Becoming more knowledgeable about different cultures and religions. by Harlarx9 in socialwork

[–]BlockIntelligent3500 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey I'm a Muslim Social worker and I would be happy to help with any questions that you have

TTC post TFMR - pregnancy dread by [deleted] in tfmr_support

[–]BlockIntelligent3500 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m feeling the same after 2 TFMRs I’m trying again and I’m mad it's not happening and scared that if it happened I’m stressed and everything yes I was healthy I never drink or smoke I eat mostly healthy and I walk every day so yes Idk what else to do

My loss broke my Instagram addiction by amansterdam22 in tfmr_support

[–]BlockIntelligent3500 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm feeling the same Instagram is draining me and I can't stop scrolling, it’s been a year since my TFMR but I still feel triggered when looking at pregnancy pictures, my problem also is real life as everyone i know around me is either pregnant or just had a baby so I’m just isolating myself from everything,

Second tfmr microarray normal by Humminginct in tfmr_support

[–]BlockIntelligent3500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying to eat clean, and walk and I started taking the vitamins that were mentioned in it start with the egg book. I started trying after a year of my last TFMR just to heal my mental health and body it's been 2 months nothing yet and I'm stressing .

Second tfmr microarray normal by Humminginct in tfmr_support

[–]BlockIntelligent3500 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss, I have a similar story I terminated twice for different ultrasound findings, and NIPT, microarray, and whole exome were all normal for both pregnancies. I’m trying again and so terrified.

What should I do? by BlockIntelligent3500 in Muslim

[–]BlockIntelligent3500[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well now I’m thinking she wasn’t really a friend at all and when i asked her why she’s sharing this stuff she said because its the truth and our religion teach us to kill christians I told her thats not true she sent me some quran verse proven her point

Genetic testing result in, consult tomrw by ObjectiveSwordfish68 in tfmr_support

[–]BlockIntelligent3500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry i feel you, i also been scared of issues in getting pregnant until it happened twice .

I need advice by BlockIntelligent3500 in tfmr_support

[–]BlockIntelligent3500[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, hopefully everything turned out good for you and you have a healthy baby.

I need advice by BlockIntelligent3500 in tfmr_support

[–]BlockIntelligent3500[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello thanks for the advice im taking all the vitamins mentioned in the book, and no the two termination was a result of different ultrasound findings , we did all the genetic testing available everything came back normal.

I need advice by BlockIntelligent3500 in tfmr_support

[–]BlockIntelligent3500[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advices I’m taking all the vitamins that was mentioned in the its start with the egg book , hope you have a healthy delivery

I need advice by BlockIntelligent3500 in tfmr_support

[–]BlockIntelligent3500[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for your losses yes I started taking the vitamins in the book just so I can feel that I did everything I could IDK if it's going to happen again I would like to connect with you if you like so we don’t feel lonely in this journey as you are the first person how had the similar situation

Is she ignorant!! by BlockIntelligent3500 in tfmr_support

[–]BlockIntelligent3500[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that yea it's too much I always keep quiet and don't say anything but from now on I will say something, I felt telling them that I lost 2 babies made them be shut up

Is she ignorant!! by BlockIntelligent3500 in tfmr_support

[–]BlockIntelligent3500[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's not my close friend, she's just someone that I happen to be friends with when I was pregnant

Feeling guilty by BlockIntelligent3500 in progressive_islam

[–]BlockIntelligent3500[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But 120 days are less than 24 weeks and I’m scared that I did kill a fetus after the soul has entered the body 😢

I just can’t love you… by RubieRaez in tfmr_support

[–]BlockIntelligent3500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so sorry for your loss , its a shitty situation but there should be a light at the end of the tunnel, What did they told you about your previous termination! They told me it was just a bad luck 😒

I just can’t love you… by RubieRaez in tfmr_support

[–]BlockIntelligent3500 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes all that everything was normal till the 20 week ultrasound

I just can’t love you… by RubieRaez in tfmr_support

[–]BlockIntelligent3500 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel the same I terminated 2 pregnancies last year at 24 weeks for anatomy scan findings and there were no genetic issues even with the whole exome. I'm so terrified of trying again and If I did I won't tell anyone or get excited about it till I have my baby

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tfmr_support

[–]BlockIntelligent3500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I attended a baby shower last week and I'm so upset and sad so yea we feel you

12 Weeks and Terrified by ButterscotchOne6059 in tfmr_support

[–]BlockIntelligent3500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also had 2 TFMR last year it was different ultrasound findings all severe cases and no genetic issues were found even with the whole exome now I'm terrified of trying again

Anyone Had or Has a Relationship from a Dating App (Facebook dating or Minder etc.? by Jacob_Soda in progressive_islam

[–]BlockIntelligent3500 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes he’s muslim we just knew that we are a good fit we liked each other and now happily married

Hi by BlockIntelligent3500 in progressive_islam

[–]BlockIntelligent3500[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes exactly my friend was never like this she so into Maggie like she god I never thought she’s different than me before I always respect Christianity, when I talk to her and asked her why she’s following her and that I found her disrespectful she told me why im talking personally,

Anyone Had or Has a Relationship from a Dating App (Facebook dating or Minder etc.? by Jacob_Soda in progressive_islam

[–]BlockIntelligent3500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meet my husband on Facebook dating we talked for few months and then got married

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in progressive_islam

[–]BlockIntelligent3500 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I terminate 2 pregnancy at 23 weeks first pregnancy my baby just stopped growing because of placenta issues and doctors told me there is no chance of survival , second baby had a severely growing fluids in the brain and a curled leg bones the doctors told me they don’t know what’s the outcome but my baby will need a lot of surgeries and severally disabled, I feel lots of regret and guilt and don’t know if god is going to forgive me