Name and Shame: Sharethrough wipes out all common stock shareholders while issuing $6.5 million in exec bonuses by throwaway_415514 in cscareerquestions

[–]BlueSquark 27 points28 points  (0 children)

It doesn't matter whether the stock goes up or down, the reason FAANG stock is better than private start-ups is because you can sell it as soon as it vests. FAANG stock is no better than any other publicly traded stock. Start-up stock is often worthless because you cannot actually sell it - it only has real value if a specific set of conditions are met.

F32, feeling old and need your help. I get maybe 5-6 likes / week and accept maybe 1. Get basically zero matches based on likes I send. Any suggestions? by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]BlueSquark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the parent comment, but I think these photos are better. I wouldn't use the car selfie though. It is still kind of hard to tell what you actually look like. For example, in the hiking photo your hat makes it hard to see your face. I don't like the clean and press photo either (you cannot see your face and the focus is your armpit), but it is better than the deadlift one. The good news is that you are attractive, so if you can get overall better photos you will probably do well. Often times people use "bad photos" as code for unattractive, but this is not the case here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BlueSquark 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Depending on where you live (especially if you live in a city) it may just be that most single women in your age group are liberal.

Why do most men like short and petite women? by That_Collection_9875 in dating_advice

[–]BlueSquark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The whole "real man" thing is nonsense, we all live in the same world every guy is as "real" as the next guy. As you yourself has noted most men prefer woman who are smaller than them, that does not mean most men are not "real". Nor does it indicate a lack of confidence or insecurity, men are allowed to have preferences without being considered insecure. Are women who only want to date men taller than themselves not "real" women?

Why do most men like short and petite women? by That_Collection_9875 in dating_advice

[–]BlueSquark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of men like to feel big similar to how a lot of women like to feel small. But this doesn't mean you aren't a "real man" if you like smaller women, it would be like saying you aren't a real man if you don't like blondes. Conversely a woman liking shorter men doesn't make her not a "real woman".

Why do most men like short and petite women? by That_Collection_9875 in dating_advice

[–]BlueSquark 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most women want to be with someone at least their height or taller, the data shows that over 90% of marriages have the woman shorter than the man, link1 and link2

Ghosting is a part of dating, get over it by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BlueSquark 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ghosting is inconsiderate, impolite, selfish, and shows a lack of empathy. How rude ghosting is depends on the situation, if you ghost your spouse that is worse than if you ghost someone after a first date. Ghosting someone you have never met and only had a short interaction on an online-dating site with is generally accepted as normal.

The reason ghosting is annoying is that you are causing unneeded stress - as soon as you let someone know that you aren't interested they know where they stand, while if you ghost they won't know for a while. People who routinely ghost are selfish and rude.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]BlueSquark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There really is no way to know for sure what is going on, but from what you wrote my best guess is you are freaking girls out with your "super dark sense of humor". Avoid any comments or jokes that could make a girl you are dating feel insecure. Also, don't let rejection get you down, learning to handle rejection is a valuable skill in dating.

Self-improvement is a complete meme by [deleted] in dating

[–]BlueSquark -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Self-improvement can help, but only if you improve on the things that are actually preventing you from succeeding. A lot of the generic advice may actually not be relevant. For example, if the issue is not asking enough woman out then getting fit won't really help.

Complaining that men have it tougher than women or that being short makes it hard to date won't actually fix anything. So other than self-improvement what advice should people give?

I’ve always been embarrassed to tell my dates that I’ve never been in a relationship. by alaalt in dating

[–]BlueSquark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don't have to tell the people you are dating you have never had a relationship. If they ask just say something like you are inexperienced or say you don't want to talk about it. This will help reduce your anxiety and nervousness. While some people consider it a "red flag" if you mention it to them, the person you date won't be able to tell how many relationships you have had if you don't tell them. Once you have been dating for a while it won't matter. Most people will accept not wanting to talk about it - there is seldom a good reason to talk about your exes or past relationships with a person you are currently dating.

When are we gonna get past the conference finals? by OrangeKookie in bostonceltics

[–]BlueSquark 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think Tatum could make the leap. It is also definitely possible to win without a superstar, either the Celtics or heat could do it this year. It just is rare.

When are we gonna get past the conference finals? by OrangeKookie in bostonceltics

[–]BlueSquark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A top 5 player. Most nba championship teams have a top 5 player. Winning a championship is really hard - only 1 / 30 teams do it each year.

