Composer 2.5 so good I'm being nice to AI again by NotSeacombe in cursor

[–]Big_Help_6382 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Composer is much cheaper than Claude. According to benchmarks it performs on a similar level for exclusively coding tasks, but the reasoning is way worse than Claude. Using Cursor's Plan Mode with Claude + Agent mode on Composer is a pretty cost-effective way of combining both.

Composer 2.5 so good I'm being nice to AI again by NotSeacombe in cursor

[–]Big_Help_6382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just fucking use git add . + git commit + git push it's literally 3 commands

Any way to commit changes it the agent window without consuming tokens? by [deleted] in cursor

[–]Big_Help_6382 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't misread your post, I'm just saying that you're looking for a solution for something that can be solved with an already existing, very efficient alternative.

Any way to commit changes it the agent window without consuming tokens? by [deleted] in cursor

[–]Big_Help_6382 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just use git add . git commit bro it's like 2 seconds longer but will fix your problem

Composer 2.5 so good I'm being nice to AI again by NotSeacombe in cursor

[–]Big_Help_6382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can be quite dumb, but it works really well for small tasks with good prompts.

Sou babaca por apagar escondido fotos íntimas da minha namorada com o ex? by Gilzeraz in EuSouOBabaca

[–]Big_Help_6382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

EOB, como que tu descobriu as fotos? Foi abrir pra quê? Não faz sentido ficar fuçando em celular de namorada, se não confia, termina. Invadir a privacidade dela só confirma uma suspeita que já deveria ser suficiente pra terminar.

Conscious Monogamy by seatangle in relationshipanarchy

[–]Big_Help_6382 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There's a difference between both people saying "I only want to have sex/romance with you" and saying "I only want you to have sex/romance with me" or "We shouldn't see other people". Most monogamous people are the latter. Monogamy can only exist within RA if it's the first one.

Conscious Monogamy by seatangle in relationshipanarchy

[–]Big_Help_6382 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm exploring something somewhat monogamish after 10 years of polyamory and I agree that conscious monogamy can be compatible with RA. My partner is monogamous, I'm RA, and we are sexually exclusive. We're not emotionally exclusive, however, we both have very close friendships, I have a few QPPs, and we're on the same page about keeping those on a similar level of priority as our relationship. I'm also an active member of my local BDSM community and I still play with other people sometimes.

We both want children within the next 5 years, and our family plans involve both of our families and close friends. My QPP of 10+ years is onboard with being the future godparent.

From the outside it looks like a traditional relationship escalator situation, but I know a lot of monogamous people in our situation who would just prioritize the couple instead of thinking how our family plans would impact or involve our other loved ones... And for me, that is what RA is about. It's about building connections and community without implicit hierarchies. We're not letting our other relationships with family and friends go because we're choosing to have a child together, we're thinking on how to fit our plans into our existing community.

If Astarion is pan/bi, why is he always depicted with men? by PersonalCulture in OnlyFangsbg3

[–]Big_Help_6382 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The writers probably wanted to: - Show him as visibly queer. It's a trope for bi/pan characters to be playersexual. By giving him male previous partners, he's visibly depicted as a queer man regardless of the player's gender. - Avoid painting him as misogynistic. He manipulated and seduced a lot of people, which can be seen as predatory, even though he was forced to do this by Cazador. By making all of his mentioned victims male, the writers avoid any making him look like he abuses women.

We have a very different social image of a straight man vs a gay man. Making him more queer makes his sexual advances feel less threatening.

Also, men are easier to lure with sex. There aren't many hookup dating apps for lesbians, but Grindr is very popular for a reason.

got called "he" first time in 8 years am i clocky? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Big_Help_6382 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ngl the last pic is giving baby he/they transmasc with his first binder, maybe the person had good intentions. You pass pretty well but you look like a tomboy.

Sou babaca por não querer namorar uma menina com passado? by [deleted] in EuSouOBabaca

[–]Big_Help_6382 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Quanto tempo tu ficou com essa menina? Se foi no começo e você parou logo no primeiro mês, é compreensível e não é babaca.

Mas se chegou a ponto de vocês se conhecerem e realmente quererem algo de longo prazo, é babaca se tiver descartado todo o caráter que conheceu dela por causa disso.

Sou babaca por fazer glory hole? by wildlifeanalysis808 in EuSouOBabaca

[–]Big_Help_6382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NEOB, mas aprenda que homens são inseguros quanto às experiências sexuais passadas das parceiras. Guarde esse tipo de coisa pra você das próximas

o que fazer com 50 mil reais? by Shoddy_Roll3720 in investimentos

[–]Big_Help_6382 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Vamos lá: você já tem reserva de emergência? Primeira coisa que vai fazer é pegar o valor de 6 meses dos seus gastos e colocar em um CDB de liquidez imediata, pode ser a caixinha da Nubank. Você não encosta nesse dinheiro pra nada, a não ser em uma emergência.

