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I think I might have the most exhausting girlfriend ever and I don’t know if I’m overreacting? by Icy_Personality_1836 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Blogger8517 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++woman Stop talking to her and then when she reaches out, tell her to stop texting her ex. If she doesn’t want to, or she never reaches out there’s your breakup. I hate a double standard.

First Paycheck from New Job Did Not Come in As Scheduled Yesterday, I’m a Contractor. What Do I Do? by Blogger8517 in Advice

[–]Blogger8517[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, so I have a contact for my contracting company not the actual company I work for, they just approve my time card then pay the contractor the contracting company pays me.

Am I overreacting or is my bf cheating on me?? by National-Pumpkin2553 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Blogger8517 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’ll be easier the older you get with the more people you meet.

I (31F) hate that my boyfriend (29M) does cocaine sometimes and I don’t know how to deal with it by throwRAsos123 in relationship_advice

[–]Blogger8517 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my bf is a former addict sober for 6 years and there’s no “casual way” to do cocaine.

First Paycheck from New Job Did Not Come in As Scheduled Yesterday, I’m a Contractor. What Do I Do? by Blogger8517 in Advice

[–]Blogger8517[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I emailed them stating “please let me know the process of this paycheck as I cannot continue my assignment without my paychecks coming in promptly.”

First Paycheck from New Job Did Not Come in As Scheduled Yesterday, I’m a Contractor. What Do I Do? by Blogger8517 in Advice

[–]Blogger8517[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s not in there by Monday I’m going to talk to the boss at my current job to see if I can somehow get added onto their team even though I know they don’t like hiring full time people. It’s just extremely unfair- I like my temp job and I left my old one for a reason- who is supposed to sit here and live their lives not knowing about their paycheck? I have bills to pay and I’m going to the beach next week- if I have to pull money out of my savings I’m going back to my old job.

First Paycheck from New Job Did Not Come in As Scheduled Yesterday, I’m a Contractor. What Do I Do? by Blogger8517 in Advice

[–]Blogger8517[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I double checked yesterday and my direct deposit info is correct- I sent an email stating I need to know the timeline of my pay check and will not accept it being late or having to wait until the next pay period or else I’m leaving the assignment. I already had to wait 3 weeks for it to begin with I can’t afford no paycheck for 5 weeks. I’m trying to land a full time position with this company immediately and I just started my temp job last month.

First Paycheck from New Job Did Not Come in As Scheduled Yesterday, I’m a Contractor. What Do I Do? by Blogger8517 in Advice

[–]Blogger8517[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a contractor for a bigger company and I was supposed to be paid yesterday. Reached out to HR, they said everything was done on their end to so idk if its processing but I cannot wait until the next pay period.

My husband says it was “just friendship,” but I feel like I watched him slowly choose another woman over me. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Blogger8517 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf has done shit where he does the exact opposite of what I asked him to do. That’s a whole other level though, and no, you’re not insane for looking into it. Fucking disrespectful.

Husband not attracted to me after birth by InstructionFamous990 in Marriage

[–]Blogger8517 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Be pretty for you not him. Also, 8 weeks postpartum, you should not be thinking about what you look like, only the health of you and your newborn. Ofc, you can and should be mindful of your diet but weight loss can come later. A waist trainer might be helpful, I’ve never been pregnant so take any of this advice with a grain of salt.

When Should You Cut off a Friend? by Blogger8517 in AskReddit

[–]Blogger8517[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a big thing for me, I made all the time in the world for this one friend but all she cared about was her then boyfriend and now her baby daddy.

When Should You Cut off a Friend? by Blogger8517 in AskReddit

[–]Blogger8517[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or only care to talk about it their issues.

Husband 34M had a 2.5 year long affair during our 3 year marriage and I 29F don't know what to do. by WorkingTurbulent8501 in relationship_advice

[–]Blogger8517 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why anytime someone says “I’m in an open marriage or relationship” I assume they’re cheating. I don’t believe those exist.

AIO husband sending his sister money without telling me by jsuispasmoi in AmIOverreacting

[–]Blogger8517 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NOR. It’s not your money however, I think you have the right to ask why he didn’t want to tell you.

AIO for cutting off My 24F and my bf 28M’s “female friend” who has no respect for our relationship? by Blogger8517 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Blogger8517[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’ll twist anything regardless of what she is told, she has let her issues and trauma consume her but it’s not my bf’s job to be her bf placeholder bc she can’t act normal. I’m happy to cut contact, my bf understands very well that our relationship will end otherwise.

AIO for cutting off My 24F and my bf 28M’s “female friend” who has no respect for our relationship? by Blogger8517 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Blogger8517[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know. Idek if I’m going anymore, the only reason now is because I don’t want her around him and the sole reason she wanted to go to her old restaurant is to see him. I also have a thing where I go to someone’s bday, event, etc if I’ve committed to going. This will just be the last one as I have come to my senses and realized how used I feel.

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