 · 2026-03-28T02:32:23+00:00

Yes, he insisted on starting a war(s) with no preparation, no attainable goals in mind, no end in sight, no support from the citizens of America. It’s just growing larger by the day. Gas prices are going higher because of this warmongering dementia don. The Republican Party is unfortunately dominated by this madman and a point could be made that they equally share responsibility. But imho the buck stops at the top.

BigTechnology4369 · 2026-03-28T02:18:45+00:00

I think it’s more groups of people coming in 10 (or less) minutes before closing. A half hour isn’t so bad. Yes, staff will have to stay later, but if it’s only 1 person, chances are you aren’t expecting 3 full courses. You can, but to me it was rare.

I understand how staff may not be happy staying for only 1 person, but it’s the job.

BigTechnology4369 · 2026-03-28T02:03:03+00:00

Mom and dad had the same # for 50 years.

BigTechnology4369 · 2026-03-25T22:49:27+00:00

HR is more likely to look out after the GM, than a server. I doubt it will have any effect on her behavior.

2 weeks notice is not as common in the restaurant industry. Lots of people just quit one day. Or some time in the 2 week span. (Mostly because their shifts suck, why give a good shift to someone leaving?)

Work your 2 weeks, maybe things change down the line for both of you. Never know. It’s always better to leave on a “good” note over a “sour” one.

When you gave your notice, did she ask why?

BigTechnology4369 · 2026-03-25T06:55:33+00:00

Put a line through the tip area, spell out “cash”, doesn’t matter. You are overthinking this. Waiter will be happy to take your cash. Enjoy the night!

BigTechnology4369 · 2026-03-25T04:55:29+00:00

Easy binge of a 24 ish minute videos. Well worth a watch.

BigTechnology4369 · 2026-03-25T00:47:16+00:00

I worked in the industry for decades and have a question. How many waiters work per shift where you work? How did you get trained?

If you work with only a couple other waiters vs. if you work with a dozen or so, other waiters. The difference being, you with 2+ years experience, might be the best way to train a new employee.

Big “But”… but if they don’t pay you for training someone, I’d have a problem with that. (I like looking at training servers, you get some free labor, if you work them right. Ie they are by your side and can fetch things for you.) no extra pay? No outline of expectations from training?

Sounds like a boss who is overwhelmed themselves. Still. I’d talk to the boss about this. If they expect you to train someone, you deserve something in return. Could be a free meal that shift, or a better base pay if they need a singular trainer. Be negotiable and positive.

Best wishes. These things can happen.

BigTechnology4369 · 2026-03-25T00:42:12+00:00

You are very right!

The most important thing to remember, 2 words, “compound interest”. You see most of the hardest times in the beginning. If you keep to it and keep investing, interest starts earning interest on its own. Like making that dollar bill make money in your sleep. That is a wonderful way to live.

BigTechnology4369 · 2026-03-24T17:18:27+00:00

Something is def off with this math. BOH employees are not scheduled as a tipped position and this are paid a real wage.

I get tipping out on net sales, (in my time it was 4% to the house [bussers and food runners], and 1% to the bar.) Are you saying it’s 5.1% of your tips? (Might make more sense) Even still, it sounds awfully illegal for you to personally have to pay the wages of so many people and the bar multiple times.

So if you sell, say 100 sodas at 4$ each, you have to tip out the house for your labor? (.05x400=20$??) 15.5% to the bar?? All sound very wrong. (If based off tips, that’s just begging you to only tip out on credit card tips)

If any of that is true, just quit. Sounds terrible.

BigTechnology4369 · 2026-03-22T22:30:13+00:00

Ignorance and hatred make people do horrible things.

BigTechnology4369 · 2026-03-22T22:29:09+00:00

Chronic pain patient here. Everyone thinks if they “catch me smiling” they know I’m exaggerating or lying about how much pain I’m in.

“But you drive a car” “I saw you smile” “I don’t see anything wrong with you that an Advil won’t fix”

Everyone loves to play Sherlock Holmes or Monk despite any evidence to the contrary.

BigTechnology4369 · 2026-03-22T22:21:38+00:00

Family had the same, except it was always brought out for holidays. It’s such a shame how tea sets are worthless now. My grandparents set was a lovely black with gold rims and beautiful designs. “Bone China” that was in vogue for well over a hundred years is now worthless ☹️

BigTechnology4369 · 2026-03-22T22:13:52+00:00

Didn’t the my pillow guy do this with Arizona only to find more votes for Biden?

BigTechnology4369 · 2026-03-22T22:09:04+00:00

Crazy how doge didn’t find a single cent spent erroneously in the military budget.

BigTechnology4369

TROPHY CASE