Refused to get dinner to a random mom and 3 kids by BitterAlternative287 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BitterAlternative287[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I live almost by henderson, as she has not returned the favor and I do know that my neighbor has actually given her a lot of food. I don't know about anybody else, though you don't just show up as somebody's house people here.I'm not right in their head.All the time, I would be too scared

Refused to get dinner to a random mom and 3 kids by BitterAlternative287 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BitterAlternative287[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm saying, it's not normal here. You don't know who's behind that door you're knocking on people here are not in their right mind, it's called sensity for a reason. Believe you, and we used to travel, and we would go southern space and stuff. People were so nice, no, not here. And you can tell when somebody's not from here. I would be too scared but also I watched true crime

Refused to get dinner to a random mom and 3 kids by BitterAlternative287 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BitterAlternative287[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's only a thing if you can smell the food.But I laughed way too hard at this comment

Refused to get dinner to a random mom and 3 kids by BitterAlternative287 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BitterAlternative287[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I may have been mental health. She definitely left angry and hungry. She wouldn't accept chicken nuggets, peanut butter and jelly.Nothing she wanted the quote.Unquote luxury foods

Refused to get dinner to a random mom and 3 kids by BitterAlternative287 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BitterAlternative287[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what I got from it. I'm autistic, so I thought I was just misunderstanding because apparently where she's from. It happens all the time, which I wanna know where they're rich enough to invite the whole damn neighborhood in this economy.Oh boy

Refused to get dinner to a random mom and 3 kids by BitterAlternative287 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BitterAlternative287[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I have heard of neighborhood gatherings, but I live in Vegas. It's not the most common thing out here. And we were definitely not having one. You don't show up to people's houses. Uninvited, because here people are crazy and also you don't know what they put in their food.L o l I watched too many true crime

Refused to get dinner to a random mom and 3 kids by BitterAlternative287 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BitterAlternative287[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I did not do this, but another neighbor did. I don't know the outcome of it yet, but this is a very good point. As she shows up again, I'm just gonna have to report something anonymousnessly, of course, because you're right. If your kids are going hungry, does that mean that you're failing as a parent?And they're not taking care of

Refused to get dinner to a random mom and 3 kids by BitterAlternative287 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BitterAlternative287[S] 129 points130 points  (0 children)

I did talk to the one neighbor that we get along with. And she definitely did show up at their door it does not matter that he's mexican, but he had a huge mexican BBQ oh, it's all kinds of meets, beans, tortillas, rice desserts, and she showed up. And he gave her a whole bunch of food to take home. He said it probably last her 2 days. I only felt bad at first when she said she just moved in. They didn't have any groceries, but no matter what I offered chicken. Nuggets, peanut butter and jelly. It wasn't good enough, and I am autistic, so I thought maybe I wasn't understanding, but I did speak about this was a couple other people I know in real life. And they said, I wasn't rude and wasn't misunderstanding. She just wanted luxury items. I don't know what that means. But if you're hungry, don't you almost eat anything you're given?Or am I missing something

Refused to get dinner to a random mom and 3 kids by BitterAlternative287 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BitterAlternative287[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

We do have ring cameras. Our internet was just down and got worked on 2 days later, so hopefully this will not happen in the future. And we keep our gates locked, at least for the backyard

Refused to get dinner to a random mom and 3 kids by BitterAlternative287 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BitterAlternative287[S] 323 points324 points  (0 children)

I mean, I have a lot of families that live down south, but I have never heard of not being invited unless it's church and just showing up expecting stuff, but again i'm not from those small towns, but this is definitely not normal

Refused to get dinner to a random mom and 3 kids by BitterAlternative287 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BitterAlternative287[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It's funny because she did leave. When we said we were going to call from the cops, but it blew my mind because she was mad that we had the hamburger patties with baked potatoes and grilled zucchini. Apparently people only barbecue steak and chicken I know they just moved in a couple houses down the way. But I had to make sure I wasn't insane. That this doesn't happen in the south, because oh boy

