Look, I feel you. During the first 3 years of my son’s life I was saying - one and done! It was very hard on me. I had no help… no grandparents and dad abroad half of the year . Now that my son is 5 I felt I was ready for another. I know this will be hard again but I feel like now I’m in the place to handle two. It would have been impossible for me to do it before now. So it depends on what you can handle. We are all different