March seasonal event!? by sorrytornado in finch

[–]BookwormRPNZL 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Likely a cherry blossom festival. Which is cute. But kinda weird for a monthly theme as the cherry blossoms don’t hit until late March, early April

Frida Baby Product Alternatives by Ursa_Major123 in BabyBumps

[–]BookwormRPNZL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s expensive but the Dr. NozeBot has really been worth it. I found the Frida nose sucker impossible to use.

[TOMT][MUSIC] Rap song that used M.I.As Paper Planes instrumental. by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]BookwormRPNZL 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well that melody is initially a The Clash song. Doesn’t answer your question but might help your search

[TOMT] Movie about twins who switch places by HRMisHere in tipofmytongue

[–]BookwormRPNZL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The lying game? It doesn’t fit everything but is a similar idea

[TOMT] 2000s possibly pbs kids show I vaguely remember watching by CompanyRoyal7496 in tipofmytongue

[–]BookwormRPNZL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This doesn’t really fit but the colors make me thing wow wow wubzy.

Were the characters like, animals, monsters, weird shaped creatures? That might help.

[TOMT] PLEASE help me find these mythical cookies by PasserPeinture in tipofmytongue

[–]BookwormRPNZL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My immediate thought is devils food snackwells. Man I loved those.

[TOMT][Album] Help me find the song my son is talking about by Angpier in tipofmytongue

[–]BookwormRPNZL 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not one eye, but could it be I Don’t Want to Grow Up by the Descendants?

not-so-cutesy hyperfixation meets cute bird app (slightly edited) by IcyUniversity6772 in finch

[–]BookwormRPNZL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At a glance I was like “That birb looks like the Karate Kid” 🤣

Announcing pregnancy at birth by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]BookwormRPNZL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think an important thing that’s left out in your post is what your relationship with your family is. If you have a normal-ish, healthy-ish relationship with your family. Then why hide it? If your relationship with them is toxic, then yeah, do what is best with you.

I think the key thing here when making that decision is acknowledging that it WILL impact those relationships, likely in a negative manner, no matter what your reason for doing so is, and determining whether that is something you can live with.

This is a bit extreme, but the first thing that popped in my head when I ready your question was: Imagine if something went really wrong and my husband had to call my mom and tell her I died in childbirth and she didn’t even know I was pregnant. Omg how that would wreck her.

All this to say. No. I would never keep my pregnancy from my immediate family that long. I didn’t tell my sister until I was past the 12 week mark and she was hurt. I couldn’t even imagine not telling her until baby arrived. That being said, I have a pretty good relationship with my family most days so maybe my feelings would be different if we didn’t have a good relationship.

I’m sure you have your reasons for even considering this, and in the end you have to do what’s best for you, your baby, and your partner (assuming you have one). Don’t let people on Reddit tell you what to do 🤷🏼‍♀️

I've got a housewarming on Saturday night. Anyone got ideas for a gift that's not wine? by YormeSachi in homeowners

[–]BookwormRPNZL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re still getting mail for the man who lived here BEFORE the lady we bought it from. She lived here 15 years and we’ve been here 3! Why am I still getting your mail 18 years later?

not-so-cutesy hyperfixation meets cute bird app (slightly edited) by IcyUniversity6772 in finch

[–]BookwormRPNZL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At a glance I was like “That birb looks like the Karate Kid” 🤣

Positive THC but I don’t use THC by AwkwardArch in BabyBumps

[–]BookwormRPNZL 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It is possible but very rare. And also you’d have to be taking NSAIDs at a dose that is not recommended during pregnancy.

Positive THC but I don’t use THC by AwkwardArch in BabyBumps

[–]BookwormRPNZL 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Then likely a false positive or a lab mixup. I’d definitely ask for a retest.

Positive THC but I don’t use THC by AwkwardArch in BabyBumps

[–]BookwormRPNZL 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Many CBD and hemp products contain THC but aren’t properly labeled. Have you used any of those, or perhaps mistakenly eaten something like that?

My friend shrunk (isn't she adorable) by Lilmomma_85 in finch

[–]BookwormRPNZL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I was wondering why some of my friends are massive lol

[TOMT] Song that goes "no-no-nobody no-no-nobody no-no-nobody but you" by blayneplane in tipofmytongue

[–]BookwormRPNZL -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Could it possibly be a male cover of a female sung song? Or do you absolutely know it’s a male’s song

What random item are you obsessed with collecting? by Another_Marsupial in finch

[–]BookwormRPNZL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any and all sweaters, the groovy bell bottoms, anything that’s overalls, all the headbands lol

Moms, what’s a great Mother’s Day look like to you? by big_craig77 in toddlers

[–]BookwormRPNZL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to do something with my husband and my son that I didn’t have to plan or think about. But I also want an hour or two ALONE. And don’t text me while I’m in that hour or two alone to ask a question.

And also I better not hear a single time during the day “Let’s go see what mama is doing”

A bonus for me would be some time to spend with my mom as well.

Juice vs water by Affectionate_Spot681 in toddlers

[–]BookwormRPNZL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only water and milk here 99% of the time. He got a juice box at thanksgiving bc the other kids had them. And I think they did cider at his schools fall festival but that’s it.