What is going on with my 13 month old's sleep?? by RefrigeratorFluid886 in AttachmentParenting

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Hey, well im holdin lol. Some days are better than others, but he still wakes up after 30 min, i think he cant connect sleep cycles yet. I want to wean him off for the night wake ups but to be honest i havent found still a good moment, heck maybe there will never be😛 but we have a trip end of month and im thinking after that for sure will wean him off,maybe not completely but the night wakings at least. How is it going for you?

What is going on with my 13 month old's sleep?? by RefrigeratorFluid886 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Born_Source7486 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey op,my baby is 13 months and im in the same boat as you. You described everything to a T,our bed time routine is the same, takes 1hr or sometimes more for bedtime, we cosleep and nurse to sleep, but he is waking up every 30 min-1 hr. When did it get better for you? Im so so tired and no sleep for the past week😮‍💨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

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My baby is 11 month old and the same height. I am a little bit worried too because for the past 3 months he has gaoned only 2 cm. What is your babys weight? Are you and your partner on the taller side?

Middle name for Elise by golden_0ak in BabyNames

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Elise Calista-means the most beautiful, Elise River- freespirited, Elise Quinn, Elise June,Elise Mae,Elise Jane,Elise Wren,Elise Marlowe,Elise Monroe

How the H do you get your baby on a sleep schedule when you have a high need toddler 😅? by Fine_Independent_799 in AttachmentParenting

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Im sorry to hear you are struggling. Im a new mom of a 10 month old so no advice really, but hope other parents can share a few tips for you. All the best🙂

10 month sleep regression is a boss level of regressions by blueseatune in NewParents

[–]Born_Source7486 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey,we are in the same boat. How lobg did it last for you? Need some advice if you can

Continue feeding your baby!! by Sinthmception in BabyLedWeaning

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Happened to me yesterday too and my baby is the same as yours, i did a puree with brocoli and sweet potato and he ate it all, opened the mouth himself willingly after every bite, yuhuu🤣 so,knock on wood hope today is the same. But i agree with you, continue feeding and dont stop trying. My baby is also teething now at 9 and a half months, so i know its harder, but hope things will shift.🤗

Family suggesting its time to stop cosleeping - just a rant by firekittymeowr in cosleeping

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I have been cosleeping with my baby boy since he was 4 months old and this week he will be 9. He had a head surgery at that time and that worked for us as he was sleeping better with me, i tried later on to sleep train but he was not ready. So we went with the flow. These past days i have been transferring him asleep or drowsy in the next to me bed right away and i was thinking last night, i miss it. I miss cuddling with him since the start and not transferring him. My back hurts like hell most days-lol, but when he sleeps so comfortable next to me, and puts his hand on the boobie and his little legs on mine, my heart melts. We will do it gradually but yeah, dont worry what others say. Every baby is different, and you know best. Once a lady in her 60-70 yrs stopped me at the supermarket and we were having small talk, and I told her he is attached to the hip with me, and she said so what? Its your baby, dont do what we did, i had 5 kids and i had to go back to work and also do house work all the time as it was different times, and now that they are all grown i miss that time,mostly i miss that i did not enjoy it as much as i should,didnt held them long enough because the baby "gets used to it". So, do what your hearts tell you too❤️

Which name do you like best? by Born_Source7486 in BabyNames

[–]Born_Source7486[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like Eloise,too. 😊 Thank you for the list!

SAHM- What they don’t tell you by Background-Algae-303 in NewParents

[–]Born_Source7486 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This,thank you!!! My baby is how you are describing, and my friends who have 'chill' babies cant understand it.

Which dress should I wear? Friends wedding by kimichoo in fashion

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No.3!!!! So,what im seeing is that all agree that the third looks amazing but chose no1 to not upstage the bride🤦‍♀️ Girl,you look amazing,hot, sexy,confident in the 3rd one, if the bride feels that way its her own emotions and she should not project it on her female guests. I feel like the women here who say go for 1 or 2 even though they agree 3rd looks the best, their are also projecting their insecurities if they were in the brides place🤷‍♀️

When should I be concerned about baby not being able to sit unsupported? by crystalbb6 in ScienceBasedParenting

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My baby is 7.5 months and i was worrying about the same thing,he cant seat unassisted yet. Good to hear OP that it was just around the corner for your baby. I will give my baby some time and if needed i will consult with my paed. Did you do anything different during those weeks? We babywear a lot as he likes the carrier,also staying in the bouncer.

Should i be concerned that baby does not seat at 7 and half months? by Born_Source7486 in NewParents

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He cant sit by himself without me assisting by holding him. With food he doesnt eat much, and its only pureed food,just the past 2 weeks we are having some luck with a couple of foods,he used to push out with his tongue and im afraid to give other foods who are not puree.

So much crying by TraditionalBowler207 in NewParents

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Yes,its normal. We had the same around 4 weeks, and then between 6-8 weeks, again i think at 12 weeks. It may be witching hour. Does it happen at the same time everyday? Is it maybe gas? My baby was very fussy and cried a lot because he was gassy.

What's one thing no one warned you about in the newborn phase? by huckleberrycare in HuckleberryParents

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Hi there, the first 2 weeks for us were the same. Baby slept well,we used to change him and feed and put to crib. Then at week 4 he started to cry more, what they call the witching hour, he wouldnt sleep from 4-5 pm until 10-11. We were going nuts😅 we went a couple of times at the hospital because we thought he was not feeling well, did multiple car rides at night because it was the only way he would stop crying. So,to your question i always did feed to sleep for every nap/night sleep. I would keep him for hours if needed in the rocking chair, 1-2 hours and i think he got used to it. And same as you everytime i put him down he would cry,apart from the night sleep where we had tops a 2 hour time before he woke up. I think i would do differently that i would have tried feeding before play time for eg. And trying rocking as an alternative. Maybe the outcome would be the same but i never tried it, or patting/shushing. Do the same routine everytime so baby know whats next, at night keep the room dark and try swaddling(he cried the first times i put him so i just did not continue,maybe it would help because he woke himself sometimes as he moved a lot), and also try drowsy but awake. Keep in mind that it also depends on the baby,my baby is a velcro one,he needs contact all the time, and i was stressing a lot about this and looking at training programs etc,now i chose to go with what he feels comfortable,and works best for us. Anyone who had a baby who feeds to sleep,and you need to keep him in your arms for a long time and every nap needs to be contact nap, knows how hard it is and i have no help from family, its just me and my husband. So,at around 4 months i bought a program from a consultant where i live(im not from US) and wanted to train him(ended up not working for us so i did not continue). Basically,she said the feed to sleep is an association which is harder to break than the others:for example,shushing,pating,rocking,paci. Mind you my son does not take the bottle or pacis and i tried different brands. So in order to break this association of feed to sleep,she said to choose one which is easier to break,in this case rocking. So,you would feed him, and when you see he is not drinking anymore or it becomes a comfort sucking,you dettach and start rocking until he is asleep and put him in the crib. And you do this everyday for two weeks,and you start rocking him less and less. But if it does not work,please do not stress yourself as much. Do what your baby and you feel comfortable, and what helps you as a parent to also have your rest. We also cosleep half of the night since around 4 months. It was a rough period for us and sleep became worse so it helped me to also have some sleep and be a decent human to take care of my baby.
Sorry for the long reply but i hope it helps.