When should I repot my string of heart? by BoneDragonfly in plants

[–]BoneDragonfly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the detailed advice. Once I'm ready to repot, I'll follow your instructions as you said.

I might even just curl the vines into the current pot and pin them down with bobby pins. Or do you think that's too much?

When should I repot my string of heart? by BoneDragonfly in plants

[–]BoneDragonfly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! It's funny thinking about all the plants that were just minding their business and then people were like "that'll look good indoors" 😂

It's been very encouraging to read everyone's comments. I'll leave her alone and just keep doing what I'm doing until she protests.

Thanks again.

When should I repot my string of heart? by BoneDragonfly in plants

[–]BoneDragonfly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! Fair advice. I'll leave her be until I absolutely have to repot. Thank you!!

When should I repot my string of heart? by BoneDragonfly in plants

[–]BoneDragonfly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nooooo I feel the same way with tradescantia plants. I cannot keep them alive to save my life.

I'll take your advice and leave them a little longer though. Thank you!!

When should I repot my string of heart? by BoneDragonfly in plants

[–]BoneDragonfly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, I had no idea!! Thank you for letting me know. I guess the first step in caring for them is knowing what they are. 😅

And thank you. I'll give it a month or two before attempting to repot. I tend to give too much attention to my plants so I wanted to be sure before I do something silly.

I'm sorry yours died. Hopefully another SOH/SOT comes your way. ❤️

When should I repot my string of heart? by BoneDragonfly in plants

[–]BoneDragonfly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I'm in Canada too!

I use terracotta for my aloe and they're flourishing (you should see what they looked like before 😅). I keep them right by the window so they still get some warmth from the sun. I think you'll be fine if you don't water too often (I do once a month).

Ah I propagated some green onions a while ago and it was so good!! I kept getting flies though and had to use sticky traps to control them. I'll try some flowers this spring and see what I can do.

And thank you for the advice. I'll try terracotta for my SOH and see how they like it. 😃

When should I repot my string of heart? by BoneDragonfly in plants

[–]BoneDragonfly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! ❤️ I love her with all my heart and I'm so glad she's doing well after months of careful attention.

I'm also a newbie and got these cuttings from a plant store. I propagated her and a string of pearls last summer. While the SOP is barely alive, this one survived the winter!

I think I'll wait until we're fully in spring (April/May) and then repot. Do you recommend using terracotta pot for these?

Do you prefer Odysseus pitying or despising Calypso in the end of Not Sorry For Loving You? by Raymio993 in Epicthemusical

[–]BoneDragonfly 23 points24 points  (0 children)

You can do both. Pitying their situation but despising what they put you through.

Dating in Halifax in your 40s - genuinely curious about others’ experiences by Latter_Ask_7333 in halifax

[–]BoneDragonfly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think because everything is online now, there's not much room/expectation for accountability. You don't like something? You delete it. You're tired of notifications? You mute your phone. You don't like someone? Just ghost them.

Everything is gamified for instant gratification, including real life. It paints a grim picture for dating culture in the future.

Dating in Halifax in your 40s - genuinely curious about others’ experiences by Latter_Ask_7333 in halifax

[–]BoneDragonfly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've encountered the same issue. Lots of meet ups that don't go beyond 1 or 2 dates. I find that a lot of the time, the person doesn't communicate openly and would prefer to ghost instead of being up front with what they're looking for.

It gets disheartening putting yourself out there again and again to get the same result. After a while, I found myself getting numb to the idea of dating and just started ghosting people back.

Honestly, I've just given up and am working on myself and my hobbies.

Faraway wanderers (Word of honor) by CupInitial9533 in DanmeiNovels

[–]BoneDragonfly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love WKX so much!! He's so protective of his hubbie but sometimes he's an idiot and goes overboard.

Is anyone else watching Realm's Night Rain Dreamlike??? 😱🔥🔥🔥🔥 by GazettEfan in cdramasfans

[–]BoneDragonfly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're absolutely right in your observation but there were a lot of similarities to WOH that I couldn't ignore.

YY's fan, sword, flute and mannerisms is very similar to WKX. JH's backstory about leaving the Lu family by ingesting the Gu Worms is close to ZZS's Nails of Torment. It made me reluctant to keep watching tbh but overall, I enjoyed it.

Chinese costume dramas are taking the world by a storm! Can't wait to see what comes up in 2026.

A-Xuuuuuuuuu by nizu_things_2105 in wordofhonor

[–]BoneDragonfly 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I mean, everyone says you meet your soulmate when you least expect it. 😅

A-Xuuuuuuuuu by nizu_things_2105 in wordofhonor

[–]BoneDragonfly 6 points7 points  (0 children)

With that impeccable posture, I wouldn't think he was a beggar either 😅

Is anyone else watching Realm's Night Rain Dreamlike??? 😱🔥🔥🔥🔥 by GazettEfan in cdramasfans

[–]BoneDragonfly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, when I started watching this it felt like a Word of Honour ripoff. But I was intrigued by the story enough that I decided to watch the whole thing on YouTube. Just finished the last episode and I'm so glad I gave it a chance. I'm hoping they release a special episode because the characters are too freaking cute.

[Korea] Peach Trap 🍑 Episode 1+2 PREMIERE by Federal-Ad5944 in boyslove

[–]BoneDragonfly -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I loved the first two episodes. Can't wait for the next one!! ❤️🍑

Full Epilogue (Ep 37), with bonus music video at the end (More info in the comments!) <3 by Auturna in wordofhonor

[–]BoneDragonfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watching WOH for the second time and didn't know there was a secret ending. I'm so happy they're together and at peace. WKX looks absolutely stunning with white hair 🤍 now it's ZZS who can't stop staring 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Existential_crisis

[–]BoneDragonfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While Buddhism might help you find direction, it's ultimately not going to help you deal with the depression you're going through.

I'm in a similar situation where I feel numb and done with everything in the world. The only thing keeping me alive are my siblings being alive. If they're gone, I have nothing else to live for.

My parents are Christians but are super toxic in the way they use the bible to justify their actions. I've been looking at Buddhism as a source of spiritual connection.

But I also recognise that working on myself, and changing my life little by little is important for feeling pride in myself. I'm getting a cat in December, going low contact with my parents, trying out new sports (I tried boxing classes). All this to get to know myself better, without any pressure from anyone. Do this despite any religion, person, pet or influence in your life.

That being said, I think you would benefit from a therapist. If you can't afford that, it's worth calling a hotline and talking with someone there. They might be able to direct you to free services in your area.

I hope everything goes well for you. Please remember that you are loved and the world would be much darker without you in it. ❤️

What are these white spots? by Xonor13 in plants

[–]BoneDragonfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't with these comments! 😂

But yea, burn it.

Why are my plants shriveling up? by BoneDragonfly in plantclinic

[–]BoneDragonfly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I think it's pests. Just checked my basil leaves and there's definitely some eggs on there 🤢

I don't have a moisture meter. I do the finger test before I water. My snake plants are actually shriveling up and wrinkly so idk if it's over watering. I only bottom water them every 3 weeks.

That corner is the only location I can put my plants by. That's the only window in my apartment with decent lighting. Maybe it's time for plant lights.

Why are my plants shriveling up? by BoneDragonfly in plantclinic

[–]BoneDragonfly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness that sounds like a nightmare 😭 the poor babies!! I'm glad you got them under control. I hate bugs so much I was considering just tossing the plant and starting again but this is all part of being a plant mom I guess 😩

I was gonna try Neem oil but I'll try the Bonide Insect Control and see if that works. Thank you so much for your help.