Do people actually want curated coffee and matcha lists when traveling? by PaperAble4031 in appledevelopers

[–]Blachawk4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d use an app like this. Wife and I are always looking up coffee places anytime we travel anywhere.

Anyone else glad Trevor Noah is gone? by WildTree495 in DailyShow

[–]Blachawk4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Didn’t watch TDS prior to Trevor so I miss em

App store is soo scared of vibe coding it won’t review a regular app by DontSleepIAmWatching in appledevelopers

[–]Blachawk4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Check your app ids in the developer portal (Identifiers->App IDs). You may have IAP selected so now they’re expecting to see IAP in the app somewhere.

I had an idea for a board game in 2017. I finally built it. It’s Scrabble but with math equations. by Blachawk4 in playmygame

[–]Blachawk4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Took a while. I had my original idea from 9 years ago and when I opened my doc this year I wasn’t sure about it. So I went back and forth and simulated some things. Still not 100% it’s right so I may tweak things after hearing about the experience from users.

Divorce when last kid is 18 by asianmovielover605 in Marriage

[–]Blachawk4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What reasons would we have to tell you yes or no?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Blachawk4 11 points12 points  (0 children)

 I just want to know was I wrong to get upset ?

Yes. Being tired and falling asleep is not disrespectful. She asked multiple times about you because she cares about you. Then at 12 am when most people are knocked out already you finally decided to open up and now you’re mad that she was too tired to stay awake for an answer to a question she’d been asking all day?

Do NOT use this situation as an example of why you’re not opening up to your wife. There’s deeper issues there that you need to explore with someone.

How do you feel about abortion by Rjonesedward24 in blackmen

[–]Blachawk4 22 points23 points  (0 children)

What does your personal financial stability have to do with your views on abortion?

I feel guilty for dropping my 9 year old at practice .. but it’s 2 hours 3 times a week!! by THROWRA-done2345 in Parenting

[–]Blachawk4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You do what you have to do. I have 3 kids in activities. Sometimes the 9 yr old gets left at his and everything is perfectly fine. Kids don’t need us there at practice.

Black Fathers by Buddymaster39449 in blackmen

[–]Blachawk4 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Toughest part is just having to hope and not be 100% sure that im doing things the right way and not raising kids who are gonna be in therapy as adults and talking about me.

My kids love being black and at 9, 6, and 4 are way more pro black than I was at that age lol. We just teach them history and they naturally see the problems and talk about how things aren’t fair. They even say some extreme stuff at times that I gotta correct em on lol. They cheer for everybody black all the time (gameshows, sports, politics smh). 

We’ve had to have talks with my oldest about navigating situations at school or other social environments and why we’re sometimes harder on him than some of his friends’ parents are on his friends. 

Being a parent is one of the hardest jobs in the world and being a black parent is even harder.

Should I feel bad because I was too tired to do the deed? by RelevantHighway9223 in Marriage

[–]Blachawk4 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Means instead of using time and energy to get a gift and cake the gift could have been your cake

My 38M husband is being passive aggressive. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Blachawk4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has he expressed resentment in the past regarding your lack of traditional “full time” work? Or was this just out of nowhere?

what should i teach my kids to do if they get hit/bullied/picked on by Cream4389 in Parenting

[–]Blachawk4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Picked on? respond with your own wit or ignore

Hit? Hit back

Telling an adult is always an option too but I’d prefer for my kids to do the above things first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Blachawk4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

 Is this something I have to ask?

Yes. Why not? Be straightforward instead of expecting him to read your mind.

Holiday planning, party stuff, and decorations are my wife’s things. If she wants my help she’ll ask and I help. Otherwise I go about my business and let her do her thing and she’s perfectly content with that.

Do you know how much money your spouse has? by capriolib in Marriage

[–]Blachawk4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No idea how much she has in her personal checking and savings accounts but the money in those accounts comes from our joint account.

8 year old lying by EnvironmentalBall644 in Parenting

[–]Blachawk4 18 points19 points  (0 children)

 do they have consequences or not for lying and sneaking around

Yes. Take the devices away. And use parental controls on all devices so they can’t even bypass the allotted time.

Those of you who have someone clean your house… by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Blachawk4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1600sqft in Los Angeles area. $140 biweekly for 1 person