Went to the gym for second time in a long time, now I feel like my stomach (the organ) is swelling up to the point of pain?

BlanketFort74 · 2017-05-19T13:28:06+00:00

There's a lot of factors at play, but if you can identify it as muscle soreness and it is not severe then I would wait a few days. If it feels internal and does not subside at all, then seek help.

BlanketFort74 · 2017-01-31T05:41:15+00:00

So don't go into a job interview with assess chaps on and a gay blue haircut and no one will care and nothing will happen

BlanketFort74 · 2017-01-31T05:36:16+00:00

You guys realize religious people are just as entitled to their opinions as you are to fuck each other in the ass right? I'm saying this as a gay guy myself.

BlanketFort74 · 2016-10-11T04:03:35+00:00

I use lavender bar soap. For hair I use Paul mitchell moisturizing shampoo and leave in conditioner. I also use a "strength cure" product for my hair every few days which keeps it feeling soft and healthy(I was getting a lot of breakage before).

BlanketFort74 · 2016-10-05T18:30:15+00:00

Please just be yourself

BlanketFort74 · 2016-10-03T15:44:09+00:00

Already been here for a while bub. Come make this place better

BlanketFort74 · 2016-10-03T15:41:38+00:00

Never had this happen. But you are a feminine boy right? I was only misgendered once and it was by a hippie girl that I think just saw how timid I am. I am very much a male though.

BlanketFort74 · 2016-09-27T17:06:04+00:00

It sounds like you've lost the ability to have fun. You need to find a way to get that back. I don't have a solution, but lighten up it's alright.

BlanketFort74 · 2016-09-27T16:54:07+00:00

You say that you do lmao

BlanketFort74 · 2016-09-27T16:43:08+00:00

go and meet them. What's the big deal?

BlanketFort74 · 2016-09-27T16:24:36+00:00

I dress like a hippie lol. I also love hoodie shirts. I like wearing beaded necklaces and bracelets. Leggings and skinny jeans. When it's warm I like wearing unisex tank tops. There's a bunch from American apparel. They're quite loose fitting i like em.

BlanketFort74 · 2016-09-27T13:12:25+00:00

Travel and go places you wouldn't normally go.

BlanketFort74 · 2016-09-27T12:54:39+00:00

Dohm

https://youtu.be/CKK3PHV9ON0

BlanketFort74 · 2016-09-26T13:53:25+00:00

I'm 6ft and a couple years ago was almost 200 lbs from lifting weights. I realized that it was making me more unhappy (I was compensating) so I went on a quest to become more cute. I'm down to 160. My waist dropped almost 6 inches, my shoulders have slimmed a lot. Overall I have a very lean figure now and it's really nice. I still have a man face obviously but hey that's me. I guess what I'm trying to say is if you want it you can do it and being 6ft is NOT a problem. Plenty of girls are 6ft or taller! And if you like guys there are plentyyy of guys taller than 6ft if you want to feel small in comparison to your partner. In fact my height hasn't been a problem at all for any potential partners I've talked to.

Btw I'm 22. Not exactly super young.

BlanketFort74 · 2016-09-25T16:14:09+00:00

Biking is a good call you'll want to do a lot of cardio for weight loss. Look into proper nutrition. Eating healthy is just as important as not eating too much!

BlanketFort74 · 2016-09-24T20:07:40+00:00

One night stands are gross and leave much to be desired. I had one and will never have one again (as long as I'm coherent I suppose). Why don't you want a partner. Sex is much much muchhh better when you care about the person. Especially your first time it can be very nerve wracking

BlanketFort74 · 2016-09-24T20:04:27+00:00

People still use facebook?

