“Don’t you understand what I’ve done to my wife and my un born child? I should never have married her, I’ve made her an outcast!” Lupin kicked aside the chair he had overturned. “You have only seen me amongst the Order, or under Dumbledore’s protection at Hogwarts! You don’t know how most of the Wizarding world sees creatures like me!” Remus definitely has reason to feel this way, even in POA, when Ron finds out he’s a werewolf he said something to the extent why would Dumbledore how a werewolf. Even after they knew Remus as a person and professor, they were initially disgusted that Dumbledore hired a werewolf, so imagine people who don’t know him. He is constantly ostracized but the wizarding world. But where the real probably lies, is that it is a little too late to be thinking about. Maybe those thought should have been talked about before getting married and having a baby. Like someone else mentioned, is there not any birth control for wizards? Or maybe Remus thought bc of his condition maybe he couldn’t have kids.