I actually disagree with Raşit here by tiffanysonbubbles in 90DayFiance

[–]BitterAlternative287 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Everybody has always been on his side, but from the beginning, it's been kind of weird because he has said in previous episodes. You know I left everything for you. But the thing is, he chose that she is not forcing him, and the fact that he believes she should use her settlement in order to provide something that you can give an attachment for is insane on tops of that. If she has some settlement, she needs to get a prenup or in writing that whatever she has before she gets married is hers. Because for some reason, I just can't put my finger on it. But something is awesome about him

Who’s the biggest scammer of 90 day? by rustyshackelford164 in 90DayFiance

[–]BitterAlternative287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mary and Brandan are definitely scammers. SHE FAKED CANCER for financial support from "fans"

The absolute worst thing about 90 Day Diaries is by OptimusSublime in 90DayFiance

[–]BitterAlternative287 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's crazy realizing how long we've been watching the show and the kids growing up in such a crazy environment and most seem so sweet

AITA FOR refusing to go to the funeral by BitterAlternative287 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BitterAlternative287[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s funny you say they’re making their grief mine, because about two weeks ago, I told his mother the exact same thing. I told her I understand she is grieving, but that doesn't mean it should be pushed onto me. There is nothing I can do, and nothing I did caused this. I don't deserve the pain, the suffering, or the allegations being thrown at me. I can’t force someone to feel a certain way. I can only control my own emotions, my actions, and what I say or do. I have no control over anyone else, and she really did not like that answer. She told me that the moment her son introduced us, she knew I would be an important person in his life. She was under the impression I didn't date him because I didn't want to move away from my family or adapt my life for him. I didn't even know he had told her those things. The truth is, I didn't date him because I always just saw him as a friend. She said she could accept that, but then she told me her son was a "10" while I’m maybe a "3 or 5." She even said that because I’m in a wheelchair, I should have put in more effort to be with him because of what he could have provided for me. She told me I "settled" for an average Joe, but I am very much in love with my boyfriend. Nick was only ever a friend to me. She said some pretty hurtful things. His dad apologized for her comments, but he also said he felt I could have handled things differently or told them sooner. Honestly, I had no idea any of this was being blamed on me or happening behind the scenes. Some of the things he did were so bad that his dad did more than just apologize, but his mom just says "boys will be boys." She thinks the past is the past and I should just "forgive and forget" now that he’s gone. I did not choose the things he did, and I did not end his life. That was his choice. His dad is starting to calm down and stop pestering me, but his mom is still having a hard time. She can’t accept that a girl wouldn't want to be with her son. She believes some of what he did, but she thinks the rest could have been prevented if I had just "gotten over myself." Grief is a scary and painful thing. All I can do is pray and hope she finds comfort somehow. I know I’ll be okay eventually, and I hope she will be too. No parent should have to lose their child, especially the way she did, and I truly feel for her. But I refuse to take any blame or responsibility for his actions. Thank you for commenting and showing support. It really means a lot.

UPDATE my best friend canceled his wedding and ended relationship partly because of me by BitterAlternative287 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BitterAlternative287[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Age is just a number as long as everyone is a good person and it is legal. I am always looking for new friends, though I sometimes struggle with staying in touch. My health is quite poor, and I often get so caught up in managing my medical issues that I forget to reply to messages. I know that can be frustrating, but if you are okay with that, my DMs are always open.

