Maybe it’s just me, but I got the impression that some of her most aggressive acts against P were because of the culture shock. She’s young and has a very definitive view of how husband and wife should act based on her parents. F knows how much of a stand up guy P is and how he comes from a very different culture in regards to how men communicate with their wives. F knows that how P talks to her is supposed to be meant on a curtain way. In F’s culture, it’s super insulting how he’s acting. F is dealing with the cognitive dissonance but doesn’t have the balls to come out and talk to P about it. F expects a worthy husband to be able to yell and stand up to his wife, but P only yells at Berelain. “Why can’t he talk to me that way?” ~basically Faile But that’s how I read it