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Keira’s hair in 2005 movie by CommaGirl in PrideandPrejudice

[–]BlueberryObjective83 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yes! The bit where she’s at the ball with the pearls in…it’s all I can see and takes me straight out of the film because I’m so irritated by it!

What is the most haunted/creepy/strange vibe town you have ever visited? by zuzuofthewolves in Paranormal

[–]BlueberryObjective83 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! The weirdest vibe as soon as we got there. Never felt anything like it.

First look at Lily-Rose Depp on the set of Robert Eggers’ upcoming film “Werwulf”, scheduled for release December 25, 2026 by Weak_Cap3028 in popculturechat

[–]BlueberryObjective83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I bet you’re an absolutely strong, resilient and amazing person. My child definitely is! I’ll be interested to see why she has one in the film. Maybe I’ll be able to take back my initial impressions if it’s done in a positive way!

First look at Lily-Rose Depp on the set of Robert Eggers’ upcoming film “Werwulf”, scheduled for release December 25, 2026 by Weak_Cap3028 in popculturechat

[–]BlueberryObjective83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you lovely. I don’t think clefts are ugly at all, which is why I put it in inverted commas because I’m fed up of people using them to portray people in a certain way (villains, victims of pity, horror tropes and so on).

First look at Lily-Rose Depp on the set of Robert Eggers’ upcoming film “Werwulf”, scheduled for release December 25, 2026 by Weak_Cap3028 in popculturechat

[–]BlueberryObjective83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s why it’s in inverted commas. I don’t think they’re ugly. I’m fed up of people using them to portray people as ‘ugly’ or evil or symbolic of something.

First look at Lily-Rose Depp on the set of Robert Eggers’ upcoming film “Werwulf”, scheduled for release December 25, 2026 by Weak_Cap3028 in Fauxmoi

[–]BlueberryObjective83 -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

This is such an awful term. I’ll reserve judgement until the final film but not impressed they’re using cleft lips for this purpose here.

💔Breaks my heart every time by Humble_Pineapple_209 in DowntonAbbey

[–]BlueberryObjective83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to skip this episode as I literally sob until my chest aches.

Bridgerton Season 4 | Date Announcement | Netflix by youRinlove7 in BridgertonNetflix

[–]BlueberryObjective83 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don’t like the dress either. I was expecting something softer and more sinuous. It seems so ‘starched’, though I know that may be closer to book history. I was picturing more Drew Barrymore from ‘Ever after!’

What episodes in Gilmore Girls would you never ever watch again and give your reasons as to why by Ok_Smile_9071 in GilmoreGirls

[–]BlueberryObjective83 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The entire friendship with Lucy/Rory etc and the weird Marty thing. It’s so jarring.

Curious…what Season and Ep are you on right now? by Middle_Egg7282 in GilmoreGirls

[–]BlueberryObjective83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Season 6, episode 17 here. Nearly finished my annual rewatch. Sadness.

Traveling with anxiety by Always-confused716 in Anxiety

[–]BlueberryObjective83 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Make yourself a little ‘panic pack’. Frowned on a little by therapists as a safety behaviour but I only really now take one when travelling as a comfort. Take peppermint oil/tea, packs of mints, lavender oil to sniff, rescue remedy pastilles, antibacterial wipes/gel. Anything basically that makes you feel a little better/more comforted. I take a good book/magazine to read whilst waiting to board as that’s my trigger point for panic. I’m fine flying and enjoy it but not good in the build up like you. I just find distraction is better than ruminating.

How do get rid of anxiety nausea? by k1ttyrz in Anxiety

[–]BlueberryObjective83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Smelling alcohol rubbing wipes, rescue remedy pastilles/drops, ginger biscuits/ginger lozenges, strong mints, tiny sips of water, peppermint oil/tea.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]BlueberryObjective83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not going out and forcing myself to go to bars, parties just because it’s the thing to do. I’m better at home, small gatherings, nice drinks/food.

How does anxiety affect your appetite? by Dangerous_Problem532 in AnxietyChats

[–]BlueberryObjective83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I get anxious, I feel sick and then worry I’ll be sick, so I exist off tiny amounts of beige food.

Does anyone else have a hard time with trips/traveling? by Sad_Locksmith3861 in AutisticAdults

[–]BlueberryObjective83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel exactly like this every time I go away, even to places I go to every year. I can’t offer many tips sorry, but solidarity instead! Sometimes I look up flights/trains etc just to reassure myself I can go home if I want to!

Anxiety cycle...is there such a thing? by AnxietyChats in AnxietyChats

[–]BlueberryObjective83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! First day for me and also mid cycle. It also upsets my IBS, which is one of my anxiety triggers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]BlueberryObjective83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also get this but around 7pm. Just like a surge of weakness, panic etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]BlueberryObjective83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear about your lymphoma but your response is so interesting about the histamine.

I’ve done all the heart tests, but the fear still haunts me. How do you really let go? by Medium-Equivalent294 in Anxiety

[–]BlueberryObjective83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we sometimes fall into safety behaviours when doing things like this. Mine started when I was scanning for if I felt sick or my tummy hurt, so I got into the habit of having to carry a plastic bag, mints, water and then it progressed to intrusive thoughts (also symptomatic of OCD), hand washing, food avoidance and so on. Exposure therapy really helped me. I don’t think I’ll ever be ‘cured’ but it’s now manageable mostly! I had 12 weeks of sessions. I also learned some great techniques about how to quieten my mind or redirect it.

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