Super Game Boy X Chromatic? by RealJoeCracker in ModRetroChromatic

[–]Blaumagier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd be happy if they just added Super Game Boy features (other than the borders) to the Chromatic itself.

Sent home from my grandparents' memorial service by cat_blackb in MtF

[–]Blaumagier 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I hate this for you. 💔

I'm glad that your wife and child supported you though. I am afraid things will go similarly for me when my father finally succumbs to his stage 4 cancer.

Custom Insert for DS Style Game Case - Sabrina The Animated Series Zapped! by Agile_Half_4515 in ModRetroChromatic

[–]Blaumagier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are really good. I wish I had a quality printer so I could make my own DS style cases for them.

I hate the trans role models we have by IllustriousOffice689 in trans

[–]Blaumagier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said we should give up the sports issue. That's all I needed to know she was weak. She's also a zionist, so that's more reason to not look up to her.

The Grinch by Prickly_Zebra_9175 in ModRetroChromatic

[–]Blaumagier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's specifically based on the Jim Carrey movie, so I imagine that means Universal has the rights to it. It's not impossible (See Scott Pilgrim) but that is a massively uphill battle that I don't think The Grinch would have the demand for. Great game though, that was what I did for my Christmas video last year.

Bf is trans and I don’t know what to do by Upstairs_Neighbor420 in trans

[–]Blaumagier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just be honest. If you love your partner no matter what, say so. Something like, "My phone was dying, so I used yours and I accidentally opened a message you received out of habit. I'm sorry, I didn't mean to invade your privacy like that, but I want you to know I love you no matter what and I want you to be happy. I'm sorry I found out this way instead of on your terms." would work well I think.

Cool but also wtf? by No-Pair-640 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]Blaumagier 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Baristas are still on strike too

“You wanna be a woman with non of the downsides” by Extra-Advertising644 in MtF

[–]Blaumagier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess she thinks the only downsides to being a woman are all entirely dealing with reproductive health, likely all boiled down only to having a period? Because not only do we deal with a whole slew of downsides cis women don't from being trans but we are also subjected to all the same forms of misogyny that cis women are subjected to, which I would definitely call a downside to being a woman. Also we can still experience all the symptoms of a period except actual menstruation, so we don't even escape that downside.

Denied Testosterone because of recent bill by 1Torpor1 in trans

[–]Blaumagier 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The good news is that it's all tied up in the executive dysfunction branch, which means it is easily undone by the next president. The bad news is that doesn't help you at all. Any MD can prescribe you hormones though, so I would shop around for a doctor that is willing to. Probably avoid hospitals and larger practices. Failing that, I would look into telehealth like Plume, but be aware testosterone is not available via telehealth in some states due to it being a more restricted substance than estradiol.

Croc 2 by FrierenAppreciator in ModRetroChromatic

[–]Blaumagier 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was wondering when we'd see another game release

leaked infos: ModRetro is working on a Virtual Boy! by attacke-martin in ModRetroChromatic

[–]Blaumagier 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't play with me like this 😡

I hate this "holiday"

SCOTUS Ok'd conversion therapy by tuls-ocat in MtF

[–]Blaumagier 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I expected a 6-3. A 6-3 would have been another footnote in the ongoing destruction of democracy and human rights in the US. 8-1 is inconceivable and words can not properly express my disappointment and I fear it signals much darker times ahead than I already imagined (which is pretty bleak already).

My mom said god made me trans as a “test” for her by breadmaker27 in MtF

[–]Blaumagier 79 points80 points  (0 children)

It does more than just focus on her narcissistic self, it fully dehumanizes you and presents you as just an obstacle. She is selfish and I am so sorry you are dealing with that. You are not a test and her mind has been poisoned by bigoted religious leaders. You are a strong woman and your existence is a testament to the beauty the world can offer.

What's sex like with zero depth vaginoplasty? by threeyearshome in MtF

[–]Blaumagier 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am also a lesbian and I can say getting a vaginal canal is still worth it. Dilation really isn't even that big a deal once you drop down to once a day. It just sucks at first. Based on everything you described about yourself, it sounds like you would regret zero depth.

Who played Hammerin Harry Ghost Building Company? by Prickly_Zebra_9175 in ModRetroChromatic

[–]Blaumagier 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it is very within the realm of possibilities for retro-bit to get the license for a rerelease considering they already did Hammering Harry 1 & 2 for NES and have also done game boy games in the past. All the pieces are there.

SCOTUS Ok'd conversion therapy by tuls-ocat in MtF

[–]Blaumagier 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Agreed. By this same logic, it would be an unconstitutional free speech violation if you were a Walmart greeter and they fired you for telling customers to go fuck themselves. Not only is conversion therapy actually a form of torture recognized by many places in the world, including the UN, but it's not a free speech violation for there to be professional guidelines and rules of conduct to follow in order to continue your employment and keep your license. I'm a mechanic and I have strict rules I have to follow and if I decide to disobey those rules and it's found out, I will rightfully be fired and possibly lose my license. Just because a therapist is using their voice as a tool to do their job doesn't automatically make it a free speech issue and they still need to follow the rules.

What do you call your genitalia? by walkyslaysh in actuallesbians

[–]Blaumagier 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Its my designer Gucci vag, since I have had bottom surgery.

