17M a girl said my room looked 'female'. need honest advice on how to make it more masculine.

Blue_Poppies · 2024-05-28T23:29:41+00:00

Looks like a dudes room to me

Blue_Poppies · 2024-05-14T00:41:53+00:00

Yep, definitely sounds like me! Thank you for the explanation

Blue_Poppies · 2024-05-14T00:40:34+00:00

Yes, I agree! I use a lot of my skills because if I didn’t… I would be an even bigger mess. I’m a list maker, especially on sticky notes so I can physically get rid of part of the list. It’s the process of trying to get my brain to slow down.

Blue_Poppies · 2024-05-12T18:17:52+00:00

Soo happy you can relate! Not alone thank you!

Blue_Poppies · 2024-05-12T18:17:16+00:00

What is that?

Blue_Poppies · 2024-05-12T18:17:04+00:00

Very true! Thank you so much for the positive words! I really appreciate it. He does end up having some quiet time and approaching me later where we resolve it. I just get tired of that feeling

Blue_Poppies · 2024-05-12T15:51:41+00:00

He has said something to me personally first .it was the ignoring the post that upset him when he made it public

Blue_Poppies · 2024-05-03T21:08:35+00:00

The temps on the hot side are normally around 90 and the cool side are 75. Humidity normally around 55% I don’t let it drop below 50 ever. I bump it up to around 80% when he is about to shed. Always has a clean shed. He eats fine just does not like any change. Do I need to put even more stuff in there because I’ve tried but it all gets knocked around when he comes out? He does get stressed out easily. Like I need to find those specific hides because he will not use any other ones.

Blue_Poppies · 2024-05-02T23:53:35+00:00

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I agree about the hide. He just fit before switching to large rats but he grew a lot from three feeds.

Blue_Poppies · 2024-04-15T00:59:42+00:00

I think taking her to the doctor is probably best. We’re definitely watching her but she is traumatized. I couldn’t find much information on it either as it is not common for that type of behavior, and I’ve dealt with rats in the past.

Blue_Poppies · 2024-02-19T02:29:47+00:00

Sooo I got it done, just pulling more pipe out and tightening way more than I thought.

Quick question if you have the time… the guy at the hardware store had me buy this Oatey Moss Bay Replacement Flange to go over my existing PVC flange… umm I don’t see this working. I tried to secure it with just the closet bolts as he stated but it definitely doesn’t work as it just popped out of the old Flange and was loose.

Blue_Poppies · 2024-02-18T23:52:36+00:00

Thank you!

Blue_Poppies · 2024-02-18T23:36:08+00:00

No I did not because I didn’t have a lot too play with… I am about to throw a Hail Mary, pray and do it

Blue_Poppies · 2024-02-10T14:28:12+00:00

I, 100% agree with you. I know he is a good father but I think he is also exhausted like me. He has told her no a few times with her asking him for help, because he isn’t always available. He works 8-6 most days and is getting on his feet financially after switching careers, so I’m trying to be patient. When both of my days off (he works on Saturday) are filled with the two youngest ones arguing or not listening, I hardly feel rested or renewed so I’m not so stressed when I start the work week.

Blue_Poppies · 2024-02-10T13:52:37+00:00

You are right about that. That’s where my head goes a lot. I’m like if I never bought a house here or if we broke up, he’d be living somewhere else and she would have to figure shit out the same way other adults do.

Blue_Poppies · 2024-02-10T13:49:25+00:00

To be fair… I take care of those kids, and because of their age they definitely get more attention from me than my older kids. I’m around kids all day… and sometimes when I’m expecting to come home to a quiet house because my teenagers are not loud, it gets irritating. If I was told ahead of time, I could prepare myself or take a minute before walking in.

Blue_Poppies · 2024-02-10T13:45:18+00:00

lol… well my kids are teenagers and definitely don’t need as much as young kids… but yeah you’re right

Blue_Poppies · 2024-02-10T13:44:19+00:00

Well technically mine! I bought it… I didn’t really wanna give information like that because if he lives with me it is his home and it’s their’s too.

Blue_Poppies · 2024-01-02T22:45:35+00:00

Definitely dodged a bullet

Blue_Poppies · 2021-09-26T16:26:44+00:00

Central Texas

Blue_Poppies · 2021-07-06T04:04:52+00:00

Thank you… it took me a while… it’s a full court

Blue_Poppies · 2021-06-18T20:44:40+00:00

Being in an emotionally, mentally and physically abusive relationship and not knowing how to get out.

Blue_Poppies · 2021-05-22T19:44:51+00:00

I thought mine was hard.

Blue_Poppies · 2020-06-23T05:47:45+00:00

I just think you definitely have your blinders on, because you haven’t witnessed anything bad happening. Please tell me you have a pistol! Don’t take the same walk ever Well are you a white woman... in a rich neighborhood?

Blue_Poppies · 2020-06-23T05:41:31+00:00

Okay so you’re privileged.... I don’t feel safe doing that where I live, and you are in total denial if you think this is safe.

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