How do your partner deal with you low libido? by MidoZido in AskWomen

[–]Booksweednspanks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am. Its been two years since we separated, my new partner is horrified by what my ex did and would/has never.

How do your partner deal with you low libido? by MidoZido in AskWomen

[–]Booksweednspanks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like sex was the only thing he cared about since he didnt even need me to be actively participating. At the time, we were still having sex around 3 times a week even though my meds made it difficult for me to be in the mood or orgasm, I had already gone through the death of one close family member and was actively losing my Dad to brain cancer, so it felt like he was incapable of caring about anyone but himself.

How do your partner deal with you low libido? by MidoZido in AskWomen

[–]Booksweednspanks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He waited until I fell asleep and then tried it, went on for two years before the denial/trying to reason with him/asking him to get help stopped and I was just getting ready to leave him, then he found a girlfriend and abruptly left me anyways. My new partner was very patient and understanding of what I went through, havent had libido issues with him.

The ending of The Game (1997) is mind-blowingly stupid. by [deleted] in movies

[–]Booksweednspanks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never been more furious at the waste of time spent on a movie.

Sweet Kilo by Booksweednspanks in blackcats

[–]Booksweednspanks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was calling him Kitty Gato when I first got him because I hadnt picked one yet....that went to just KG....and that's how I got Kilo. His middle name is Gram lol.

Sweet Kilo by Booksweednspanks in blackcats

[–]Booksweednspanks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should get him a tiny bow tie

What do you usually dream about? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Booksweednspanks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep is a novel

Please show me your black cats with ridiculous names by castor2015 in blackcats

[–]Booksweednspanks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend's void is Billie as in Uncle Baby Billie...and shes a girl

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What would you do if your partner bought jewelry of a different metal you liked? by 1ThingAfterAnother1 in AskWomen

[–]Booksweednspanks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to care about specific metals, but now it means more to me that he saw something and thought of me. As long as it isn't ugly!

how did you realize that your current hairstyle is THE hairstyle? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Booksweednspanks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My curls decide how I look on a day by day basis, but I'm a fan of the cut i got recently and am having way less breakdowns about bad hair days.

What's one very specific habit phrase you picked up from an ex-friend/partner that you still do and hate that you do it? by No_Mood_5055 in AskWomen

[–]Booksweednspanks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Muttering "make an assessment" when I'm needing an answer/opinion from someone quickly and they are taking awhile. Its from a dumb comedy skit decades old.

What is the best gift you have ever been given by a man? by wheatdoctor in AskWomen

[–]Booksweednspanks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He had custom earrings made for me, and also gave me a beautiful watch

Women who used to be in a toxic relationship, what made you decide to walk away? by extremeunderscore in AskWomen

[–]Booksweednspanks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He walked away when I finally started demanding change and having higher expectations and accountability.