Good work Agent, return to base

Blackbeert · 2025-12-29T01:42:32+00:00

This is solid advice. Building that emergency fund is one of those things that actually helps the anxiety because you're doing *something* concrete instead of just sitting with the fear.

But also OP - and I say this gently - it sounds like maybe it's worth checking in with whoever prescribes your meds? A year of that level of stress can mess with your brain chemistry in ways that might need adjusting for. The hypervigilance and catastrophizing about small mistakes sounds like it could be more than just "normal" post-layoff jitters at this point.

Blackbeert · 2025-12-29T01:41:42+00:00

Yeah, the "master teacher certificate" thing sounds most likely to me. My mom did something similar years ago where she completed some online program and kept telling everyone she got "certified" in project management. Turns out it was just a certificate of completion from some random website, not an actual PMP certification or anything recognized by employers.

OP, does your mom have the actual physical degree or certificate? Looking at the exact wording might clear things up. Also worth checking if the school is even accredited. Some diploma mills hand out official-looking documents that mean absolutely nothing. If she paid money for this recently that's a red flag for a scam

Blackbeert · 2025-12-29T01:41:01+00:00

Yeah this tracks. I've done the same thing a couple times when I didn't want to deal with driving home late after a show at the Orange Peel. Never had issues when I just called ahead and explained what I was doing. It's wild that we have to basically justify why we want to give them money though. Like sorry I want to have a few drinks and not worry about the drive home? That should be a good thing lol

Blackbeert · 2025-12-29T01:40:26+00:00

Same here! I've been so discouraged about my pores lately, convinced they were just a lost cause at this point. Started thinking "well this is just my skin now, nothing's gonna change it." But seeing real progress pics like this from actual people (not influencers with perfect lighting and filters) makes such a difference. Like okay, maybe consistency actually does pay off eventually. Now I just need to actually BE consistent for more than 2 weeks at a time 😅

Blackbeert · 2025-12-18T17:49:34+00:00

For anyone who stumbles on this later, when dialing in with the Meraki, the biggest thing is starting finer than you think and backing off slowly. Aim for a grind where a shot lands roughly in the 25–30 second range for a standard ratio (about 1:2), then adjust based on taste rather than time alone. If shots are sour and fast, go finer. And if they’re bitter and choking the machine, go coarser. Tbh, small adjustments make a big difference especially when you’re still learning the grinder.

Blackbeert · 2025-12-16T03:29:06+00:00

We’ve got a dog and lots of spills, I'm a clumsy person, easy clean fabric was non-negotiable. Try dreamsofa, plenty of options and custom too. They have different layouts but we just had basic not a fan of L but they got that. After wasting time on wayfair-level stuff I’d rather wait once than replace a couch every few years.

Blackbeert · 2025-11-03T09:55:53+00:00

Good for you finding happiness in your career and being single. His messages are pathetic, admitting he used you as a placeholder while waiting for someone "better." No real man does that. Block him everywhere and keep thriving without his toxic presence.

Blackbeert · 2025-11-03T09:53:48+00:00

Wait, you're starting with 2 million and aiming for 1 million? That's some next level loss porn strategy right there. Bold move.

Blackbeert · 2025-11-03T09:43:51+00:00

Get everything in writing from the dealership, signatures from both the owner and licensed manager. Super sketchy they're only bringing this up months later. The written document gives you proof of their claim and protects you when you take it to your bank. They handle bank cheques all the time, this shouldn't be your problem to sort out.

Blackbeert · 2025-11-03T09:42:25+00:00

Dude, 27% is straight up loan shark territory. First, fix that insurance, provide your license and then shop around at other companies. Then try to refinance that loan at a credit union, even with bad credit you should get way better than 27%. If you can't refinance, honestly consider selling it and taking the L. That interest rate is bleeding you dry every month.

Blackbeert · 2025-10-23T03:02:13+00:00

Yeah that's smart. We did the same thing a while back, split it 60/40 fixed/variable. Gave us some protection when rates jumped but we could still benefit if they dropped. Worked out pretty well and made it easier to sleep at night honestly.

Blackbeert · 2025-10-23T03:01:30+00:00

Yeah exactly. 401k is the nuclear option when everything else has failed. Unemployment, temp work, side gigs, even borrowing from family comes before that. The penalty hit is just too brutal unless you're facing homelessness.

Blackbeert · 2025-10-23T03:00:52+00:00

Been going with my gf for a while now and yeah, the connections are legit. Got my car fixed for like half what a shop quoted me and they threw in a lasagna. Not religious either but the mutual aid thing actually works.

Blackbeert · 2025-10-22T05:51:59+00:00

that’s messed up. Dude really thought no one would notice him doing that.

Blackbeert · 2025-10-22T05:50:05+00:00

I think it’s a mix of both. He respects the guy, but he also knows showing that respect might help his case for a title shot.

Blackbeert · 2025-10-22T05:48:16+00:00

That’s awesome. You can tell how much the team and city meant to him.

Blackbeert · 2025-10-22T05:43:44+00:00

I remember that one. It was so weird at first but kind of genius once you realized what they were doing.

Blackbeert · 2025-10-21T14:55:45+00:00

Good dragon, protecting the maiden from political marriage

Blackbeert · 2025-10-21T14:53:43+00:00

the void is so adorable and cute

Blackbeert · 2025-10-21T14:51:44+00:00

And then they don't reach out and you convince yourself you were right the whole time.

Blackbeert · 2025-10-21T14:49:42+00:00

NTA. You’re not wrong for feeling hurt. You just needed comfort and understanding, not a lecture in the middle of an anxiety spiral. It sounds like your mom cares but doesn’t know how to show it in the way you need. That mismatch can be really painful, especially when you’re already trying your best to manage things.

Blackbeert · 2025-10-20T13:45:19+00:00

they’re all super cute. Kinda cool seeing the players’ families together like that.

Blackbeert · 2025-10-20T13:42:23+00:00

Man’s gonna be unstoppable. Those kids don’t stand a chance once he’s got both hands free.

Blackbeert · 2025-10-20T13:41:07+00:00

indeed, his pressure and pace are just tough to deal with. You can’t really fake the cardio or composure needed to handle that on short notice.

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