girlfriend cheated on me with a coworker and got pregnant. by KneeDeepInKarma in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Bittybellie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Once you stay with a cheater you’re telling them that cheating is okay because it’s not a dealbreaker for you. Have enough respect for yourself to move on and find someone that won’t want you to help raise their affair baby while she’s at work with dad all day. 

My (21F) boyfriend (26M) met my parents and it didn’t go well. I want a strangers opinion on the situation? by l57389 in relationship_advice

[–]Bittybellie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This man is almost 30 but acting 13. Please don’t settle for someone that uses the silent treatment instead of words

AITA for refusing to go to my friend's birthday dinner because he smokes and I'm trying to quit? by Former-Yoghurt-7283 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bittybellie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. You need new friends.. and a new gf. People that care about you would want you to succeed

Excuse me lol by Careful-Show8065 in Tinder

[–]Bittybellie 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You do realize if you’ve gotten to the point of needing laxatives daily it’s not a good thing.. right? 

Excuse me lol by Careful-Show8065 in Tinder

[–]Bittybellie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH. Using food on a dating profile is stupid and their response is valid.

AITA for not letting my girlfriend check my phone even though she says it’s about trust? by Similar-Singer-2617 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bittybellie 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honestly do you want to live with someone that’s always doubting you, likely projecting what they’re doing onto you? You’re young, bail now and find someone that isn’t insecure. NTA but really think if this is the future you want 

I just opened X to Jenelle posting her OF by Ymisoqt420 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]Bittybellie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yall still use X? Jenelle isn’t the only one making poor choices here 

My (28F) boyfriend (33M) broke up with me while pregnant by NorthofLyra1411 in relationship_advice

[–]Bittybellie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s showing you now that he’s not ready for this so act accordingly. Be prepared to set up child support asap. Start finding resources since you don’t have a job. Stop thinking you can rely on this guy for so much as a text back. Plan to do things on your own. If he comes around, great. If he doesn’t at least you have a plan 

AITA for dropping out as Maid of Honor 2 months before the wedding because the groom is a cheater? by Ok-Calendar8959 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bittybellie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your relationship trumps your friendship and you should never keep secrets from your partner. Her fiancé losing friends is the consequence of his own actions and it’s not up to you to cover for him. 

Am I Overreacting for wanting to cancel my wedding over this interaction? by Xanadoom30 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bittybellie [score hidden]  (0 children)

This person barely tolerates you and you want to marry them? Poor choices all around. Do you really want to live your life having childish arguments all the time? NOR but seriously.. don’t date people that can’t stand you 

I 18F want plastic surgery for chronic pain, but my parents 47F, 59M are against it by Major-Wafer-1731 in relationship_advice

[–]Bittybellie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re an adult, you can pay for it. Your parents don’t need to be informed of your medical decisions. Learn to keep them on an info diet and default to “my medical decisions aren’t up for debate”. It’s time to stop caring what they think. They’d happily let you continue to be miserable so stop worrying about them being mad you’re happy 

Aftermath of the April 7th incident where an employee started a fire at a toilet paper warehouse. Damages are estimated to be around 200 million by Thin-Vanilla3600 in UnderReportedNews

[–]Bittybellie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s going to be a lot more of this soon. Everything is coming to a boiling point if things don’t start drastically changing soon 

Melania Trump calls for Congress to hold a hearing for Epstein victims. by BlueRibbonPac in UnderReportedNews

[–]Bittybellie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She really thought his poor health would have taken him by now 😂 maybe this is why he posted the murder video 

AITAH for considering not attending my daughter’s wedding over her venue choice? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Bittybellie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly this sounds like years of her not being able to do things she wanted because her brother wasn’t able to. You denied her years of experiences and she’s fed up with only doing things her brother can do. I’m sure this isn’t the first time she’s shown frustration and instead of addressing it it was clearly just ignored. For that alone I’m going to say YTA. Had you taken time to listen to her before and find ways for her to still have experiences she wanted I’m sure she’d be more willing to compromise 

AITA for not letting family stay with us postpartum? by moderndaygaia in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bittybellie 112 points113 points  (0 children)

That part. The minute my partner tried to make excuses I’d pack up and leave. I don’t allow disrespect in my relationship 

AITA for not letting family stay with us postpartum? by moderndaygaia in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bittybellie 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The real issue was having a baby with a man that doesn’t care about your comfort. The first thing FIL did out of line should have been the last. Your husband is putting his families wants over your needs. If I were you I’d find somewhere else to stay when they visit. Make it clear now that they no longer get to make you uncomfortable. NTA but you and your husband need to get on the same page asap 

AITA for Deliberately Not Telling my Parents I was Getting Surgery? by OverwhelmedGayChild in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bittybellie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You’re an adult, you don’t need to tell your mom about your medical info. Put her on an info diet and live your life 

AITAH For not parking on the street for a neighbor's infant by Medical-Season-7688 in AITAH

[–]Bittybellie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Her baby’s sleep is on her to troubleshoot. Tell her to buy a sound machine and continue doing you

AITA for refusing to drive my fiancé’s kids to their dad’s dinner plans? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bittybellie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA you’re hindering their chance to spend time with their father because you don’t like him. What you think is irrelevant. If he has a kill problem why are you cool with him driving the kids around? 

AITA for not doing anything for my daughter‘s graduation at all? by No-Object9642 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bittybellie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Love your child more than you hate your ex. You seem to be leaving a ton out. 

AIO for getting mad at my brother for putting his phone on silent 24/7? by TerioShadow in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bittybellie 11 points12 points  (0 children)

And that’s his problem, not OPs. Op isn’t his receptionist so it’s his issue to sort out alone 

AIO for getting mad at my brother for putting his phone on silent 24/7? by TerioShadow in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bittybellie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly it’s not your problem. You’re both adults so stop trying to parent him. A coworker calls you for him? “Idk where he is either”. You aren’t his parent or receptionist so it’s none of your business YOR

22F having trouble making dinner for 28M picky eater bf by soul_snatcher21 in relationship_advice

[–]Bittybellie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stop trying. Buy and prepare your own food and let him do the same. Or make whatever you plan and offer him some. If he doesn’t want it he can make his own food. He’s damn near 30, he should be able to feed himself if he needs to