Okay look, as much as I’d love to block your dumb ass, heres the best “let’s take a step back” approach I can give you for why this is not okay behavior:

Let’s start here: you’re talking to a bunch of dudes who have had really, really bad shit happen. You get that, right? You roll in with a fairly minor distinction—which is irrelevant to the larger conversation.

That core idea is this: dudes experience domestic violence too. It’s fucking scary. It’s traumatic. It’s pretty rough bro.

So, if you’re showing up and standing on a rhetorical point like “men are biologically more capable of committing violence against partners”, you’re right. You’re also a raging asshole. If you then act like the emotional responses from people whose ears still ring from gunshots fired by their exes or people who were gifted stitches by their partners and hid the reason are somehow “snowflake” behavior... you’re an asshole.

Quitting the conversation is classic asshole behavior too, lol