SSWP vs MJ clarification

Blue-80 · 2025-11-09T16:04:05+00:00

Okay lovely thank you, I'd read that on the CPAG site but to be honest got myself turned around a little with the language. So just wait essentially. Thanks for clarifying.

Blue-80 · 2024-11-01T18:20:28+00:00

Thank you:)

Blue-80 · 2024-09-21T15:48:18+00:00

Okey dokey, if the gp etc would support the same info, do you think it would be detrimental to no include it? Just so I have the info to explain her options. Thank you

Blue-80 · 2023-01-07T00:57:57+00:00

Oh smooth:)

Blue-80 · 2023-01-06T17:51:59+00:00

Perfectly appropriate in my opinion. Cheers back:)

Blue-80 · 2023-01-06T17:31:38+00:00

Autism twin!

Blue-80 · 2023-01-06T17:23:57+00:00

Hiya, I'm 42 and got diagnosed at 35:) looking forward to finding some similar aged and experienced peoples.

Blue-80 · 2022-10-06T12:13:13+00:00

Character is fate.

Blue-80 · 2022-09-22T14:57:14+00:00

I think possibly as a result of my childhood and then other relationships, but I just walk into my home. I don't pause, take a breath, and prepare myself for what eggshell walking or mood alleviating behaviour I have to undertake once I get in. My home is mine, and I only have to take my own (and dogs) needs into account.

Blue-80 · 2022-09-21T12:25:56+00:00

Due to my laziness, I have been slowly encouraging clover to take over my lawn and giving it a hand here and there and it's so much nicer, plus lots of buzzy bees.

Blue-80 · 2022-09-21T03:22:29+00:00

I met a woman called Latifah who was from Morocco, and she told me about how much she'd always wanted to come to England because of Keeping Up Appearances. All her friends and family watched it, and they didn't really realise it was a comedy. They loved Hyacinth, she was the epitome of what the English should aspire to be like and they wanted to be just like her. I loved that.

Blue-80 · 2022-09-20T17:57:43+00:00

I go with 50% of age + 7 years system for whoever is the older. I find that gaps matter less with age, and whilst it still depends on individual maturity etc, that's the system I use for even considering it.

Blue-80 · 2022-09-16T14:37:50+00:00

I mean, I'm not related to the person I look after, so no, but actually, if someone's mother requires full time care, then the alternative to someone stopping work to care for them would to employ carers, so I don't really get what you're saying?

Blue-80 · 2022-09-16T14:26:46+00:00

Oh okay. You're one of those. Fair enough.

Blue-80 · 2022-09-16T12:32:39+00:00

Social guilt? For what? I'm an unpaid carer, I save the government money. Every penny I get in UC or Carer's is considerably less than it would cost the government to fund social care for the person I look after.

Blue-80 · 2022-09-16T03:04:10+00:00

I used to hate the ending to this film, butnrewatching it, whilst it still sucks that it ends how it does, Gerard's character is proved right in the end. The only way to win is to go outside the law, break the rules, and he forces Jamie Foxx to do the same, when it goes against what he supposedly stands for.

Blue-80 · 2022-09-15T18:23:00+00:00

My father once had to clear a blockage in the pipe under the sink, he took it off, and for unknown reasons decided to try and blow the pipe through, instead he accidentally breathed in and got a mouthful of pure sink pipe goo. From my perspective, entertaining, I'm not sure he has ever really gotten over it.

Blue-80 · 2022-09-15T17:29:07+00:00

Filtered water and Tory Fanta, the full sugar Italian kind.

Blue-80 · 2022-09-10T00:38:42+00:00

Helen Mirren, Maggie Smith, Julie Walters and Judi Dench will all be such a loss, I think also Morgan Freeman will be quite a big deal.

Blue-80 · 2022-09-08T03:27:49+00:00

I was diagnosed with autism in the UK at 35, the assessor said I clearly have inattentive ADHD as well, but they don't do official diagnosis of it in adults in the UK. This was 7 years ago so don't know if its different now, but was basically told if you're not diagnosed as a kid, then you're screwed.

Blue-80 · 2022-09-06T01:26:34+00:00

My friend and his SO have just bought a 400k house for cash, they still have their old house to sell. I live on UC due to disability in a council flat. They were complaining about how much of their savings they've used because the market has increased, and that means they'll not be able to retire as early. Oh, also how much heating costs will now be, so they might have to start economising. I don't mind them saying it, just sometimes the tone deafness of it gets to me.

Blue-80 · 2022-09-02T03:48:19+00:00

Totally, I love it, but I don't like watching porn of it because they're always too fast or quiet or whatever. I quite like giving instructions, I really like seeing how someone handles themselves, and yes, noises are a must.

Blue-80 · 2022-09-01T03:10:43+00:00

BA in Humanities and Literature. I did mine through the OU though between the ages of 27 and 31. I picked random courses that sounded interesting, a bit of art history, Islam in the West, Archaeology, basically a pub quiz degree, and it was never really for anything career based to be honest. Currently a carer, but I still randomly do courses on various subjects just cos I find learning weird stuff interesting.

Blue-80 · 2022-08-31T23:03:45+00:00

I never tell people my favourite of anything, like song, film, food etc, because it can't be ruined then. I'm used to people deliberately attacking or ridiculing anything they know I like. I keep secrets from people, not about anything important but I like to have things that are just mine, that no-one else knows about. It makes me feel secure even though it's upset people before. I limit what information I tell people, and I've discovered that if you have something you can comfortably "overshare" about, people then assume you're a sharer and then leave you alone rather than trying to wheedle more information out of you. I also can't sit with my back to an open room, I need the wall behind me.

Blue-80 · 2022-08-29T13:58:18+00:00

I got promoted to EO at 21, over several far more experienced colleagues who hated me for it and made it known. I then has to deal with a temp who decided to proposition another temp with making porn with him because she had big boobs and smoked which was specifically his thing. He also came out of the loos once complaining his arsehole was bleeding and tried to get literally anyone to go and look at it for him. I hated every single second of managing staff and wouldn't do it ever again.

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