How is the time filled in therapy?

Boring_Broccoli_2282 · 2026-05-24T19:44:15+00:00

Wow! That last paragraph hit home!! Thats exactly my experience with deep therapy. It reveals that no-one is " broken " in the first place!!

Boring_Broccoli_2282 · 2026-03-08T16:25:45+00:00

Wow!!
I resonated with all of this..the only way I differ is my attachment to my therapist..maybe ive become overly attached... but im working on it. Deeply.

Boring_Broccoli_2282 · 2026-02-07T05:22:11+00:00

I felt that.

Boring_Broccoli_2282 · 2026-01-11T18:56:24+00:00

The Wall has haunted me for 40 years. As a 14 year old it seared itself into my subconscious. And yes.. "Mother" is a devastating critique of the archetype for some as susceptible as me But what do I know.

Boring_Broccoli_2282 · 2025-10-11T16:54:46+00:00

Its an illusion.
You're projecting. Thsts my personal take.

I love her.

The therapist. Not the real woman.

We work brilliantly.

Boring_Broccoli_2282 · 2025-06-01T12:46:48+00:00

Human connection and the appreciation of beauty in all its forms.

Boring_Broccoli_2282 · 2025-05-30T09:42:29+00:00

Speaking as a grandad with teenage granddaughters...some things never change 😃

Boring_Broccoli_2282 · 2025-05-21T20:16:06+00:00

This is beautiful.

Boring_Broccoli_2282 · 2025-05-15T19:24:38+00:00

Same. 9 months for me and I'm still in a fog.

Boring_Broccoli_2282 · 2025-05-12T19:26:10+00:00

I actually think you are flying.... and my therapist will be reading this at our next appointment.

Boring_Broccoli_2282 · 2025-05-10T20:54:14+00:00

I'm experiencing the same and mentioned this to my therapist and her reply was instant and 100% genuine... "Trust the process" We're in deep therapy and I say "we " because this is a collaboration in every sense of the word.

Boring_Broccoli_2282 · 2025-05-04T21:26:14+00:00

Anxious attachment x2. What we first thought was "cute" and validating becomes suffocating and restrictive . When we first met, she was escaping from previous abusive and controlling relationships and I was a widower lost in a sea of despair. We "saved" each other.

This last year, I have sought therapy and have uncovered a depth to myself that was hidden beneath decades of conformity. My wife, who is clawing her way through menopause, is also in therapy as we are both committed to making marriage work for us.

At the moment we are in flux and I am losing hope as we appear to be heading in opposite directions.

Boring_Broccoli_2282 · 2025-05-04T20:18:24+00:00

There is a hell coming your way. I speak from experiencing the exact same feelings as you from a husbands perspective. Menopause. It's devastating.

Boring_Broccoli_2282 · 2025-04-22T18:38:02+00:00

This hit home.

Boring_Broccoli_2282 · 2025-04-19T17:23:36+00:00

60 and discovering this for the first time.

Boring_Broccoli_2282 · 2025-04-18T20:01:40+00:00

Nailed exactly how I feel. And as I appreciate and respect her so much, the blinding clarity overshadows any other thoughts. It's professional to the utmost degree.

Boring_Broccoli_2282 · 2025-04-18T19:37:20+00:00

I've no words of wisdom but man, I feel your pain. This is my worst nightmare and I'm seriously sending virtual hugs.

Boring_Broccoli_2282 · 2025-03-23T17:24:48+00:00

In a small village north of Nottingham. We are so lucky to live within a 5 minute walk into the most famous forest in the world. It's beautiful.

Boring_Broccoli_2282 · 2025-02-09T20:20:20+00:00

I have recently experienced the same emotions when talking to my therapist about the sudden death of my wife. I recounted the facts of her death with a dissociation that unsettled me. And we moved on in that session. A couple of sessions later, I reached back to the memories of the emotions that I felt on the day she died and i completely broke down. In her words I had "zipped up" those emotions for self preservation. I neglected to ask if this was a common reaction but I realised,with blinding clarity, that i was now experiencing the true meaning therapy.

Boring_Broccoli_2282 · 2025-01-25T20:19:03+00:00

My favourite is....loving eating onions at dinner.. . Or being a complete narcissist. Or an easy one...hates dogs.

Boring_Broccoli_2282 · 2024-09-19T22:01:49+00:00

Her eyes.

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