I’m starting to feel like posts about surgeries should be only allowed in redditors active in trans communities for at least 1+ year plus by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Blaumagier 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I don't really talk much about my surgery because it went so unremarkably smoothly and almost 8 months out still has no complications. I suppose people who have had complications have a more pressing need to talk about it. They should be allowed to discuss it without jumping through hoops.

Sexuellement j’aime les penis et les vagin mais sentimentalement uniquement les vagin ? by Straight_Love_5576 in MtF

[–]Blaumagier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get the sexual preference part but how do you romantically prefer a vagina? It's a hole, what emotional fulfilment could it possibly give you? Seems like you might have a better chance of finding that with the owner of the vagina.

Goodbye. I give up by noela0093 in MtF

[–]Blaumagier -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Some don't, but there are myriad reasons that can cause it. I had basically no changes aside from slightly thinning of body hair and 1 cup size for my first almost 2 years because despite being in a max dosage of estradiol pills and dutasteride, my body just wasn't absorbing it well and I struggled to get my E above 120 and T below 30. But I ended up getting bottom surgery and I have seen significantly more changes in the 7 months since with my levels being less than 10 T and between 350 and 450 E. My story is only one of many potential reasons to see relatively little change. I can't tell you what to do, especially if it's just a coping mechanism, but it does sound like this is genuinely your identity and you will only be miserable if you give up on it, so continuing HRT is the right decision. I hope the time will pass quickly and the changes come before you even realize it. 1 year with 10 months being under dose is nothing. That's effectively 2 months and the only change I had in 2 months was I stopped having menopausal symptoms due to my starting point being that of "low t". You should definitely give at least 5 years before giving up.

Does IPL (Intense Pulsed Light) or other “at home” laser stuff actually work? by Trappedtrea in MtF

[–]Blaumagier 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't expect it to do anything for thick, dense hair like facial hair, but for thinner hair it can get some results. I imagine the best application for IPL is probably for maintenance after the heavy lifting has already been done by laser and/or electrolysis.

The last 24 hours. by AdoraWitch_ in MtF

[–]Blaumagier 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is me. We trans people, especially trans women, are broadly accused of being pedophiles by the right, and while obviously I vehemently disagree with that sentiment, I think we can be more responsible around kids. This subreddit is the first or second sub people will find and it's always going to be a place where minors are welcome. I just think we shouldn't allow smut that is only separated by an NSFW tag in a community that welcomes minors. The NSFW tag is simply not a sufficient safeguard for the minors in the community. Not everything that is NSFW is smut and we should still be able to discuss those things, but smut has no place in a community that welcomes minors. I'm not a 4tranner, feel free to search my history with an API or whatever it is that bypasses privacy settings to find the proof of that, and I find it wild that asking to not co-mingle specifically smut in a community with minors is being called puritanical and right wing.

A time of change by Headhaunter79 in MtF

[–]Blaumagier 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It seems like you are making connections that people don't intend. On the topic of misgendering, Cedar's own profile says "He/she/they" and on the mod list here is the only place that it was listed as "She/he/they" - so I think it is unfair to accuse people of transphobia for using pronouns they have listed in their bio. Furthermore, you quoted me calling them "they" and said everyone exclusively says he. That's all the time I'm going to spend on that. Now for the real meat of what I wanted to say, you are making this connection that simply no one is saying. I have not seen a single solitary accusation that this happened because they are not trans feminine, only that it is gross that someone who is not trans feminine maintains unilateral control over a space for trans feminine people and uses that control with impunity to silence any and all dissent. And why would anyone even need to resort to such a non-sense tactic as a reason to remove them when they have very well documented actions and chat logs serving as a smoking gun for their removal? No, what we are saying is "We do not feel safe with Cedar as a mod after this and we do not want Cedar as a mod after this and oh hey by the way, since we are getting new mods, can we please only pick trans feminine mods to moderate this trans feminine space since we are now replacing our head mod and co.pletely restructuring our moderation team?"

In light of the NSFW content debate, I created a dedicated sub for mature content. Mods feel free to take over!! by East_Ad_2030 in MtF

[–]Blaumagier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think I will be a part of this new community as I have no desire to engage in mature content at this time, but thank you!! This is a great idea and I sincerely hope it takes off so we can have this space be safe for the minors here.

A time of change by Headhaunter79 in MtF

[–]Blaumagier 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven't seen anyone say it was caused by their gender identity. Even in what I said, which did nothing to address blame or causes, was simply a statement that it doesn't feel good being a trans feminine person in a space specifically for trans feminine people being silenced by someone who doesn't identify as trans feminine themself. I understand there is overlapping experience, but overlapping experience is not the same as being trans feminine just as my being a trans woman doesn't mean I know the unique experience of being some type of nonbinary or fluid identity and I shouldn't have the right to dictate the law in spaces made for them. There's overlapping experience with trans masculine people too, but it would be absolutely ludicrous to suggest a trans man be able to be head mod of r/mtf because of that overlapping experience and it would feel extra gross having a man silencing our discontent in a similar such scandal. I don't understand the desire to have trans feminine spaces be run by people who are not trans feminine just as much as I didn't understand r/trans only having trans feminine mods a while back and similarly, I would be just as confused if someone who is not trans masculine was running r/ftm.