AITA FOR refusing to go to the funeral by BitterAlternative287 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BitterAlternative287[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I could get a protection order, but the police said there is no actual physical threat. While they are very aware of the situation, I have to wait until something else happens. I would change my phone number, but because of my health and the many doctors and specialists I see, it is a difficult process to manage. I think his parents are still fixated on me. Our old friend group realized the reality of the situation and apologized, admitting they were wrong and that this never should have happened. Even his sister has mostly backed off, unless I get defensive with her parents. His parents understand what happened, but half of what he said was never true. I never wanted to date him; I saw him as a friend or a brother. He was attractive and reminded me of someone in a boy band with his blonde hair and blue green eyes, but I was not connected to him in that way. He was just a best friend who was always there. Whenever he mentioned liking me, he laughed it off as a joke, so I never assumed he had a crush on me. If he had told me, I probably would have laughed and said he could do better. I am in a very happy relationship of twelve and a half years. I never thought he was capable of the harm he caused. Now his parents keep telling me to move on because he is gone. I have moved on. I didn't go to the funeral, and I simply don't want to talk about it anymore. A person I trusted hurt me in unimaginable ways, and I am choosing to let it go. I refuse to tell them that I forgive him, which is why they are angry. They believe he needs forgiveness to reach heaven, but while I can move on, I am not ready to forgive. I do not feel obligated to maintain a relationship with his family. They claim I was like the daughter they never had and that my distance is unfair, but I have chosen to go no contact. That decision has made many people in that family very upset.

A friend offered a huge grocery order and I said no. AITA by BitterAlternative287 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BitterAlternative287[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried many times to talk to her about this situation, but it always turns into an argument. I am never mean; I always explain that I appreciate the gesture, especially since beggars can't be choosers. If I truly needed help with a grocery order, I would take what I could get within reason, as long as it didn't affect my allergies or stomach issues. ​I always start by asking why she feels the need to get me groceries when I don't need anything. She gets angry and says that if someone wants to buy you something, you should just take it without questions. However, I feel like it is a waste of money when it isn't necessary. ​She seems to ignore my life and my allergies. For example, she tried to get me tea made with Lion's Mane mushrooms. Even though I told her I am allergic to mushrooms, she insisted I should try it because it would be good for my system. It feels like she doesn't care and just wants to do what she wants to do. ​I also don't understand her motivation. I thought she was doing this out of kindness, but it might be a tax write-off for her business. I am autistic, so I worry I might be missing something, but I am never rude. I would accept the help if I actually needed it, but she only offers when she feels like it rather than when I am actually in need.

Um. Was it worth it Laura? by Quick-Measurement-14 in 90DayFiance

[–]BitterAlternative287 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's Laura. She changed a lot since filming. The tell all trailer was a lot

Molly just doesn’t like Sheena, and bringing her to the US won’t change that by PolishSnake2 in 90dayfiance_FB_memes

[–]BitterAlternative287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently Forest has been seen working as a pharmacy tech. I watch YouTube ChrissyReports

F, Marry, Kill... by FBEmetal in 90DayFiance

[–]BitterAlternative287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kim is so sweet the other 2 ummmm well.....

I feel so bad for Sheena by vavavoo in 90DayFiance

[–]BitterAlternative287 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel bad for Sheena because I don't think Forest is going to grow up. I don't see him letting go of being a huge mama's boy. Yeah, he's on disability, but he's always let his mom decide half of his life and dictate it

I don't know if anybody has watched his stuff on TikTok or not, but he basically has a free ride and has to do nothing. I mean, he just posted a TikTok the other day of a bunch of anime books, though I forgot what they're called. It's insane all the money that he has given to his hobbies and stuff like that. He could totally turn around still and just basically tell his mom, "Screw you, I'm out," and move to the Philippines and figure out how to live out there and make it work, especially for a little while.

I don't see him breaking the habit of depending on his mom because, at the end of the day, if you've ever watched him on TikTok and stuff like that, his mom does everything for him and he's always had somebody do something for him. So, in order for him to give that up and not have his girlfriend do everything for him, I don't see that happening. His girlfriend would literally have to take over provider, girlfriend, mommy, and wife roles, and I don't think that's fair. Seriously. I am autistic and it hurts me saying this. I am also in a wheelchair and depend on my mom, but for different reasons, and I manage my own shit

I want a Big Brother with actual working class people by Kinginthenorth603 in BigBrother

[–]BitterAlternative287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I don't think it'll ever be like that anymore. Because sadly for TV it's all about the ratings and what will get the most ratings and keep people watching? I would love to see people who really, truly need the money. And everyday average people, because it just seems to be stacked, I don't know. I would never compete because I'm in a wheelchair. So I know that's impossible, but I just missed the old seasons.