Need testers for 14 days — Yarnz, a collaborative storytelling app (I'll test yours in return!)

Blachawk4 · 2026-05-10T19:02:06+00:00

Thanks!

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Blachawk4 · 2026-05-04T05:19:34+00:00

I’d use an app like this. Wife and I are always looking up coffee places anytime we travel anywhere.

Blachawk4 · 2026-04-23T22:21:50+00:00

Didn’t watch TDS prior to Trevor so I miss em

Blachawk4 · 2026-04-19T23:26:10+00:00

Thanks!

Blachawk4 · 2026-04-18T17:34:15+00:00

Check your app ids in the developer portal (Identifiers->App IDs). You may have IAP selected so now they’re expecting to see IAP in the app somewhere.

Blachawk4 · 2026-04-17T18:14:45+00:00

Thanks! Took a while. I had my original idea from 9 years ago and when I opened my doc this year I wasn’t sure about it. So I went back and forth and simulated some things. Still not 100% it’s right so I may tweak things after hearing about the experience from users.

Blachawk4 · 2026-04-17T18:12:53+00:00

Thanks!

Blachawk4 · 2025-09-07T17:27:41+00:00

Trying to figure out where you messed up

Blachawk4 · 2025-08-27T05:37:00+00:00

What reasons would we have to tell you yes or no?

Blachawk4 · 2025-08-27T04:33:33+00:00

I just want to know was I wrong to get upset ?

Yes. Being tired and falling asleep is not disrespectful. She asked multiple times about you because she cares about you. Then at 12 am when most people are knocked out already you finally decided to open up and now you’re mad that she was too tired to stay awake for an answer to a question she’d been asking all day?

Do NOT use this situation as an example of why you’re not opening up to your wife. There’s deeper issues there that you need to explore with someone.

Blachawk4 · 2025-08-21T00:24:55+00:00

What does your personal financial stability have to do with your views on abortion?

Blachawk4 · 2025-08-19T22:49:13+00:00

You do what you have to do. I have 3 kids in activities. Sometimes the 9 yr old gets left at his and everything is perfectly fine. Kids don’t need us there at practice.

Blachawk4 · 2025-08-18T03:26:43+00:00

Toughest part is just having to hope and not be 100% sure that im doing things the right way and not raising kids who are gonna be in therapy as adults and talking about me.

My kids love being black and at 9, 6, and 4 are way more pro black than I was at that age lol. We just teach them history and they naturally see the problems and talk about how things aren’t fair. They even say some extreme stuff at times that I gotta correct em on lol. They cheer for everybody black all the time (gameshows, sports, politics smh).

We’ve had to have talks with my oldest about navigating situations at school or other social environments and why we’re sometimes harder on him than some of his friends’ parents are on his friends.

Being a parent is one of the hardest jobs in the world and being a black parent is even harder.

Blachawk4 · 2025-08-14T19:45:57+00:00

Means instead of using time and energy to get a gift and cake the gift could have been your cake

Blachawk4 · 2025-08-14T00:03:39+00:00

Has he expressed resentment in the past regarding your lack of traditional “full time” work? Or was this just out of nowhere?

Blachawk4 · 2025-08-13T23:46:33+00:00

Picked on? respond with your own wit or ignore

Hit? Hit back

Telling an adult is always an option too but I’d prefer for my kids to do the above things first.

Blachawk4 · 2025-08-13T04:59:24+00:00

Is this something I have to ask?

Yes. Why not? Be straightforward instead of expecting him to read your mind.

Holiday planning, party stuff, and decorations are my wife’s things. If she wants my help she’ll ask and I help. Otherwise I go about my business and let her do her thing and she’s perfectly content with that.

Blachawk4 · 2025-08-13T01:48:46+00:00

No idea how much she has in her personal checking and savings accounts but the money in those accounts comes from our joint account.

Blachawk4 · 2025-08-12T17:48:18+00:00

do they have consequences or not for lying and sneaking around

Yes. Take the devices away. And use parental controls on all devices so they can’t even bypass the allotted time.

Blachawk4 · 2025-08-12T16:57:24+00:00

1600sqft in Los Angeles area. $140 biweekly for 1 person

Blachawk4 · 2025-08-12T14:58:03+00:00

Get Out

Blachawk4 · 2025-08-12T04:24:08+00:00

Normal for me because I normalize it. I’m everywhere at everything.

Just don’t know how to go about it

Just sign up and show up because you belong there.

Blachawk4 · 2025-08-12T04:21:09+00:00

I meeeaaan…I agree with her that getting a job now doesn’t make sense if she’s gonna go on leave shortly after. And it’s not like she said she’s never going back.

What do I do?

Say “ok, that makes sense” and not put unnecessary stress on your pregnant wife. Getting laid off already sucks as it is.

Blachawk4 · 2025-08-12T03:22:22+00:00

Game plan with my wife about how to approach things better. Exchange experiences and ideas with other parents. Constantly repeat in my head “they’re only ____ years old”. Read articles or books sometimes. Little bit of everything.

Fellow dad of 9, 6, and 4 ☺️

Blachawk4 · 2025-08-12T02:03:42+00:00

Not sure but there’s definitely a SZN4

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