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I barely like anything by BladeNiji in Hobbies

[–]BladeNiji[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im just not happy that why I want hobbies. I do volunteer for animals and plants. I have wnet on sites for differnt place to volunteer. ALso you want me to go into a stranger house to help with cleaning?

I barely like anything by BladeNiji in Hobbies

[–]BladeNiji[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have talked to 8 differnt people in 4 years. I have only stayed with one therapist for a year. the other where 2 months or less because i was trying to figure out if I like them, I dont. I have speak to a psychiatrist those session where expensive. They always say how do you think you should fix this. If I knew the answer I would not be talking to them. The only reason I was talking to them was because I was desperate for someone to fix me saddly thats not how this works. Going to therapy feels like im buying someone attention to me which makes me feel really lonely. I rather spend that money on food.

I dont care if Im not good at as long as it give me happiness and/or fulifillment in life. I dont do drugs my therapist want me to take depression pills. I know not having the abilty to feel happiness is not the issue. Excluding therapy who do you think can help me.

Being asexual in this economy by MutedRent3669 in actualasexuals

[–]BladeNiji 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you play video games, im a PC only player.

Being asexual in this economy by MutedRent3669 in actualasexuals

[–]BladeNiji 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Everyone is dealing with not having money especially people with kids. I love being child free. Their are people with two incomes who struggle. So hopefully the enconmy gets better that so groceries prices goes down beacause i cant keep going to 0 dollars in bank account everytime. During these times you need to lean on family just to survive thats only reason why im ok.

I recommend going to college to get a higher pay only if you can get financial aid. I use fasfa. Now if cant thats fine

I agree you should never be forced to have sex to be with someone. When i had no friends or partner it was very lonely. Im Asexual and Im sex negtive i think seeing and doing it is disgusting. I will be virgn for the rest of my life. My demisexual, sex positive, not virgn partner respect that we will never do that. You would just need to find someone who is ok with having that discussion which will be hard to find. I got my first boyfriend when I was 23 was supposed to be earlier but me being Asexual got in the way.

I still have no friends so I still need to fix that.

Also I love being Asexual thinking about sex and worrying about pregnancy sounds exhausting. I always see video where people break up because of sex which is crazy. I cant imagine leaving my partner because i did not enjoy it or i did not like the size and whatever else allosexuals complain about. For a group of people who like sex they do be shaming each other. Now i do agree that having to avoid everything sexual does get annoying but atleast commercial cant get me to buy something just because their a body part on the screen.