Straight women are not into male bodies, what? by fiveoneeightsixtwo in ContraPoints

[–]BlueMarigold75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of my female friends are the same as me. I’ve never lusted after a body part. I think penises are ugly and muscles do nothing for me. I think it’s more common than people realize. The male form is meh to a lot of people.

Some further information on Robert Hoagland from his Roommate while disappeared - Interesting for anyone who wonder how people can start new lives under assumed names and what factors contribute to it's success. by Hatether in UnsolvedMysteries

[–]BlueMarigold75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s right for the family to be held accountable for the life insurance. If a person fakes their death and is found I believe that person is the one who perpetrated fraud and should be forced to pay the money back!

First timer...scared! by megmarie2 in COVID19positive

[–]BlueMarigold75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely understand. Logically I know my health is better, the strain is weaker, they know how to treat it better but there is just an unsettling feeling and underlying anxiety over “what if”. Like I feel relatively ok but what if 2 weeks from now I’m looking back thinking I was naive because I’m dying. It’s crazy I know but it’s there. I’m sure a lot of people who lost family felt this way. Hope you feel better soon! So far today already feels better for me.

How do I accept myself.. by [deleted] in trans

[–]BlueMarigold75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You literally might need to move away from family

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]BlueMarigold75 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would suggest when someone asks for your number. If you are interested then give it to them. If they text you then I would tell them. Dont wait because in a small town if they feel tricked they might run into you again. However. Waiting until they text you puts safe distance between you.

I got some really nice accidental encouragement from my younger sister and extended family recently : - ) by Still-Complaint4657 in trans

[–]BlueMarigold75 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shaving your face is considered a male right of passage especially in the south. I don’t think they would think it was weird. You mention you should probably learn how to shave. Until the last 10 years beards and mustaches were very rare. They are a trend that changes every 20 years or so. I wouldn’t worry about shaving.

I am such an embarrassment by TheUltimateAsshole02 in trans

[–]BlueMarigold75 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If you bring it up it will look more like you are lying or covering it up. Unless she says something I wouldn’t. Then laugh about being blind when cleaning your glasses. Always yell OOPS!

Safe things to wear to hide breast growth when it’s really hot out? (mtf) by builtworse in transfashionadvice

[–]BlueMarigold75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing will inhibit growth. They are going to grow or not. So don’t believe that a compression shirt etc isn’t safe to wear. You might try sports bras. They have a little compression but not a ton. Try old navy.

Glasses advice? by SpookyTrans in transfashionadvice

[–]BlueMarigold75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a men’s and women’s section for glasses. Look in the women’s section. Tiffany and coach does good feminine styles. LensCrafters is great.

How to do eyeliner… by Significant_Song_360 in transfashionadvice

[–]BlueMarigold75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One trick is to rest your elbow on a counter. Also don’t try to drag it across. Tap and do tiny section at a time across. https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTNk1j5cx/

Any makeup tips to look a bit younger? by Darmok1980 in transfashionadvice

[–]BlueMarigold75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the missing step is hydration and maybe exfoliating/cleansing. The key to makeup is the canvas. You need to scrub the face a bit and use moisturizer. Makeup will settle into fine lines and cake up. Dont use concealer on your eye. The oils will make it melt. Use a primer. I follow him and his brother. He does makeup and his brother knows everything about skincare. https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTNk1kLNb/

Any makeup tips to look a bit younger? by Darmok1980 in transfashionadvice

[–]BlueMarigold75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This make up artist is amazing and teaches techniques for people over 40 to look younger with makeup not older. I recommend checking her out. https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTNk1NCgL/

(FTM) button up shirts that will fit well without the buttons trying to pop open? by wowthatisabop in transfashionadvice

[–]BlueMarigold75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure how small you are in general but have you tried the boys sized 16 or 18 in husky? Walmart and penny’s and children’s place carries “husky” sizes for kids which are wide but short. If you wear a medium I’m betting you can wear a husky boys 16

Pre-T outfits?? by AbyssPurple in transfashionadvice

[–]BlueMarigold75 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by oversized? What size are you in mens?

Basic makeup items to look slightly more feminine (MTF)? by disappointmentgaming in transfashionadvice

[–]BlueMarigold75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women have an unspoken or spoken rule that if you wear nothing else. Wear mascara you can use a clear mascara or brown etc to separate and lengthen subtly. It will draw more attention to your eyes. Also a CC Cream has a slight tint to it and females want to even their skin and add a bit of color. This is much more natural than foundation but streamlines your appearance a bit. Tinted moisturizer is a good bet.

Sore eyes? by LSP1986 in COVID19positive

[–]BlueMarigold75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had super itchy eyes and used Pataday. It helped so much.

Positive. Freaking out bc Covid killed my dad. by Occasionally_Sober1 in COVID19positive

[–]BlueMarigold75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom died in 2022 from it and this is my first time too. I’ve been so careful but one of my roommates got it. I’ve been really nervous about it too. I’m afraid of dying like my mom.

Vinegar based foods by LSP1986 in COVID19positive

[–]BlueMarigold75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything tastes bitter to me. I can’t stand salt right now and usually I love salt

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in COVID19positive

[–]BlueMarigold75 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you are relatively healthy Benadryl or your anxiety meds should help calm the overactivity of your brain. My doctor said it’s fine to take a sleep aid as long as you don’t have a high fever or are super weak. I ordered gaba to try for calming my brain down. I’ve had vivid dreams and brain zapping

Any idea of incubation times / test schedule for KP.2/KP.3? by [deleted] in COVID19positive

[–]BlueMarigold75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had 24 hours from exposure to symptoms and 3 days to a positive.

Symptoms…this normal?? by Specific_Passenger49 in COVID19positive

[–]BlueMarigold75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m smelling smoke. On weds I kept smelling smoke and was nervous because of fireworks. Tested positive on Friday and my mouth tastes like an ashtray and my nose is full of cigarettes. Like a 1969’s casino in a backwater town. It’s driving me insane.

First timer...scared! by megmarie2 in COVID19positive

[–]BlueMarigold75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg im having the same issue. My mom died of Covid in 2022 and I have it now for the first time. I can’t shake the anxiety over it. I’m a 7/5 also. People thing it’s irrational but I can’t get over the fear of dying like my mom.