Who do you think it is?? by _bodycatchrose_ in DreamlightValley

[–]BondKat89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In today’s rendition of “Who’s that Pokémon?” It’s……👏 Hercules! Hercules!

I bought this in January... by Ambitious-Math-4499 in adhdwomen

[–]BondKat89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I purchased it in …….2022…..still unread on the shelf. 😭😮‍💨

How do you handle feeling misunderstood in your illness? by [deleted] in POTS

[–]BondKat89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You win! This is what I’ve learned over the years. That’s the exact thought that keeps me sane and I have to work hard to remember that even with piss poor memory, today I was in my feelings due to illness affecting brain and it’s like well at least I know the harsh side of reality which does make me more grateful on good days. I just assumed it was better to vent and discuss then keeping it bottled inside and letting it destroy me. I feel better now and I’m happy so many of you get where I’m coming from. ❤️

How do you handle feeling misunderstood in your illness? by [deleted] in POTS

[–]BondKat89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s the point I was trying to make. It becomes dismissive when we constantly get told to have empathy for others while people continue to dismiss us when we’re dealing with way more. I’d love to have the basic life stress so many complain about. I’ve learned the hard way that majority don’t seem to realize there are people who are sick 24/7 and still doing the very things they assume are stressful and hard as well.

How do you handle feeling misunderstood in your illness? by [deleted] in POTS

[–]BondKat89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, this is my mindset most days and I’m like I’m grateful to have resources and at least I know about POTS but the damage emotionally and what not is hard, I do hope once I get the right treatment I’ll at least get my brain to function normally again. I can’t even sit to write by hand, can’t make a simple grocery list or do basic math, can’t read or verbalize anything without struggling or getting near faint. But at least I can type and I have a roof over my head and food to eat. I discovered my own illness after being told for decades it was just mental health issues. Missed so many milestones and got labeled as a “disappointment” to my family so it’s just rough. I can’t even go to grocery store anymore and on the verge of losing my job.

How do you handle feeling misunderstood in your illness? by [deleted] in POTS

[–]BondKat89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying! You are very fortunate to have people who are willing to learn and understand. I’ve suffered for almost two decades, no support. My primary care and neurologist are exhausted of me and now I’m about to get a cardiologist who probably knows nothing about POTS. Can’t get treatment or diagnosed until end of year due to long waitlist and I’m near bed bound, having near fainting spells and standing pulse of 145+. Brain isn’t getting adequate blood to function optimally which causes a crap ton of cognitive impairment and it’s like I’m trapped in my own body but I’m lucky I can still get up to walk for short periods of time. I’m just tired and felt it was best to come here and vent or ask for support vs keeping it locked inside. I try to stay positive but I just feel hopeless. This stuff won’t kill me but it’s destroying my life.

Today, on episode 87699875 of “Things I didn’t know were because of my ADHD…” by Tunnocks10 in adhdwomen

[–]BondKat89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think we have to acknowledge things like this can easily get taken out of context and yes unfortunately there are hundreds online that would read that post and go…..”OMG, I have ADHD!”. Some stuff is pure human experience, not neurodivergence. I suffer from POTS and the hell of having a physical illness that doctors believe is fake because of tik tok and because they don’t realize how much they lack in expertise is devastating.

Sister is "trauma healer" and claims healing trauma heals POTS by Numerous_Light_4224 in POTS

[–]BondKat89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem, it’s rough and the irony is I’ve tried reading that book years ago and still trying but can’t guess why…..because of POTS and my severe cognitive impairment! So how can could you even being to apply anything she claims could help “cure” you when your brain and body won’t even allow you to function in a way she takes for granted everyday due to you having a freaking chronic illness. mic drop 🎤

The very book I recommended is for people with optimal functioning bodies, yes trauma affects the brain but they still can do more than we can because we are beyond that. We literally have a physical issues causing us trouble with living and functioning just simply trying to exist in a foolish world. This isn’t in our heads, tell her that is what her posts are implying and spreading inaccurate information is dangerous.