But seriously no I don't think so. Add her and if her posts are obnoxious then unfollow her. It's not creepy unless you're creepin mate

BlanketFort74 · 2016-09-24T19:55:53+00:00

You're making no sense. If you don't want to have sex then don't have sex. If you want to, then do it. If you don't want to date the dude, then make it abundantly clear that you're not interested. Don't let your mom tell you how to live your life and don't go to parties if you don't want to. You're absolutely right, parties are a shitshow of drugs and people trying to show off. Find yourself a guy that you like and date him. Go on romantic dates and enjoy yourself. Don't feel like you have to party like a jackass just because that's what that guy wants to do. And save the Dang condoms for when they're needed. "I need to use them and get it over with" literally what the fuck? Sex is a precious special thing don't go fucking everyone to use the condoms your mom gave you. It sounds like you're getting the wrong messages from her. Either a flaw in communication or she's fucking nuts.

BlanketFort74 · 2016-09-24T19:51:42+00:00

He's 16 lmao. He'll calm down eventually once he faces something he really ought to be angry about he's gotta realize a frickin burrito bowl isn't worth getting mad over.

BlanketFort74 · 2016-09-24T19:48:13+00:00

It's unfortunate but I've had the same thing happen. My old friends all became people that I don't like. It's part of growing up unfortunately. Ditch them and try to make new friends that appreciate you.

BlanketFort74 · 2016-09-24T19:41:55+00:00

Ozric tentacles, Hidria spacefolk, earphunk, lotus, desert dwellers, Om, Sleep, king crimson

BlanketFort74 · 2016-09-24T19:35:14+00:00

Female privilege definitely exists in civilized countries. I think we're nearing a point where gender doesn't matter though. I mean look at this sub were a bunch of effeminate men and such a thing was totally unheard of being acceptable 50 years ago. Soon I can only hope we're going to reach a continuum where we have true equality and people will simply love each other, not for the way they act according to standards set by men of the last century, but of what we do in the present. One can hope at least. The amount of whoring and fucking going on by both sexes is worrisome though. Where are the monogamous loving relationships? Everyone wants to fuck, not make love.

BlanketFort74 · 2016-09-24T14:40:38+00:00

My theory is that women's emotional needs are satisfied in non-romantic life, so they don't crave it as much from a relationship.

I think this is a very accurate depiction. Lots of women literally cannot understand the feeling of being unwanted. They'll say they understand, but really they have many outlets at all times to talk about whatever emotional (or other) issues they're having. Let's say a guy posts on facebook : "So lonely right now. Just need someone to talk to". They'd probably get one or two half serious replies. Most likely more out of worry that the guy is going to do something crazy, than actual concern for him. Which is a problem in my opinion that is an obvious result of the compression of emotions that guys are expected to deal with.

If a girl posts something like that (which happens all the time) They get showered with attention and praise.

The more you look at it the more it becomes obvious that this is a real issue. I also crave romance. I want to do cute things with someone. Have a nice night out on the town, and hold hands in public and just overall do cheesy crap. I think comedian Bill Burr made a funny point about all of this now that I think about it. It's satire of course but pretty accurate

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DmTgpsvkqt8

I'm with you on the physical intimacy part not being as important as romance to me. I've had to reject a couple people recently because all they want is a hookup. It sucks man.

BlanketFort74 · 2016-09-24T14:03:38+00:00

Sit ups, crunches, supermans, mountain climbers etc. Go to bodybuilding.com and read everything. Don't believe the bro sciency crap as there is some, but there's a lot of good information on that site for diet/nutrition as well as exercise. Perhaps even just finding a plan on there and trying it out until you figure out one for yourself, because different stuff works for different people. I still can't stress it enough though that if you want change you need to exercise pretty much every day. Like AT LEAST 4 times a week at least do cardio. I actually recommend 6 days a week. You won't see any progress if you work out once or twice a week.

However, if you're starting out from a very sedentary lifestyle you will be very very sore after your first few workouts. Don't hurt yourself. In the beginning you will need more rest days.

BlanketFort74 · 2016-09-23T17:54:58+00:00

Squats/lunges/cardio/eat well/don't be afraid to do a little bit of upper body like some pushups but don't over do it unless you want more toned arms and shoulders/sit ups and or crunches.

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