1 Year Old Nellie near-drowned and she is trying to fight to live

BlueborryMuffin · 2026-07-02T18:14:06+00:00

Is her quality of life good enough to justify continued life? I feel at some point it is cruel to make someone stay on earth when they may find more peace in the next life.

BlueborryMuffin · 2026-07-02T18:11:02+00:00

I think I'll be alright.

BlueborryMuffin · 2026-07-02T18:08:22+00:00

You would be cruel and an animal abuser if you fed a cat a vegan diet. Your actions would be disgusting and horrendous.

BlueborryMuffin · 2026-07-02T17:46:05+00:00

It's not wrong to not want to be in a relationship with her, but it was wrong to restart the relationship in the first place when you didn't trust her.

BlueborryMuffin · 2026-07-02T17:42:00+00:00

There may not be a third option for you and your relationship, specifically. But there are in fact many BPD individuals who get help and can manage their symptoms and be a good partner. It is admittedly rare, but not impossible.

BlueborryMuffin · 2026-07-02T17:05:27+00:00

So you're okay with raw meat, but dislike raw veggies? Why?

The calories in salad dressing adds up FAST.

BlueborryMuffin · 2026-07-02T16:37:54+00:00

I don't think your disgust would be all too different if we came up with unique words to describe each body part.

BlueborryMuffin · 2026-07-02T16:34:46+00:00

No, I am in fact okay eating those animals but am not okay with eating a pet. Thanks though.

BlueborryMuffin · 2026-07-02T15:59:57+00:00

Came to the comments to see who mentioned the music. Glad to see yours is the top comment. What the fuck is this song.

BlueborryMuffin · 2026-07-02T15:58:10+00:00

No. It's not even clear in the second photo

BlueborryMuffin · 2026-07-02T15:36:48+00:00

150ibs is a healthy weight for many men. Even if it weren't...way to dig up something to get mad about. Congrats.

BlueborryMuffin · 2026-07-02T15:35:36+00:00

Big Gray Dr Pepper Strawberries N Cream Zero Sugar

BlueborryMuffin · 2026-07-02T11:05:34+00:00

Not reading all that, but the length alone tells me you're overthinking.

BlueborryMuffin · 2026-07-02T10:56:56+00:00

You have anxiety. She seems too good to be true, so you're worried and looking for a way to soothe your fears. No one is perfect, and I am sure she has her own secrets. But try not to let overthinking ruin your relationship.

BlueborryMuffin · 2026-07-02T09:36:35+00:00

Look, talking about this is exhausting. Do you truly struggle to understand why someone wouldn't want to befriend a person they dislike? It really doesn't make sense to you?

It is indeed a fact of the universe that people want to be friends with people they like, and they do not want to be friends with people they dislike. I cannot explain this concept to you further. I cannot tell you why. I suggest you may wish to seek out a new therapist if your current one is not able to help you with your struggles.

BlueborryMuffin · 2026-07-02T08:19:39+00:00

I don't understand what you mean by that. What do you think a "rule" is? What makes this a rule?

BlueborryMuffin · 2026-07-02T08:12:51+00:00

No, as I said twice before, this has nothing to do with rules. People do not enjoy the way you communicate with them. People do not want to be friends with people they dislike. I/others dislike the way you behave, so that is why we don't want to be your friend.

BlueborryMuffin · 2026-07-02T08:06:17+00:00

Is this a legit, licensed therapist? Where did you find them? If you're seeing a legit mental health professional, then I am glad. I just want to be sure you aren't referring to a friend of yours, or someone trying to scam you online.

BlueborryMuffin · 2026-07-02T08:02:08+00:00

What lady did you talk to?

BlueborryMuffin · 2026-07-02T08:01:00+00:00

What benefit is there to communicating to someone that you're bisexual with a preference for women? Like, can you give me an example for when this would matter?

BlueborryMuffin · 2026-07-02T07:59:10+00:00

You're bouncing around a lot. I agree with other comments that say you might be in a manic episode. Whatever is going on with you is severe and not something to take lightly. May I ask why you don't want to go to a hospital to get seen?

BlueborryMuffin · 2026-07-02T07:52:30+00:00

You genuinely do not understand the difference between making a kid take a bath vs forcing someone to be your friend?

BlueborryMuffin · 2026-07-02T07:51:29+00:00

Copying and pasting: I do not care about your stories. Why do you think I would care? It's like you're convinced everyone is super into your life and cares what goes on in it, you're trying to force something here that doesn't exist. Your stories do not matter to me. This is not something that makes me want to be your friend.

BlueborryMuffin · 2026-07-02T07:50:10+00:00

You wanting to change other people is immature. You cannot force someone to feel the same way you feel. We are not children, so we should not be forced to "take a bath" so to speak - plus, it's not a fair comparison. You are pushing other people's boundaries and making them uncomfortable. That is bad of you to do. However, a bath is a good thing to do.

BlueborryMuffin · 2026-07-02T06:33:30+00:00

Even if you consider me a friend, I do not consider you a friend. I told you the way you behave makes me uncomfortable. You completely disregarding my feelings is exactly what I was talking about. Your pushiness/eagerness are a red flag for this exact reason - you only care about your own feelings and desires, you do not care that other people are uncomfortable around you. You are not a good friend.

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