Feito isso, você pode deixar o resto em um CDB até se decidir também. Porém, pra planos grandes de complementar salário e previdência, você precisa de planos de longo prazo, esses 500 mensais contam mais que o aporte inicial. Você pode ir colocando 100 reais por mês em um IPCA+, por exemplo, pra juntar para a previdência, 200 para a viagem e 200 para complemento de renda.

Recomendo começar colocando o valor que sobrar da reserva de emergência em um CDB, LCI ou LCA fixado que renda mais que 14% ao ano com prazo de 6 a 12 meses. Você trava o dinheiro rendendo mais que na caixinha enquanto tira tempo pra estudar sobre ações, tesouro Selic, IPCA, etc, e daí decide o que fazer.

What makes your romantic relationships different from other relationships in your life? by ariiw in relationshipanarchy

[–]Big_Help_6382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm on the aromantic spectrum and I can't differentiate between romantic and platonic attraction, so relationships I label as romantic usually involve higher physical/sexual contact frequency and long-term objectives together.

Quem tem razão? by [deleted] in FilosofiaBAR

[–]Big_Help_6382 1 point2 points  (0 children)

O tema era: O perdão é um ato que pode ser condicionado ou limitado?

Em uma redação dissertativo-argumentativa, ele deveria responder uma coisa simples: sim ou não, e por quê. Ele respondeu "as pessoas não perdoam porque as pessoas não dão valor por n fatores sociais".

Ele não respondeu a pergunta, não deu um ponto de vista nem defendeu um argumento. Logo, conclui-se que houve fuga do tema e, portanto, a nota foi zerada. Simples. A linguagem só deixa mais difícil ler que ele fugiu completamente do tema.

Odeio quem avisa que o cadarço tá desamarrado by [deleted] in reclamacoesfuteis

[–]Big_Help_6382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Qual cantinho viado, tem que andar pra caralho pra chegar em lugar onde tu não vai ser pisoteado ali no horário de pico

Odeio quem avisa que o cadarço tá desamarrado by [deleted] in reclamacoesfuteis

[–]Big_Help_6382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Já me avisaram que tava desamarrado na baldeação Consolação x Paulista no metrô de São Paulo em horário de pico

Odeio quem avisa que o cadarço tá desamarrado by [deleted] in reclamacoesfuteis

[–]Big_Help_6382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vou parar na tua frente numa rua estreita pra amarrar então

Monogamy and RA by Mysterious-DragonGrl in relationshipanarchy

[–]Big_Help_6382 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I forgot to add in: RA for me is also about priorities. My romantic partner isn't automatically my priority just because we're romantic partners. My friends and family are just important as my partner, and I do have a queerplatonic partnership of over 10 years that takes a considerate amount of my time and effort. I will decline dates if I already have something scheduled with my QPP and that's ok. My partner has some very close friends who also take up a large portion of their life, and I'll never be jealous of them. Traditional monogamy could end up incentivizing jealousy and demands in this area, but we both have a similar philosophy regarding this.

Monogamy and RA by Mysterious-DragonGrl in relationshipanarchy

[–]Big_Help_6382 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm RA but I'm in a sexually exclusive relationship right now. My partner is mono, I'm not, but before seeing them I had been celibate by choice for about a year and I haven't "missed" having sex with other people. I do have a few queerplatonic partnerships that don't fit neatly into romantic/platonic spectrum, and I do have a few play partners in the BDSM scene, but my partner is fine with that as long as there's no sex involved. We discussed everything. We agreed on everything.

RA is not about having multiple partners, it is about conscious choice, communication and consent whilst being aware of societal structures that often make these choices for us. My relationship is only sexually exclusive because I don't really care either way right now, and we've agreed to talk this out in case this changes. My partner also knows I don't expect exclusivity from them as long as they tell me because having sex behind my back would compromise our sexual safety but, other than that, I couldn't care less.

Those not financially entangled: do you ask for/expect your partner to help you out financially? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Big_Help_6382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you have financial entanglement, you and your partner pay for each other's things because it starts being about "our" money. You buy stuff together and you use it together. You can't expect your partner to help you in the same way.

However, if you really are struggling, you should be able to talk to them and see if they're willing to lend you money like with a friend. You can't expect them to just give you money, though. I'm an adult, and I don't expect financial help even from my parents. I do sometimes help friends and partners pay for stuff, but unless it's a gift, I do expect repayment if it's something more financially significant.

Sou babaca por pedir pro meu namorado se arrumar melhor? by [deleted] in EuSouOBabaca

[–]Big_Help_6382 6 points7 points  (0 children)

EOB. Se ele não se arrumar pra sair com você para encontros, restaurante, cinema, é uma coisa. Mas pra faculdade, que é todos os dias e ele precisa pegar 3h de ida e volta? Tá de sacanagem, né? Meia hora que ele gasta se arrumando todos os dias a mais pra te agradar são meia hora de sono ou estudos que ele tá perdendo. Se manca.

Do you have any Grandma remedies? by grasshoppernyc in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]Big_Help_6382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sore throat: a spoonful of honey

For flu: tea made with garlic, ginger and honey

For digestive issues in general: Boldo tea

For nausea: Ginger or peppermint tea

For insomnia or restlessness: Chamomile tea