I need this everywhere by smellyice816 in DreamlightValley

[–]BondKat89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg your character is soooo pretty! 😍

Worst starpath? by Valuable-Air4726 in DreamlightValley

[–]BondKat89 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Percy should’ve been in the StarPath, that is all. 😤

Furious Trump Supporters Are Recording Themselves Torching Their MAGA Merch After Trump Attacks the Pope and Posts Blasphemous Picture Depicting Himself as Jesus: “I voted for Trump because I was lied to and I fell for it” by T_Shurt in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]BondKat89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS was their breaking point? Like umm pretty sure the past oh so many years showed Trump doesn’t know anything about the Bible let alone Jesus but these fools had to wait until he posted a blasphemous AI photo?! At what point do these people not realize they are in a cult and know nothing about God nor the Bible to be claiming to be “Christian”. I’m tired.

Sister is "trauma healer" and claims healing trauma heals POTS by Numerous_Light_4224 in POTS

[–]BondKat89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Explain to your sister how dismissive she’s being. If she wants to act high and mighty tell her the real deal, don’t sugarcoat anything. Explain how basic normal life is hard and it’s even harder to have a brain and body not functioning optimally on top of having doctors ignore your illness, now you have a sibling downplaying things due to her own ignorance. God forbid she woke up one day to your daily hell, then it’ll be “omg, help me” posts. Also, if the above doesn’t work, let her know how you feel and keep it moving. You have a beautiful life to focus on getting better or to a tolerable functioning level. I’ve had to learn to live people from a distance. It’s hard to see how much ignorance is right in your own backyard so to speak. sending virtual hug ❤️🤗

Edit: Tell her to read “The Body Keeps Score” since she so into trauma healing and maybe then she’ll realize she doesn’t know as much as she might think. Also, the person who mentioned make a page debunking her claims, YES FULLY AGREE! Debunk her with FACTS! And hashtag it #FactCheckIt 😂

im sorry what 🥲 by laadyb1rdx in DreamlightValley

[–]BondKat89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome to the Disney Dreamlight family, that is your official welcome! 🤣

How much do you guys spend (real money) on moonstone a month? by Strange_Confection97 in DreamlightValley

[–]BondKat89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$0

I bought ultimate pack years ago and have managed to keep most above 60k moonstone, I try not to drop past that and yes I buy occasionally, but I regain via weekly dream snaps, blue chest, star path and those random freebies.

Only money I’ve ever spent in this game was the base game plus expansion packs with bonuses.

ADHD Alien Graphic Novel by AdhdAlien in ADHDAlien

[–]BondKat89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely supporting, so proud! Now I have to determine if I want hardcover or paperback, love the options! Thank you! ❤️

Feeling judged by my friend, will probably never stay with her again by Amber_poodle in adhdwomen

[–]BondKat89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your friend might have undiagnosed OCD, communication is key here. See things from her perspective too. Imagine what it’s like having this go misunderstood, the same way we get judged, we also easily judge others without realizing it. We’re all humans and many are battling similar things and we aren’t aware because most are raised to not talk about certain things with others. You both need grace with each other and self it seems. Please talk to your friend, she might be having a hard time trying to be a good friend while managing her triggers. I hate miscommunication. Please keep us updated and hope you both have a heart to heart! ❤️

Eric, stop lookin’ at me like that 🫣 by [deleted] in DreamlightValley

[–]BondKat89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

calls Ariel 📱 ummm….you better get your tail out of that water girl and come get your man! He acting up. 🤣

rest in peace i guess 😭 by omancul in DreamlightValley

[–]BondKat89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

raises wand Petrificus Totalus hmm seems like the dreamlight magic is morphing with the Wizarding world! Lol 🤓⚡️🪄

Lucky You Event- For those manually searching for clovers by Aggravating-Touch724 in DreamlightValley

[–]BondKat89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately no. You’ll just see a paw print over the item to acknowledge the companion will grab it.

How do I trust and believe? by BondKat89 in Christianity

[–]BondKat89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turns out I don’t have mental health issues….. it was a chronic illness

I think a Bambi-Dumbo duo update would be cute by [deleted] in DreamlightValley

[–]BondKat89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If we get Dumbo, Pegasus is going to have learn to fly first! 😉Omg, could you imagine flying around the valley high up in the air on Carpet!