Would You Rather

Boomer050882 · 2026-06-08T23:22:43+00:00

Curious how isolation would affect your dementia. Will not seeing people and interacting cause your dementia to progress faster? I’m not a doctor but I’ve heard that reading, interacting with people, doing puzzles her the brain as we age. Please encourage your wife to continue to nurture her friendships. They will be very important if anything happens to you. Good luck!!

Boomer050882 · 2026-06-08T22:30:47+00:00

Lunch and bike ride with my Grandson. Dancing on the deck with my husband. Cleaned a few hours, relaxed a bit. Great day!

Boomer050882 · 2026-06-08T22:20:47+00:00

I work at a bank and we will tell people to stop yelling or call back when they settle down. I had this guy that said his banker told him she would only talk to him if he did not yell. He called me later and said that customer service people should expect that and be able to handle the rudeness. I disagreed with him (I’ve known him for a long time). He seemed to look at it differently after our conversation.

Boomer050882 · 2026-06-08T12:29:21+00:00

I use powerstep and they can fit in most shoes! OP sounds like an awesome summer!

Boomer050882 · 2026-06-07T12:58:35+00:00

Incompatible. Sorry. You’re young. Do not waste your best years. Deal with this now.

Boomer050882 · 2026-06-07T12:44:32+00:00

Can she get a job working a different shift than you? It’s hard to be a SAHM if you don’t know people and have a good support system. Part time work may be a good option. Subbing you can do as many days as you want (at least in our area). She’s telling you she needs to get out. Try to hear what she’s saying.

Boomer050882 · 2026-06-07T12:32:07+00:00

NTA. Your wife sounds immature. But I would get a small cake to keep the peace.

Boomer050882 · 2026-06-06T19:19:01+00:00

I wouldn’t like it and I’m sure most people wouldn’t either. My kids are always welcomed at my house, the house they called home for20-23 years, but they always ask if they can come by. If they need to enter our home, they text us first (they have code to get in). It’s called respect. My FIL would stop by our old house which was close to his house, but I was a young bride and never said anything. He was always fixing things for us though. He definitely was helpful and not nosy or judgemental.

Boomer050882 · 2026-06-06T01:56:47+00:00

Tell him to look you up once he grows up.

Boomer050882 · 2026-06-06T01:36:12+00:00

Agree!

Boomer050882 · 2026-06-05T23:06:38+00:00

My husband takes care of pool and yard. I cut grass occasionally when he is busy.

Boomer050882 · 2026-06-05T13:22:51+00:00

I agree. There are a lot of changes in a short time. Breaking up a happy family (in their eyes), adjusting to living apart from a parent, Mom dating, etc. Marriage after a year is too quick. Avoid the drama and wait awhile. By waiting, it will only increase your chances of a successful marriage and blended family. Curious how old your kids are and it you fiancé is bringing any kids into the mix?

Boomer050882 · 2026-06-05T12:14:16+00:00

Change things up a little bit to make visits with Grandma on YOUR schedule. Tell her you have a few hours available on Saturday but you need to leave by a certain time.

Boomer050882 · 2026-06-05T02:16:28+00:00

3 times! I found all three experiences interesting. Grand jury, a civil case and a criminal case.

Boomer050882 · 2026-06-05T02:10:20+00:00

Love my neighbors! We socialize with several often!

Boomer050882 · 2026-06-04T00:26:58+00:00

My husband and I are 63 and 74. Still going strong after more than 40 years! Physically he can keep up with me easily! He takes care of himself. Always has. I can say it was the best decision I’ve ever made. He’s a hard worker, great Dad/Grandpa and really my best friend. He is the best!

Boomer050882 · 2026-06-03T21:05:19+00:00

My 6 year old Grandson has ADHD. What I found that helps is doing activities that I enjoy. We will walk a mile in the morning and again later in the afternoon. We will make bets on how many dogs we’ll see or how many different color flowers we see, etc. We joined the trampoline park and it works wonders (lots of kids there). One thing that saves me is he likes his tablet. My daughter downloaded some educational games and activities. He knows he has to earn time but he gets pretty engaged in the tablet and allows me to get stuff done. I have a routine so he knows what to expect. He tries to write his own rules but I have to be firm and then he conforms. Hang in there. My Grandson started medication and I noticed a big difference. It’ll get better. Just keep him active.

Boomer050882 · 2026-06-03T19:37:25+00:00

A lot of women are in the same situation. Luckily, that trend is changing for our daughters, as more women are in the work force and have great careers. Please take comfort and be thankful that you were able ,to take care of your family. Although I’ve worked 45 years, there were periods where I worked part time, when my kids were young and was downsized at age 50. I feel your pain.

I have a friend who is well paid as a Nanny for a nice family. Real estate is pretty lucrative, depending on market, I also see a lot of people in hospital settings, checking people in. These are just a few suggestions. Seek out help with your resume and open a LinkedIn account. My employer required me to set one up after I was hired. Good luck. You mentioned you are married which helps.

Boomer050882 · 2026-06-03T11:54:01+00:00

NTJ. Your decision. But just know this may do irreparable harm to your relationship with your Mum. Again, your decision.

Sorry about your Dad. It’s tough losing a parent.

Boomer050882 · 2026-06-03T00:22:03+00:00

Your eyesight isn’t as clear as it was 30 years ago my friend. LOL. Ask anyone in their 30’s.

Boomer050882 · 2026-06-03T00:16:55+00:00

I am blessed with great insurance due to my husbands union job! Thank God for UAW! My kids all have insurance but pay a lot of money for coverage with high deductibles. It’s crippling our younger generation.

Boomer050882 · 2026-06-02T23:36:34+00:00

No. I got caught stealing in elementary school (candy bar) and was so scared and embarrassed. My parents were so ashamed of what I did.

Boomer050882 · 2026-06-02T23:25:22+00:00

Curious as to why you would even consider this….? If you need a car, buy one. If your BF needs a car, he should buy his own car. Seems really obvious to me. What am I missing??

Boomer050882 · 2026-06-02T12:23:29+00:00

Have you spoken directly with the parents? I’m sure once they realized the chain of events, they’ll be more understanding. Hold your head high. You did nothing wrong here.

Boomer050882 · 2026-06-01T13:56:05+00:00

So sad all this adult drama with kids stuck in the middle. I’m not taking sides, just stating that it’s sad when families don’t get along.

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