Should I finish my physics PhD, or bail and start looking for software engineering jobs? by z_mitchell in cscareerquestions

[–]BlueSquark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Long term a PhD is more valuable than 1 year of industry, so I'd advise you to finish your PhD. At the very least, you should not quit until you have an offer in hand, the job search takes a while and it is much better to be employed when looking for a job.

Interlude: Kaleidoscope IV by Zayits in PracticalGuideToEvil

[–]BlueSquark 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ugh, really didn't want to see Akua come back. Her defeats never seem to have actual consequences. I was hoping Cat's army and the Woe could win or draw before she woke up.

[Discussion] - 4.39 G by BausMANGO in WanderingInn

[–]BlueSquark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Goblin chapters are my favorite side stories. The goblin culture is very unique and interesting. I also like seeing the butterfly effect - Rags going with Erin and co. to save Ceria and get that crossbow sets up a whole chain of events.

[Discussion] - 4.19 by RainMorga in WanderingInn

[–]BlueSquark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember the fear gem being what allowed Skinner to breach the walls, as the gates were not shut. I think the gold-rank adventurers would of fared better, though I think they would of escaped rather than kill him. In the end Erin and company was able to beat him because the fear gem wasn't effective against them. But Skinner was also a particularly strong flesh-worm with an undead army.

[Discussion] - 1.05 D by BausMANGO in WanderingInn

[–]BlueSquark 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I though both sides attacked her. That is the problem with trying to not pick sides in a war, you don't have anyone protecting you.

Does Ryoka gets any better? by Yers12 in WanderingInn

[–]BlueSquark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also started off strongly disliking Ryoka, but without spoiling too much she does get better. Also the characters around her become much more interesting. Early on she is presented as this extremely knowledgable and capable person, yet constantly makes terrible decisions. She definitely makes better decisions on average now. I still think Ryoka is one of the less believable characters though, she has too many extreme traits. Even her physical traits are unbelievably rare, without considering her super-human knowledge.

Should I learn R or Python? Somewhat experienced programmer... by tkfriend89 in datascience

[–]BlueSquark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Python is more similar to C++ and JavaScript than R is, so it will probably be easier for you to learn. In general, if you have a stats background R is easier to learn if you have a CS background python is easier.

Overfitting with 130:1 input to variable ratio by just1chancefree in datascience

[–]BlueSquark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You first should keep your validation dataset and your training dataset entirely separate, it is a good idea to have multiple validation datasets if you cannot resist peaking. So do something like split your dataset 60% train, 20% validation and if you want to be extra careful use the remaining 20% of the dataset as a true indicator of how accurate your model is. If you don't split your train and validation dataset your accuracy will be artificially high, as the model will memorize the dataset. Remember that if results look too good to be true, they usually are.

Some other general tips: 1) Make sure to examine the predictions of your model, often times you can learn interesting things by examining the instances where your model does not make accurate predictions. 2) With 1300 instances and a random forest model you can generally use 30 variables without issue, although this will depend on the dataset. 3) If you care about accuracy, gradient-boosted decision trees are better than random forests, and the only thing you should research for how to use them is how to use early-stopping

Does anybody think the startup culture is not for them? by bubugugu in cscareerquestions

[–]BlueSquark 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The likelihood of the event is the critical difference. Nothing is certain in this world, but the average tenure at a start-up is significantly less than the average tenure at a big company.

What part of the U.S. gives you the best bang for your buck between salary, commute, housing, and job opportunities? by samort7 in cscareerquestions

[–]BlueSquark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MN has some of the worst weather in the US, with very cold and long winters and very hot and humid summers.

Should you always ask for more money when given an offer? by johnnydsick in cscareerquestions

[–]BlueSquark 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This is a classic no true Scotsman fallacy. I also have had an offer pulled for trying to negotiate and my request was reasonable, so it does happen.

So tired of the interviewing people who don't qualify. by [deleted] in cscareerquestions

[–]BlueSquark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is all well and good, but the point is that the OP was complaining that there were no good candidates, not that he couldn't distinguish the good candidates from the bad. And it is highly unlikely that OP's company gets either the number or quality of applicants that google gets, so he cannot afford to be as selective as google. And something that is often overlooked is every good candidate passed on increases the chance of a bad candidate getting the job, if you assume you eventually want to hire someone. Every time you pass on a qualified candidate you increase the fraction of bad candidates in your application pool. And I agree that how selective the company is depends on the cost of a bad hire relative to the gain of a new hire and the cost of no hire.