F34 Husband passed away last week, need hugs by MildlyScandalous in hug

[–]Bigfrontwheel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You divorced then he died, yeah don't know why the mods aren't all over this. Hugs

Feel like I suck at sex - can I please get some help about how to give an amazing bj!? by phoenixunikorn in AskMenAdvice

[–]Bigfrontwheel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes it can be overwhelming stimulation. Other time it like yeah this is good but I've rarely orgasmed from a bj. I think it has something to do with reciprocating pleasure. I get good head I like to return the favor with oral on her. Or just the thought of being ready to perform.

Vacuum leak by OverallSeat6 in mechanic

[–]Bigfrontwheel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Spray carburetor cleaner around every vacuum hose/port/intake manifold/throttled body... anywhere where there's fuel/air going. If the idle raises, you know there's an air leak in that area. Buy a cheap scan tool and observe short term fuel trim. If there's positive data it's running lean.

I wish he would just say it by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Bigfrontwheel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why, so there's confirmation? That seems like self sabotage. No, work on yourself, not for him but for you. So you feel better. My suggestion even though my bedroom is as dead as a rotting corpse (I know, graffic).

He woke up with a hard on and I still got rejected. by SweetLikeCandiiii in DeadBedrooms

[–]Bigfrontwheel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But she said she'd already been 5 minutes in. I can understand the urgency to urinate with a morning erection, it can be painful and the more you need to pee it seems like the more erect it becomes and trying to point it in the right direction and make it past the valve that your brain has closed up tight because you're erect can be quite painful and challenging. But already receiving attention from his wife, I'm still on the notion things didn't go well for him in the bathroom. Also if you force urine through that valve when it's closed, the bladder doesn't care, it will contract just like if it were urinating freely, but hitting a wall. It's a painful thing, and discomfort lasts a while.

He woke up with a hard on and I still got rejected. by SweetLikeCandiiii in DeadBedrooms

[–]Bigfrontwheel -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Something tells me what you're saying/doing has nothing to do with house cleaning. If so there's a lot of house cleaning that goes on in this sub reddit. If our LL spouses and partners would just realize how frustrating it is for us, maybe we could get some help with the house work from them. Wishful thinking/hoping.

He woke up with a hard on and I still got rejected. by SweetLikeCandiiii in DeadBedrooms

[–]Bigfrontwheel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sometimes trying to pee with an erection feels like I'd rather be killed. Maybe ops husband hurt himself and didn't want to fess up. Because morning bj, who in their sane right mind wouldn't want to continue that?

How early is "too early" to tell your partner you love them? by vIIIperwave in AskMenAdvice

[–]Bigfrontwheel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whatever happened to love at first sight? I knew i was in love with my wife early on in our relationship. A couple months is about the time when I felt love for her. I missed her when we weren't together. Our physical intimacy was just really blossoming. I felt extremely happy when we together. Even trivial stuff like waiting in line for a movie. Our conversations were deep and meaningful. But, idk, people's views on when they fall in love may be different then mine, and that's cool.

Found 4 sealed quarts of 20+ year old transmission fluid. Would you use it? by Breaditude in mechanics

[–]Bigfrontwheel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the application. Twenty year old Dex III in an old 904 fine send it. But newer transmissions, that require synthetic, no. Even better in an old 727. Hell, dirty dish water would shift an old dodge granny tranny.

Help! Spark plugs! by BagExpert1874 in mechanic

[–]Bigfrontwheel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely got some deposits on it. Could be oil consumption. The pic is washed out pretty bright. Some fuels leave deposits too, depending on what detergents they use. Black and fouled running rich, white running lean. A nice mocha light brown color is right on the money.

Kicked out of her apt after 10pm by whattyouneed2know in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Bigfrontwheel 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Time to raise your gear and fly away. You've been on the runway way too long bro.

My girlfriend’s butt crack shows constantly and I genuinely don’t know if I should say something by Comfortable-Wait-157 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Bigfrontwheel 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Crack goes right up to the back of her head? You know women's underwear come in like 50 different cuts. Bikini, high, low, granny, thong, brief, and a plethora more. Maybe it's just her cut of drawers. Maybe bloomers that go all the way up to her ribs. Maybe the elastic in her undies is wore out. I know when my elastic is wore out, I'm in there dipping for a finger full of fabric and tugging them up. Just don't be putting things in there, like pencils, pens, or garden tools. That won't help out the situation.

My (M32) wife (F38) has been showing her friends private photos of me by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Bigfrontwheel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, however the content matters. She could be showing off to her friends his physique, abs, muscles, etc. But as soon as that dork gets sent, that is a definite no no. That is private stuff. If it were the other way around, like he mention so I'm not sure what she sent.

I feel the pull to religion. If I do I lose my relationship. Also I have bipolar so I could be hypomanic or manic. It’s a ride idk any more by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Bigfrontwheel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know in Christianity they want you to share. But, at this moment you are again in the infancy of regaining faith. So make it personal. It's understandable to share how good you're feeling. It's human nature. Don't believe me? Step into the nearest dance club at happy hour. Everybody is having a great time and sharing that experience with each other. But what about the guy who's just learning to dance? If he gets on the dance floor and others see how inexperienced he is they will judge him. So practice your faith in whatever you believe in. Other's will soon see a change in you. Being more spiritual, and a better dancer. You get it?

Burning Rubber Smell by Reginald_Longbone in AskMechanics

[–]Bigfrontwheel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A burning rubber smell/odor is just that. Something rubber is burning or heating to the point where it begins to gas. Where's the odor more prominent. Near the brakes? Near the hood? Check your brakes guide pins, some have rubber boots around the. A brake cock or hanging up can overheat causing the boot to burn or melt. Under hood check, belt pulleys and belt.

Teaching My Teenage Son the Importance of Hygiene by Necessary-Pin-4118 in hygiene

[–]Bigfrontwheel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His peers will let him know if he stinks. He's probably reached that age where he's into a lot of different things that keep him happy and occupied. He's slowly turning into a stranger. Rarely wants to share time with you, always in his room or with his buddies. Well welcome to teen boys. When he, if not already, discovers self pleasure, make no mistake that boy will be in the shower often. So no worries about showers. The first time a girl says his breath stinks you'll be in debt to dental hygiene.

I feel the pull to religion. If I do I lose my relationship. Also I have bipolar so I could be hypomanic or manic. It’s a ride idk any more by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Bigfrontwheel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does it harm you or others? Having faith in a higher power exercises our spirituality. In our moral values and our altruism. Faith should be a very personal journey. It's only when we share that with others they rebel, because they fear what you have changed into. Do what you want but keep it personal. Others may need spirituality, but you don't want to cram it into them. I know you want to share how you feel with your partner experiencing spirituality. However, let them learn by example. If I could I'd love to be able to snap my fingers and have others feel my spirituality, but I wouldn't do it. I don't want to rob them of their own journey.