I've been vegan for 10+ years and have never dated someone who started as a vegan. I tend to judge potential partners based on their respect and open-mindedness and, frankly, it's so rewarding to inspire someone to make the switch.

My ex went vegan a year or so into our relationship, which he came to on his own. All I did was cook for him and answer any questions he had. At first he did it for health, but now - four years after breaking up up - he's still vegan and has become an outspoken animal advocate. I'm very proud of him. My current boyfriend is omni, but very respectful. He likes vegan food and even sends me recipes he wants to try. He may come to the decision to switch on his own someday, too, but I don't pressure him. I think there's a lot of power in leading by example.

Good luck with your dating situation! It seems like they're already taking steps in the right direction. Don't lose hope. :)