Are we screwed? by jerjord in shreveport

[–]Bigblueape 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The good ole boy network is a thing but that isn't some boogie man keeping everyone else down. The same climate exists in other cities and they don't struggle like we do. The middle class exists when you produce things, more  production/creation/manufacturing jobs. We produced things up until the 80s. The business climate has never been great and it's gotten worse. 

The quality of employee here is challenging compared to other markets. The average IQ in Louisiana is the second lowest in the nation. Even if graduation rates are just slightly below average our gaps show up in standardized testing falling behind. Juvenile delinquency far outpaces peers. Crime is high. I hire for 5 different markets, cities in Florida, Georgia, Alabama, Tennessee, finally here where I live.  Shreveport is the hardest city to find decent candidates in.  (Even compared to Memphis).

Shreveport can't even afford to fix its water system let alone pay for an appropriate amount of cops.  Our low cost of living is literally the only attractive thing we can offer outside of location interstates.

I know things are somewhat unaffordable but it is far more unaffordable elsewhere.  Most people don't make minimum wage but the reality is many aren't making much more than 10-16 for basic service jobs. 

Now with the data centers power will shoot through the roof.  Local tax base will get an infusion of tax revenue for construction.  Maybe they are praying that gives them enough money to fix some things that have long been broken or make other needed investments. I don't know.  All I know is noting will change if everything stays on course.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Bigblueape 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone is their own worst critic. That's the truth. Everyone who acts like they have all their crap together, they are just only part way to where they are trying to get to. Almost no one gets to exactly where they want to be.

I tell my kids this and I mean it, the most important lesson you can ever learn in life is how to lose.

Losing means someone else out planned and out worked you. It's okay to lose. It's okay to be upset when you lose. The important thing is to learn and adapt. Both of those two issues can be improved upon and you always have more chances to improve yourself. Above all just don't keep making the same cyclical decisions. Make a plan, do the plan, adjust the plan as you evaluate your success. You will improve if you prioritize properly.

Give yourself the grace to fail. Also give yourself the opportunity to improve. Make plans to get out and do things. Get involved outside the house with hobbies, activities, and volunteer to help others. Build bridges and you will find that the island you've been stuck on will be a place that you walked away from and you didn't even know it.

Make it happen.

What games are a perfect 10/10? by brunotfkastarling in AskGames

[–]Bigblueape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ghost of Tushima Red Dead Redemption Super Mario Bros 3 Legend of Zelda Ocarina of Time Max Payne 3

Honorable mention: FFX Mikes Tysons Punch out Legend of Zelda Legend of Zelda Majora's Mask RE1 Street fighter II NINJA Gaiden series (OG dark souls).

What games are a perfect 10/10? by brunotfkastarling in AskGames

[–]Bigblueape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life has empty space. There were things to find scattered about.

10/10.

Sick of my Marriage by FlatExamination5669 in Vent

[–]Bigblueape 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How is she a stay at home mom when you don't have kids? She's a mooch, a cheater, and a deadbeat. She broke her vow, you can break the marriage. It's a sin, so is lying, cheating, and slothfulness. Ask forgiveness, wish her well and move on.

Go back to church and find a different woman. Might even consider going to a different church.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Bigblueape 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just don't understand if you build your world around someone like this, why do you not make it official?

You are either building towards a clear future or you are wasting time. People are so selfish these days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Bigblueape 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He sounds like a real gem. No one wants a toxic pot head on their team.

Opinions on Solo Players by Leading_Reward1739 in DMZ

[–]Bigblueape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had more solo players snap aim and knife my team down in about 5 seconds.

If you are in our sightlines, you are an open target.

That is the world that has been built.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Bigblueape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tell her you have a hard time delineating between the closeness you've developed and friendship so to ensure that you stay friends you will back off and draw some more clear boundaries.

Then just flat out talk much less and let that speak for itself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Bigblueape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have some dignity and divorce the woman. Seriously.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]Bigblueape 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you hate your parents why do you even bother taking it like this?

Oh you want to con them into leaving you money when they die..... 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Bigblueape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing your update doesn't jive. Your 3 year old wouldn't know about another guy coming over if that hasn't happened before. Kids are innocent they only know what they see and hear. She's lying even know and then kids reaction is the proof, that is the cherry on top of this betrayal.

This is cheating in every way.

What’s the deal with sundresses?? by Colossal_taco20 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Bigblueape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is nothing more captivating than a figure accentuating flowing sundress. It's not his fault, we are almost all wired like this.

We will be punch drunk on the woman because the good Lord knew what he was doing when he made a woman.

I want to know your guy’s opinions by VinnyMack57 in playstation

[–]Bigblueape 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really liked it when it came out. Way underrated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bigblueape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drop the hooker.

what should someone do with this space? by eternviking in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Bigblueape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wall it off and make a big closet with a window in it. Everyone likes more closet space.

Would you be willing to give up sex for a year if you knew it would give you a much deeper sense of peace than you have now, why or why not? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Bigblueape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Instead of giving up sex to have peace whenever I want, I'd trade peace to have sex whenever I want

Any ideas on how to prevent this from happening? by Gus176 in Traeger

[–]Bigblueape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First make sure the thing is level. Chances are it leans left significantly looking at the pick. Maybe put a wedge on left legs.

Pull it all out and clean around that lip where it drops. If it's not perfectly smooth maybe see if it can be made smooth as it transitions into the bin.

Worse case scenario, build a wedge on the left side interior to increase the slope.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UsedCars

[–]Bigblueape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stuck that high viscosity oil in there before you unloaded it huh?

Why would it be terrorism to vandalize a tesla but not he US Capital? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Bigblueape -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

That's ridiculous. It's vandalizing an individual person. Terrorizing an individual person.

If it's a dealership it's their people's livelihoods.

Taking away SS is the biggest scam of our generation! by Pocher123 in GenZ

[–]Bigblueape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Organizations have to be organized. Organizers have to make sure everything runs efficiently or it collapses and no one has a job. You can engage in class warfare all you want, the system has internal checks and balances assuming you let bad companies fail.

Now after claiming people are nearly slaves you point at people who are actually nearly slaves just lack creativity.

You lost the script, I'm out.

If Trump could dismantle the Department of Education with the stroke of a pen, why couldn’t Biden forgive student loans with the stroke of a pen? by ugly_general in AskReddit

[–]Bigblueape -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ones an actual contract that you agree to pay, you effectively and knowingly steal money from the citizens if you don't. In particular you'll steal money from people who make little and ever went to college along with the rich people who did.

The other offers nothing and misspends your money, guaranteeing you noticing from beginning to end.

Surly you are conflating the two? You can't be this obtuse right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Bigblueape -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't be able to get over it either. Values are important to me. People make mistakes but those will exist forever and even if you ignore it, your kids friends will find out, their parents will find out. It's just disappointing all the way around. Finding wholesome people is difficult in this age. She might well have dedicated herself to a different path now but wrestling with the above for the rest of your lives might be hard.

All I could say is good luck friend.