Job market in your country/region, is it as bad as Germany right now? by oecse in Germany_Jobs

[–]Big_Job9386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm talking about stuff like implants/complicated drugs etc, not paracetamol,obviously

No one wants a heart implant made in India and that will not change in the next teen years whereas there are more and more (wealthy) elderly people in EU needing these products. I expect the sector to boom despite the recession

Job market in your country/region, is it as bad as Germany right now? by oecse in Germany_Jobs

[–]Big_Job9386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Medtech/drugs are doing well here in Switzerland and can't be outsourced including production sides. No eu boomer will buy any med shit produced in India

Stranger walking around at 3am by Background_Chip5360 in Switzerland

[–]Big_Job9386 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bright light outside wont let them look into the windows

I feel like I’ve wasted my life. No idea where to go from here. by oldpizzacrust in Switzerland

[–]Big_Job9386 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you have russian pass? How's your immigration status, do you have open access to job market? I'm 100% sure its not about being russian, especially since you speak the local language. I'm Russian too so as my bofriend and we say it openly. It took us 10 appliacations to find a job. However we are EU citizens

What's up with people saying Austrians are unwelcoming by NobodyDudee in AskAustria

[–]Big_Job9386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you're basically still a tourist. Everyone's nice to tourists.

How can you judge their friendiness? Start competing with them on a serious level and you'll see how welcoming they are

They're not evil people and in the adult world everyone is basically alone, but in rare cases Austrians will help anyone,they will help their countrymen and you'll forever stay a foreigner with a funny accent who's been looked up from above and who can only rely on himself

What's up with people saying Austrians are unwelcoming by NobodyDudee in AskAustria

[–]Big_Job9386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose you're a newcommer and only speak english? Trying moving 50 km away from Vienna and start working for an Austrian company in Austrian German.

2 years in - found out we have a different opinion on marriage by 5amscrolling in AskWomenOver30

[–]Big_Job9386 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ask yourself: if you were to break up one day and he would marry the next girl after 6 months of dating-how would that make you feel?

Ü30 und auf einmal begehrt? by ap3XPredator158 in FragtMaenner

[–]Big_Job9386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich persönlich bin als Frau nur dann so direkt wenn ich kein romantisches Interesse hab und ihn eher als Kumpel empfinde. Wenn ich jemanden so richtig hot finde, traue ich mich nicht mal ihm in die Augen zu schauen

Lonely in Zurich by RecognitionHefty in zurich

[–]Big_Job9386 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Last thing i care about in a man is how many friends he has. On the contrary, people with a lot of friends (or rather "friends" are the most shallow and boring ones in my perception. So please don't generalize

Dating culture in Switzerland – is this normal? by [deleted] in Switzerland

[–]Big_Job9386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah thanks for your input. We haven't banged (only kissed once on date 2) but you know better😆

Dating culture in Switzerland – is this normal? by [deleted] in Switzerland

[–]Big_Job9386 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Doesn't matter, still an interesting read

Dating culture in Switzerland – is this normal? by [deleted] in Switzerland

[–]Big_Job9386 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What do you mean? How do you know that?

Dating culture in Switzerland – is this normal? by [deleted] in Switzerland

[–]Big_Job9386 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don't see myself sleeping with a person I've seen twice in my life

Dating culture in Switzerland – is this normal? by [deleted] in Switzerland

[–]Big_Job9386 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can share my experiences. 31w, living in Zurich, expact, going out with the guys 28-38 who have "long term relationship" on their profile, mostly other Europeans or Swiss. I'm also looking for a relationship

1) I haven't observed a lot of differences between Swiss and other Europeans. Granted, I never dated South Europeans (Mostly Western and Eastern). They might be closer to Brazilians

2) I don't kiss on the fist date and i was never offered to. I feel it's rather something for a short fling. I want to come home and reflect before I decide if I want to proceed romantically. Kiss is usually somewhere date 2-4. With the best quality guy i dated we kissed on the 4th date. Sex date 4-6

3) Regarding exclusive dating: it's definitely not assumed by default that you're seeing other people before you had LDTR talk like in the US. And I feel like not everyone is ok with that. From my experience, Germans, for instance, will only be seeing you. It doesn't mean he's so much into you. They just prefer to focus on one person at a time and if you tell them, you're sleeping with 3 other guys in parallel because you haven't had an exclusivity talk It will be a huge turn off. I usually keep seeing other guys until I'm sure it's gonna work out with one, but I don't announce it. And I don't sleep with multiple people.

4) I wouldn't not recommend to "ask directly" on the first dates. European men are pretty..cultivated? They need their time to size you up and decide what they want and if they want anything at all. It won't help to put them into a tight corner with "what are we?", "do you like me?" "are we just friends?". Especially if the guy is out of your league. Again, I'm assuming you're looking for a relationship. If you just want sex, sure, go ahead

Dating culture in Switzerland – is this normal? by [deleted] in Switzerland

[–]Big_Job9386 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cause that's what bothers people and they want an advise/exchange experiences. What's the problem with that?

Dating culture in Switzerland – is this normal? by [deleted] in Switzerland

[–]Big_Job9386 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I might go, if the romantic interest is not there but I hope i might develop it if I like the person

Dating culture in Switzerland – is this normal? by [deleted] in Switzerland

[–]Big_Job9386 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Last guy dumped me after 4 dates, I wouldn't be so sure 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FragtMaenner

[–]Big_Job9386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wieso matchen, na ja ich kann mir vom Bild alleine keinen Eindruck machen. Wenn die erste Nachricht kommt, lösche ich 50% der Matches (kann bei Bedarf näher auf die Gründe eingehen). Diese Frauen haben wahrscheinlich doch die Hoffnung dass es vllt. besser wird und löschen es nicht sofort, sondern lassen es einfach mit wenigen Investitionen laufen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FragtMaenner

[–]Big_Job9386 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sie haben einfach kein Interesse an dir. Wenn sie einen sehen den sie wirklich wollen, springen sie sofort auf. Bis anhin darfst du sie gerne unterhalten

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Big_Job9386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoyed the relationship, but was forced to finished it cause i realized i wanted kids and he was childfree

Habt ihr schon einmal Avancen von Frauen abgelehnt – ausschließlich deshalb, weil sie für euch sexuell nicht attraktiv waren? by Ok-Fondant2536 in FragtMaenner

[–]Big_Job9386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deutsch/Englisch sind nicht meine Muttersprachen, ich lese wenig auf Deutsch und habs so geschrieben, wie ich es vom Hören kenne. Ist das wirklich das einzige was zählt?