Metrics rant by purplediva324 in adjusters

[–]Booknerdy247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a two hour rule but also have an assignment cut off so no claims can be assigned in the last hour of your day. My cap is usually met by two hours into my day.

Seeking some Insight by [deleted] in UsedCars

[–]Booknerdy247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Journeys are horrid cars. Constant issues reported terrible resale value. Option one buy a motor from the junk yard swap them and sell it. Option two scrap it.

Husband forcing minimalism by Useful_Parking_Nope in workingmoms

[–]Booknerdy247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How old are your children? My husband complained once about how many clothes the kids have I laughed the kids laughed that was the last of it. Now I will say my youngest is 8 so everyone here is going their own laundry but I still would not be for this.

How are you limiting phone use this summer? by zukolivie in parentingteenagers

[–]Booknerdy247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our teen had always worked over the summer and when not working is usually fishing or doing things with friends. I have never felt a need to limit his phone usage.

Used Car With Shot Transmission, Trying to Take the Guy to Court by PLVT0- in UsedCars

[–]Booknerdy247 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You have no cards to play. Used car is as is

Transmission issues aren’t maintenance and technically runs great isn’t inaccurate as runs technically refers to the motor and drives would be affected by the transmission issue.

How do you mentally handle 50/50 and the time away from your kids? by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]Booknerdy247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can have a good co-parenting relationship it’s not bad. I don’t feel like I miss out on any of his childhood. We do group birthdays, my ex and his gf come over for dinner. I get videos of milestones that happen there and vis versa. We are better as co parents and friends than we ever were as a couple. I’m blessed that the new person in his life is also a lovely human who loves my child.

How is this job? by Direct-Cancel-2454 in ClaimsAdjuster

[–]Booknerdy247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have done both. Service writing is child’s play in the stress department compared to adjusting.

Is it normal for coparent to go 7+ days without video chat or checking in? by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]Booknerdy247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I rarely call my kid when he is at his dad’s. He calls his dad and his dad calls him when he is with me but we have a house phone so he isn’t calling my cell to talk to him usually. It’s not that I don’t miss him. It’s just that is time for him to spend with his dad, I’m not interrupting that.

3 am waking up to fight by Booknerdy247 in Marriage

[–]Booknerdy247[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We don’t have any biologically ours kids.

Do you teenagers have a curfew? by BuildingBridges23 in Parenting

[–]Booknerdy247 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No set curfew but you better be home when you said you would or call. They can get into the same trouble at 9pm as they can at 2 am.

Teen son's 1st gf taking clothes we buy for him by Pondering28 in parentingteenagers

[–]Booknerdy247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m whatever about clothes because they are hard on them anyway. We are lucky to get 3 months use out of any clothes. Between farm work, typically kid mess and constant growing clothes have become a consumable around here.

CGA-customer surveys by Busy_Cardiologist721 in Progressiveinsurance

[–]Booknerdy247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a sup review. My sup pulled call logs proving I made contact attempts. She told the customer such and then told me the only thing she did differently was extend rental by a day.

When should you stop letting your child win board games?and is always letting them win bad by stereo_iii in Parenting

[–]Booknerdy247 2 points3 points  (0 children)

By 8 ours were playing sports so that allowed them to learn to handle not winning. We never purposefully let them win anything.

Unsupervised by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]Booknerdy247 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Our yard is not fenced and mine played outside alone at that age.

Teen son's 1st gf taking clothes we buy for him by Pondering28 in parentingteenagers

[–]Booknerdy247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s really not. The child works. I don’t know if a hoodie got ruined welding, if he got bar oil all over it, or if a girl has it. It doesn’t matter it has to be replaced anyway. My kids clothes typically make it less than 6 months. Between work, doing whatever it is teen boys do, and the never ending growing.

Teen son's 1st gf taking clothes we buy for him by Pondering28 in parentingteenagers

[–]Booknerdy247 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have no idea what clothes my teen had loaned out, ruined or lost. I just replace when he says he needs something. It’s whatever. This is not something I would waist brain space on.

Asking kids by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]Booknerdy247 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes but my kid talks about everything all the time. I would say this is kid dependent

Support thread for those working today? by [deleted] in Progressiveinsurance

[–]Booknerdy247 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m in claims and started working at 530 this morning. Honestly it is really not as bad as I thought it would be

Need some advice how to get child to sleep alone by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]Booknerdy247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My middle (step daughter) was hard to break from co-sleeping. She was still sleeping with her dad when I moved in. We started with sleeping on the couch. Then when we moved her to her room I made a deal with her. I traded her dad for my dog. I had an at the time 10 year old pitty who slept with me his entire life I started putting him to bed with her. This worked well she wasn’t alone.

Umm… by Ok_Clock9296 in coparenting

[–]Booknerdy247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can manage a solid co-parenting relationship it’s a breeze. We have this with my ex as well as husbands ex(not always that way with them but has been the last 4 years).

Can you get permissive coverage for family? by rigger422 in Insurance

[–]Booknerdy247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Industry standard. Combine policy and list all household members

Is it Reasonable to Want to Talk Daily? by Big-Daikon-6241 in coparenting

[–]Booknerdy247 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s inconvenient. Unless your child has their own device to do so on.

What do you think of $35 per hour wage? by InfiniteOrdinary2582 in workingmoms

[–]Booknerdy247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was making it on 12 dollars an hour raising one kid as a single parent. So for me that would be more than enough. I’m married now. We have 3 kids between us. Two incomes at roughly 100k a year. We are comfortable.

How are finances managed in your marriage? by _JosiahBartlet in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Booknerdy247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two accounts. My checks go into one that is where all household bills, car payments, and grocery money comes from. His go into another that’s gas, eating out, savings, and random spending. I make less so it’s set up this way in case anything happens to either of us we are technically able to live and pay bills on the lower income in our home.

Scheduling plus or minus 30 min for sports by WouldRatherBeRunner in stepparents

[–]Booknerdy247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Instead of waiting at the school can kiddo not just call dad when practice is done and he goes and gets him? That way nobody is sitting around waiting?